السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب الخلع والطلاق
Book of Khul and Divorce
باب: ما جاء في كنايات الطلاق التي لا يقع الطلاق بها إلا أن يريد بمخرج الكلام منه الطلاق
Reports on the indirect expressions of divorce by which divorce does not take effect unless the speaker intends divorce by them
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حَدَّثَنَا الشَّيْخُ الْإِمَامُ أَبُو الطَّيِّبِ سَهْلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سُلَيْمَانَ إِمْلَاءً نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ أنا الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، أنا الشَّافِعِيُّ، أنا عَمِّي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ شَافِعٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَلِيِّ بْنِ السَّائِبِ، عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ عُجَيْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ يَزِيدَ، أَنَّ رُكَانَةَ بْنَ عَبْدِ يَزِيدَ، طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ سُهَيْمَةَ الْمُزَنِيَّةَ الْبَتَّةَ ثُمَّ أَتَى رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنِّي طَلَّقْتُ امْرَأَتِي سُهَيْمَةَ الْبَتَّةَ وَاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتُ إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِرُكَانَةَ: " وَاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتَ إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً؟ " فَقَالَ رُكَانَةُ: وَاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتُ إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً، فَرَدَّهَا إِلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَطَلَّقَهَا الثَّانِيَةَ فِي زَمَنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ وَالثَّالِثَةَ فِي زَمَنِ عُثْمَانَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ.
Nafi' bin Ujayr bin Abd Yazid said that Rukanah bin Abd Yazid (may Allah be pleased with him) gave his wife Suhaymah al-Muzaniyyah the battah divorce (a final, irrevocable divorce). Then he came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "I have given my wife Suhaymah the battah divorce, but I intended only one divorce." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Rukanah (may Allah be pleased with him): "By Allah, did you intend only one?" Rukanah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "By Allah, I intended only one." So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) returned his wife to him. Then Rukanah (may Allah be pleased with him) gave the second divorce in the time of Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and the third in the time of Sayyiduna Uthman (may Allah be pleased with him).
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، أنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، نا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ النَّسَائِيُّ، أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ حَدَّثَهُمْ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِدْرِيسَ، حَدَّثَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، عَنِ ابْنِ السَّائِبِ، عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ عُجَيْرٍ، عَنْ رُكَانَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ يَزِيدَ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِهَذَا الْحَدِيثِ ⦗٥٦٠⦘ وَكَذَلِكَ رَوَاهُ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الْمَدَنِيُّ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَلِيِّ بْنِ السَّائِبِ مَوْصُولًا.
Likewise (through another chain).
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ فُورَكٍ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ أنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، نا يُونُسُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ، نا أَبُو دَاوُدَ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ، نا جَرِيرُ بْنُ حَازِمٍ، حَدَّثَنِي الزُّبَيْرُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَلِيٍّ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ: سَمِعْتُ شَيْخًا، بِمَكَّةَ وَقَالَ: نا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ عُجَيْرٍ، عَنْ رُكَانَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ يَزِيدَ قَالَ: كَانَتْ عِنْدِي امْرَأَةٌ يُقَالُ لَهَا سُهَيْمَةُ فَطَلَّقْتُهَا الْبَتَّةَ فَجِئْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنِّي طَلَّقْتُ امْرَأَتِي سُهَيْمَةَ الْبَتَّةَ وَاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتُ إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً فَقَالَ: " وَاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتَ إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً؟ " قُلْتُ: وَاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتُ إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً، فَرَدَّهَا عَلَيَّ عَلَى وَاحِدَةٍ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الثَّانِي هُوَ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ السَّائِبِ وَعَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْأَوَّلُ هُوَ ابْنُ رُكَانَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ يَزِيدَ.
Sayyiduna Rukanah bin Abd Yazid (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I had a wife called Suhaymah, and I gave her the battah divorce (a final, irrevocable divorce). Then I came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), I have given my wife Suhaymah the battah divorce, and by Allah, I intended only one." He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "By Allah, did you intend only one?" I said: "Yes, by Allah, I intended only one." So he (peace and blessings be upon him) returned my wife to me on the basis of one divorce.
