Wailing

Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Three things will remain in my ummah continuously until the Hour is established: wailing over the dead, boasting about lineage, and relying on the stars."
Abu Ya'la recorded it, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).

Sayyiduna Junadah bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Three things belong to the affairs of the Jahiliyyah which the people of Islam will never abandon: hoping for rain to come down by means of the stars, attacking people's lineage, and wailing over the dead."
Al-Bazzar, and al-Tabarani in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, recorded it via Mus'ab bin Ubaydullah bin Junadah, from his father, from his grandfather. I did not find anyone who gave a biography of Mus'ab or of his father.

Sayyiduna Awf bin Malik al-Muzani (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Three things belong to the affairs of the Jahiliyyah which people will not leave (the narrator is unsure; perhaps the words are:) which people will not abandon: attacking people's lineage, wailing over the dead, and their saying: 'Rain has come down upon us because of such-and-such a star and such-and-such a star.'"
Al-Bazzar recorded it, and al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains Kathir bin Abdullah al-Muzani, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "There are four things in my ummah which they will not abandon: boasting about ancestry, attacking people's lineage, and wailing over the dead. On the Day of Resurrection the wailing woman, if she did not repent (in this world) of wailing, will be raised wearing a shirt of qatiran (a substance like tar or pitch obtained from certain trees)." (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say:
This narration is reported in the Sahih in abridged form.
Al-Bazzar recorded it, and its chain is hasan (good).

Sayyiduna Abbas bin Abd al-Muttalib (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took my hand and said: "O Abbas! Your people will not abandon three things: attacking people's lineage, wailing over the dead, and seeking rain by means of the stars."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains al-Hasan bin Dinar, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Salman (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Three things belong to the Jahiliyyah: boasting about ancestry, attacking people's lineage, and wailing over the dead."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains Abd al-Ghafur Abu al-Sabbah, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) conquered Makkah, Iblis began to wail, and the members of his army gathered around him. They said: "Give up hope that after this day of yours you will turn the ummah of Sayyiduna Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) back to shirk; but you will put them to trial in their religion, and spread wailing among them."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, and its narrators have been declared trustworthy.

Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The angels do not send down mercy upon a woman who wails or a woman who shrieks in lament."
Ahmad and Abu Ya'la recorded it. Its chain contains Abu Miryah; I did not find anyone who declared him trustworthy or criticised him. The rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed the woman who wails and the woman who listens attentively to her. He said: "Women have no share in the funeral."
Al-Bazzar, and al-Tabarani in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, recorded it. Its chain contains al-Sabbah Abu Abdullah; I did not find anyone who mentioned him.

Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two sounds are cursed in this world and the Hereafter: the sound of a wind instrument at a time of blessing, and the sound of wailing at a time of calamity."
Al-Bazzar recorded it, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).

Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Any wailing woman who dies without having repented, Allah Almighty will clothe her in a shirt made of fire, and on the Day of Resurrection He will make her stand before the people."
Abu Ya'la recorded it, and its chain is hasan (good).

Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "On the Day of Resurrection the wailing women will be in two rows in Hell: one row on the right of the people of Hell and one row on their left, and they will bark at the people of Hell as dogs bark."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains Sulayman bin Dawud al-Yamami, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) says: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) cursed the woman who wails and the woman who listens attentively (to the wailing).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains al-Hasan bin Atiyyah, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The wailing women will have shirts of qatiran (a substance like tar) upon them."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains Isma'il bin Ayyash.

Sayyiduna Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "On the Day of Resurrection the wailing woman will be on a path between Paradise and Hell. Her shirt will be of qatiran (a substance like tar), and fire will cover her face (or her body), if she did not repent (in this world before dying)."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains Ubaydullah bin Zahr, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) reports from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that he forbade wailing over the dead.
Al-Bazzar recorded it. Its chain contains Isa bin Abi Isa al-Hannat, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: No wailing was done over the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
Al-Bazzar recorded it. Its chain contains Muhammad bin Amr; there is criticism about him, and his hadith is hasan (good).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) when he was visiting Sayyiduna Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him), who was in pain. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) heard the voice of Sayyidah Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her), who was weeping. When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) heard Sayyidah Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) weeping as she recited this verse of the Book of Allah: "And the stupor of death has come in truth; that is what you used to flee from," the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) held back. Then he went in, then he gave the greeting of salam, then he said: "O Umm Salamah, may Allah Almighty grant you something better in its place." When he left, Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) was with him. He said: "O Messenger of Allah! I saw that you disliked going in because they were wailing." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I do not enter a house in which there is wailing or a black dog."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains Ayyub bin Nahik, whom a group declared da'if (weak). Ibn Hibban declared him thiqah (trustworthy) and said: "He makes mistakes."

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: Once I was walking along with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) when I heard the voice of someone crying out in grief. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Go and see what has happened." The people said: "Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Rawahah (may Allah be pleased with him) has died." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He has not died." When that man, who had been unconscious, came to, and was told that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had come to him, he met the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! I fell unconscious, and the women began to cry out: 'Alas, the mighty one! Alas, the mountain!' Then an angel who had a mace placed that mace between my legs and said: 'Are you as this woman says?' I said: 'No.' Had I said 'Yes', he would have struck me (with the mace)."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Al-A'mash did not hear from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Amr (may Allah be pleased with him), and there is criticism about Muhammad bin Jabir al-Hanafi.

Al-Hasan al-Basri narrates: Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) fell unconscious, and his sister began saying: "Alas, the mountain!" or some other word like it. When he came to, he said: "All day today you have kept hurting me." She said: "May grief befall me if I hurt you!" Sayyiduna Mu'adh (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "An angel who rebuked severely, whenever you said 'He is such-and-such', kept saying: 'Are you like that?' and I would say: 'No.'"
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Al-Hasan al-Basri did not live in the time of Sayyiduna Mu'adh (may Allah be pleased with him).

Mus'ab bin Nuh narrates: I met an elderly woman of ours who had pledged allegiance at the blessed hand of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). She said: "One day we (women) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and he took a pledge from us that you will not wail over the dead." After this the narrator mentioned the complete hadith.
Ahmad recorded it, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).

Sayyiduna Samurah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The deceased is punished because of the wailing done over him."
Al-Bazzar and Ahmad recorded it. Its chain contains Umar bin Ibrahim al-Abdi; there is criticism about him, and he is thiqah (trustworthy).

Sayyidah Aishah Siddiqah (may Allah be pleased with her), the honoured wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A disbeliever from among the disbelievers of Quraysh died. His family were weeping over him and saying: 'The feeder of others, who fed them from great bowls, and the fighter who was such-and-such!' So Allah Almighty increased his punishment because of what they said."
Ahmad recorded it. Its chain contains Ibn Lahi'ah, and there is criticism about him.