أَخْبَرَنَا بِذَلِكَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ بَالَوَيْهِ نا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ النَّضْرِ الْأَزْدِيُّ نا مُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو، نا جَرِيرٌ، عَنِ الزُّبَيْرِ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ الْهَاشِمِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَلِيِّ بْنِ رُكَانَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ الْبَتَّةَ عَلَى عَهْدِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَتَى النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَخْبَرَهُ ثُمَّ قَالَ: مَا نَوَيْتُ بِذَلِكَ إِلَّا وَاحِدَةً قَالَ: " آللَّهِ؟ " قَالَ: آللَّهِ، قَالَ: " فَهُوَ عَلَى مَا أَرَدْتَ " وَكَذَلِكَ رَوَاهُ يُوسُفُ الْقَاضِي عَنْ شَيْبَانَ بْنِ فَرُّوخَ عَنْ جَرِيرِ بْنِ حَازِمٍ وَقَدْ قِيلَ عَنْهُ وَعَنْ غَيْرِهِ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ يَزِيدَ بْنِ رُكَانَةَ.
Abdullah bin Ali bin Rukanah (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates from his father (may Allah have mercy on him), and he from his grandfather (may Allah be pleased with him), that he gave his wife the battah divorce (a final, irrevocable divorce) in the time of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Then he came and told the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that he had intended only one divorce. He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "By Allah, did you intend only one?" He said: Yes, by Allah. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is as you intended."
أَخْبَرَنَاهُ أَبُو سَعْدٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْمَالِينِيُّ أنا أَبُو أَحْمَدَ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَدِيٍّ الْحَافِظُ، نا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ، نا أَبُو الرَّبِيعِ الزَّهْرَانِيُّ، وَشيْبَانُ، وَغَيْرُهُمَا، قَالُوا: أنا جَرِيرُ بْنُ حَازِمٍ، عَنِ الزُّبَيْرِ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، نا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ يَزِيدَ بْنِ رُكَانَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ الْبَتَّةَ فَأَتَى النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: " مَا أَرَدْتَ بِهَا؟ " قَالَ: وَاحِدَةً قَالَ: " آللَّهِ؟ " قَالَ: آللَّهِ، قَالَ: " هُوَ عَلَى مَا أَرَدْتَ ".
Abdullah bin Ali bin Yazid bin Rukanah (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates from his father, and he from his grandfather (may Allah be pleased with him), that he gave his wife the battah divorce (a final, irrevocable divorce) and came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "What did you intend by it?" He said: One divorce. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "By Allah?" He said: By Allah. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is as you intended."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْفَضْلِ الْقَطَّانُ بِبَغْدَادَ أنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ دُرُسْتَوَيْهِ، نا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ، نا أَبُو سَعِيدٍ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، وَنُوحُ بْنُ الْهَيْثَمِ، وَصَفْوَانُ بْنُ صَالِحٍ، قَالُوا: نا الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ، نا الْأَوْزَاعِيُّ قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ الزُّهْرِيَّ أِيُّ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ اسْتَعَاذَتْ مِنْهُ؟ فَقَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي عُرْوَةُ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّ ابْنَةَ الْجَوْنِ لَمَّا دَخَلَتْ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَدَنَا مِنْهَا قَالَتْ: أَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنْكَ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " عُذْتِ بِعَظِيمٍ الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ "، ⦗٥٦١⦘ رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنِ الْحُمَيْدِيِّ عَنِ الْوَلِيدِ بْنِ مُسْلِمٍ. وَفِي رِوَايَةِ ابْنِ أَبِي ذِئْبٍ عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ قَالَ: الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ جَعَلَهَا تَطْلِيقَةً.
Al-Awza'i said: I asked al-Zuhri: Which wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sought refuge from him (peace and blessings be upon him)? He said: Urwah told me from Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that when the daughter of al-Jawn was brought in to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and he (peace and blessings be upon him) came near her, she said: "I seek refuge with Allah from you." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You have sought refuge with the Great One; go back to your family."
أَخْبَرَنَاهُ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ عَبْدَانَ، أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، نا مَحْمُودُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْمَرْوَزِيُّ، نا حَامِدُ بْنُ آدَمَ بْنِ مُسْلِمٍ الْأَزْدِيُّ، نا ابْنُ أَبِي فُدَيْكٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي ذِئْبٍ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، فَذَكَرَهُ مِنْ قَوْلِ الزُّهْرِيِّ.
Ibn Abi Dhi'b (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates from al-Zuhri (may Allah have mercy on him) that he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Go back to your family," as if he (peace and blessings be upon him) gave her a divorce.
وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، نا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ، أنا عُبَيْدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَاحِدِ، نا يَحْيَى بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ، نا اللَّيْثُ، عَنْ عُقَيْلٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ كَعْبِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ كَعْبٍ، قَائِدَ كَعْبٍ حِينَ عَمِيَ مِنْ بَنِيهِ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ كَعْبَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ يُحَدِّثُ حَدِيثَهُ حِينَ تَخَلَّفَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي غَزْوَةِ تَبُوكَ فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ بِطُولِهِ وَأَنَّ رَسُولَ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَتَاهُ فَقَالَ: إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " يَأْمُرُكَ أَنْ تَعْتَزِلَ امْرَأَتَكَ " فَقُلْتُ: أُطَلِّقُهَا أَمْ مَاذَا أَفْعَلُ بِهَا؟ فَقَالَ: لَا بَلِ اعْتَزِلْهَا فَلَا تَقْرَبَنَّهَا، وَأَرْسَلَ إِلَى صَاحِبَيَّ بِمِثْلِ ذَلِكَ، فَقُلْتُ لِامْرَأَتِي: الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ فَكُونِي عِنْدَهُمْ حَتَّى يَقْضِيَ اللهُ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ. رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ بُكَيْرٍ، وَأَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ عَنِ اللَّيْثِ. فَفِي هَذَا مَعَ الْأَوَّلِ كَالدَّلَالَةِ عَلَى أَنَّ قَوْلَهُ الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ كِنَايَةٌ إِنْ أَرَادَ بِهِ الطَّلَاقَ كَانَ طَلَاقًا، وَإِنْ لَمْ يُرِدْهُ لَا يَكُونُ طَلَاقًا، وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
Sayyiduna Ka'b bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) relates his story of when he stayed behind from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) in the Battle of Tabuk. It is a long hadith, in which the messenger of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came and said: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) has commanded that you keep away from your wife." I said: Shall I divorce her, or what shall I do? He said: "You are to stay apart from her and not go near her." And he (peace and blessings be upon him) also sent someone to my two companions; so I said to my wife: "Go to your family and stay with them until Allah decides this matter."
'Ilhaqi bi-ahliki' (Go to your family) are words that are an indirect expression for divorce: if divorce is meant by them, divorce takes place, and if divorce is not intended, divorce does not take place.
'Ilhaqi bi-ahliki' (Go to your family) are words that are an indirect expression for divorce: if divorce is meant by them, divorce takes place, and if divorce is not intended, divorce does not take place.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، وَأَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْقَاضِي قَالَا: نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْفَرَجِ أَبُو عُتْبَةَ، نا بَقِيَّةُ، عَنْ أَبِي الْهَيْثَمِ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ لِسَوْدَةَ بِنْتِ زَمْعَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا: " اعْتَدِّي "، فَجَعَلَهَا تَطْلِيقَةً وَاحِدَةً وَهُوَ أَمْلَكُ بِهَا.
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Sawdah bint Zam'ah (may Allah be pleased with her): "Observe your waiting period." He (peace and blessings be upon him) made it one divorce, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) remained the one with authority over her.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ أنا الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، أنا الشَّافِعِيُّ، أنا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ عَمْرٍو، سَمِعَ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبَّادِ بْنِ جَعْفَرٍ، يَقُولُ: أَخْبَرَنِي الْمُطَّلِبُ بْنُ حَنْطَبٍ أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ الْبَتَّةَ ثُمَّ أَتَى عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهُ فَقَالَ: مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلَى ذَلِكَ؟ قَالَ: قُلْتُ: قَدْ فَعَلْتُ قَالَ: فَقَرَأَ {وَلَوْ أَنَّهُمْ فَعَلُوا مَا يُوعَظُونَ بِهِ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَهُمْ وَأَشَدَّ تَثْبِيتًا} [النساء: ٦٦] مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلَى ذَلِكَ؟ قَالَ: قَدْ فَعَلْتُ، قَالَ: " أَمْسِكْ عَلَيْكَ امْرَأَتَكَ فَإِنَّ الْوَاحِدَةَ تُبِتُّ " ⦗٥٦٢⦘.
Muhammad bin Abbad bin Ja'far said that al-Muttalib bin Hantab told him that he gave his wife the battah divorce (a final, irrevocable divorce), then came to Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) and mentioned it. He asked: What led you to that? He said: I have done it. Then he recited this verse: "And if they had done what they were instructed, it would have been better for them and a firmer establishment" [Surah al-Nisa': 66]. What led you to that? He said: I have done it. He said: Keep your wife, for a single divorce separates her.
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو زَكَرِيَّا، نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ، أنا الرَّبِيعُ، أنا الشَّافِعِيُّ، أنا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ يَسَارٍ، أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ لِلتَّوْأَمَةِ مِثْلَ قَوْلِهِ لِلْمُطَّلِبِ.
Sulayman bin Yasar (may Allah have mercy on him) said that Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) said to al-Taw'amah the same as what he had said to al-Muttalib.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ الْأَرْدَسْتَانِيُّ، أنا أَبُو نَصْرٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو الْعِرَاقِيُّ نا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْجَوْهَرِيُّ، نا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ، نا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ، نا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ حَمَّادٍ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّهُ كَانَ يَقُولُ فِي " الْخَلِيَّةِ وَالْبَرِيَّةِ وَالْبَتَّةِ وَالْبَائِنَةِ وَاحِدَةٌ وَهُوَ أَحَقُّ بِهَا ".
Sayyiduna Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) said that when he says these words: 'khaliyyah' (free), 'bariyyah' (quit), 'al-battah' (definitive) and 'al-ba'inah' (separated), it is one divorce, and he has more right to her.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو، نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ الْأَصَمُّ، أنا الرَّبِيعُ، أنا الشَّافِعِيُّ، أنا مَالِكٌ أَنَّهُ بَلَغَهُ أَنَّهُ كُتِبَ إِلَى عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ مِنَ الْعِرَاقِ أَنَّ رَجُلًا قَالَ لِامْرَأَتِهِ: حَبْلُكِ عَلَى غَارِبِكِ فَكَتَبَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ إِلَى عَامِلِهِ أَنْ مُرْهُ أَنْ يُوَافِيَنِي فِي الْمَوْسِمِ فَبَيْنَمَا عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ يَطُوفُ بِالْبَيْتِ إِذْ لَقِيَهُ الرَّجُلُ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ: مَنْ أَنْتَ؟ قَالَ: أَنَا الَّذِي أَمَرْتَ أَنْ يُجْلَبَ عَلَيْكَ، فَقَالَ: أَنْشُدُكَ بِرَبِّ هَذِهِ الْبَنِيَّةِ هَلْ أَرَدْتَ بِقَوْلِكَ حَبْلُكِ عَلَى غَارِبِكِ الطَّلَاقَ؟ فَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ: لَوِ اسْتَحْلَفْتَنِي فِي غَيْرِ هَذَا الْمَكَانِ مَا صَدَقْتُكَ أَرَدْتُ الْفِرَاقَ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: " هُوَ مَا أَرَدْتَ " ⦗٥٦٣⦘.
Imam Malik (may Allah have mercy on him) said that a letter was written to Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) from Iraq stating that a man had said to his wife: 'Habluki ala gharibiki' (your rope is on your withers). Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) wrote to his governor to order him to meet him during the Hajj season. He met Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) while he was performing tawaf and greeted him. Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) asked: Who are you? He said: I am the one whom you ordered to appear. Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I adjure you by the Lord of this building, what did you intend by your saying 'Habluki ala gharibiki'? Did you intend divorce? The man said: Had you put me under oath anywhere other than this place, I would not have told you the truth; I intended separation. Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: It is as you intended.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي الْمَعْرُوفِ الْفَقِيهُ أنا بِشْرُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ الْإِسْفِرَايِينِيُّ، أنا أَبُو جَعْفَرٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ بْنِ نَصْرٍ الْحَذَّاءُ أنا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْمَدِينِيِّ، نا غَسَّانُ بْنُ مُضَرَ، نا سَعِيدُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ، عَنْ أَبِي الْحَلَالِ الْعَتَكِيِّ قَالَ: جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ إِنَّهُ قَالَ لِامْرَأَتِهِ: حَبْلُكِ عَلَى غَارِبِكِ فَقَالَ لَهُ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: وَافِ مَعَنَا الْمَوْسِمَ فَأَتَاهُ الرَّجُلُ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ الْحَرَامِ فَقَصَّ عَلَيْهِ الْقِصَّةَ فَقَالَ تَرَى ذَلِكَ الْأَصْلَعَ يَطُوفُ بِالْبَيْتِ اذْهَبْ إِلَيْهِ فَسَلْهُ ثُمَّ ارْجِعْ فَأَخْبِرْنِي بِمَا رَجَعَ إِلَيْكَ، قَالَ: فَذَهَبَ إِلَيْهِ فَإِذَا هُوَ عَلِيٌّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ مَنْ بَعَثَكَ إِلِيَّ؟ فَقَالَ: أَمِيرُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ قَالَ: إِنَّهُ قَالَ لِامْرَأَتِهِ حَبْلُكِ عَلَى غَارِبِكِ، فَقَالَ: اسْتَقْبِلِ الْبَيْتَ وَاحْلِفْ بِاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتَ طَلَاقًا، فَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ: وَأَنَا أَحْلِفُ بِاللهِ مَا أَرَدْتُ إِلَّا الطَّلَاقَ، فَقَالَ: " بَانَتْ مِنْكَ امْرَأَتُكَ ".
Abu al-Hallal al-Ataki (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A man came to Sayyiduna Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) who had said to his wife: 'Habluki ala gharibiki' (your rope is on your withers). Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Meet us during the Hajj season." So the man related his story at the House of Allah, and he said: "Do you see that bald man who is performing tawaf around the House of Allah? Go to him and ask him, then come back and tell me." When the man went to him, it was Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him). Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) asked: "Who sent you to me?" The man said: "The Commander of the Believers; (the matter is) that he said to his wife: 'Habluki ala gharibiki'." Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Face the House of Allah and swear by Allah that you did not intend divorce." The man said: "By Allah, I did intend divorce." Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Your wife has become separated from you."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو نَصْرِ بْنُ قَتَادَةَ، أنا أَبُو الْفَضْلِ بْنُ خَمِيرَوَيْهِ، نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ نَجْدَةَ، نا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، نا هُشَيْمٌ، أنا مَنْصُورٌ، عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ أَبِي رَبَاحٍ أَنَّ رَجُلًا قَالَ لِامْرَأَتِهِ: حَبْلُكِ ⦗٥٦٣⦘ عَلَى غَارِبِكِ قَالَ ذَلِكَ مِرَارًا فَأَتَى عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَاسْتَحْلَفَهُ بَيْنَ الرُّكْنِ وَالْمَقَامِ مَا الَّذِي أَرَدْتَ بِقَوْلِكَ؟ قَالَ: أَرَدْتُ الطَّلَاقَ فَفَرَّقَ بَيْنَهُمَا قَالَ الشَّيْخُ: وَكَأَنَّهُ إِنَّمَا اسْتَحْلَفَهُ عَلَى إِرَادَةِ التَّأْكِيدِ بِالتَّكْرِيرِ دُونَ الِاسْتِئْنَافِ وَكَأَنَّهُ أَقَرَّ فَقَالَ أَرَدْتُ بِكُلِّ مَرَّةٍ إِحْدَاثَ طَلَاقٍ فَفَرَّقَ بَيْنَهُمَا وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
Ata bin Abi Rabah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A man said to his wife: 'Habluki ala gharibiki' (your rope is on your withers). He said these words repeatedly, then came to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him). He asked him to take an oath between the Corner (al-Rukn) and the Station of Ibrahim: What did you intend by this saying? He said: I intended divorce. So Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) separated the two of them.
The Shaykh said: He asked him for the oath only for confirmation, so that he would acknowledge that he had intended divorce each time; then he separated the two of them.
The Shaykh said: He asked him for the oath only for confirmation, so that he would acknowledge that he had intended divorce each time; then he separated the two of them.
قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ فِي كِتَابِ الْقَدِيمِ وَذَكَرَ ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ عَنْ عَطَاءٍ أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ رُفِعَ إِلَيْهِ رَجُلٌ قَالَ لِامْرَأَتِهِ: حَبْلُكِ عَلَى غَارِبِكِ فَقَالَ لِعَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: انْظُرْ بَيْنَهُمَا فَذَكَرَ مَعْنَى مَا رَوَيْنَا إِلَّا أَنَّهُ قَالَ: فَأَمْضَاهُ عَلِيٌّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ ثَلَاثًا قَالَ: وَذُكِرَ عَنْ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ مِثْلُهُ قَالَ الشَّيْخُ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ: وَهَذَا لَا يُخَالِفُ رِوَايَةَ مَالِكٍ وَكَأَنَّ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ جَعَلَهَا وَاحِدَةً كَمَا قَالَ فِي الْبَتَّةِ وَعَلِيٌّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ جَعَلَهَا ثَلَاثًا وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ، وَيُحْتَمَلُ أَنَّهُمَا جَمِيعًا جَعَلَاهَا ثَلَاثًا لِتَكْرِيرِهِ اللَّفْظَ فِي الْمَدْخُولِ بِهَا ثَلَاثًا، وَإِرَادَتِهِ بِكُلِّ مَرَّةٍ إِحْدَاثَ طَلَاقٍ كَمَا قُلْنَا فِي رِوَايَةِ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ عَطَاءٍ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
Ata (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A man who had said to his wife 'Habluki ala gharibiki' (your rope is on your withers) was brought to Sayyiduna Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him). He said to Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him): Judge between them. So Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) ruled it as three divorces.
The Shaykh said: This does not contradict the narration of Malik; it is as though Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) counted it as one, as he did with al-battah, while Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) counted it as three. It is also possible that they all considered it three, for a wife with whom the marriage had been consummated.
The Shaykh said: This does not contradict the narration of Malik; it is as though Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) counted it as one, as he did with al-battah, while Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) counted it as three. It is also possible that they all considered it three, for a wife with whom the marriage had been consummated.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْفَتْحِ الْفَقِيهُ، أنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ الشُّرَيْحِيُّ، نا أَبُو الْقَاسِمِ الْبَغَوِيُّ، نا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْجَعْدِ، أنا شَرِيكٌ، وَأَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ وَقَيْسٌ، عَنْ أَبِي حُصَيْنٍ، عَنْ نُعَيْمِ بْنِ دَجَاجَةَ قَالَ: طَلَّقَ رَجُلٌ امْرَأَتَهُ تَطْلِيقَتَيْنِ ثُمَّ قَالَ لَهَا: أَنْتِ عَلَى حَرَجٍ قَالَ: فَدَخَلَ إِلَى عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهُ، فَقَالَ لَهُ: " أَتَرَاهَا أَهْوَنَهُنَّ عَلَيَّ فَأَبَانَهَا مِنْهُ " قَالَ الشَّيْخُ: فَكَأَنَّهُ أَخْبَرَهُ بِنِيَّةِ الْفِرَاقِ بِهِ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ، وَرُوِّينَا عَنْ شُرَيْحٍ وَعَطَاءِ بْنِ أَبِي رَبَاحٍ فِي الْبَتَّةِ أَنَّهُ يَدِينُ فِيهَا وَعَنْ عَطَاءٍ فِي قَوْلِهِ خَلِيَّةٌ وَخَلَوْتِ مِنِّي وَبَرِيَّةٌ وَبَرِئْتِ مِنِّي وَبَائِنَةٌ وَبِنْتِ مِنِّي أَنَّهُ يَدِينُ فِيهَا وَكَذَلِكَ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ.
Abu Husayn narrates from Nu'aym bin Dajajah that a man gave his wife two divorces, then said to her: You are forbidden to me. He went to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and mentioned it, and Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to the man: Do you think these are insignificant in my sight? Then he separated the woman from the man.
The Shaykh said: So the man's intention was separation.
(b) It has been narrated from Shurayh and Ata bin Abi Rabah (may Allah have mercy on them) regarding al-battah that the husband is taken at his word (as to his intention) in it; and from Ata (may Allah have mercy on him) regarding the husband's saying 'khaliyyah wa khalawti minni, wa bariyyah wa bari'ti minni, wa ba'inah wa binti minni' (You are free and have become free of me, you are quit and have become quit of me, you are separated and have become separated from me) that he is taken at his word in them; and likewise from Amr bin Dinar.
The Shaykh said: So the man's intention was separation.
(b) It has been narrated from Shurayh and Ata bin Abi Rabah (may Allah have mercy on them) regarding al-battah that the husband is taken at his word (as to his intention) in it; and from Ata (may Allah have mercy on him) regarding the husband's saying 'khaliyyah wa khalawti minni, wa bariyyah wa bari'ti minni, wa ba'inah wa binti minni' (You are free and have become free of me, you are quit and have become quit of me, you are separated and have become separated from me) that he is taken at his word in them; and likewise from Amr bin Dinar.
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ بْنُ أَبِي الْمَعْرُوفِ، أنا بِشْرُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ، نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ بْنِ نَصْرٍ، نا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْمَدِينِيِّ، نا سُفْيَانُ، أنا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ طَاوُسٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: " مَا أُرِيدَ بِهِ الطَّلَاقَ فَهُوَ طَلَاقٌ " وَكَذَلِكَ رُوِّينَا عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ وَإِبْرَاهِيمَ وَغَيْرِهِمَا وَإِنَّمَا أَرَادُوا بِذَلِكَ إِذَا تَكَلَّمَ بِمَا يُشْبِهُ الطَّلَاقَ ⦗٥٦٤⦘.
Ibn Tawus (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates from his father (may Allah have mercy on him) that he said: Whatever is intended as divorce is a divorce. The same has been narrated from Masruq (may Allah have mercy on him), Ibrahim (may Allah have mercy on him) and others, and what they meant by this is when he utters words resembling divorce.
