A man's spending on himself, his family and others

Sayyiduna Amr bin Umayyah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Whatever a man gives to his wife is charity."
Ahmad recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Muhammad bin Abi Humayd, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna al-Irbad bin Sariyah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "When a man gives his wife water to drink, he will be rewarded for it." The narrator says: I went to my wife, gave her water to drink, and narrated to her the hadith that I had heard from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
Ahmad and al-Tabarani (in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat) recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Sufyan bin Husayn; there is weakness in his narrations from al-Zuhri, and this report is one of them.

Sayyiduna al-Miqdam bin Ma'dikarib (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whatever you feed yourself is charity for you; whatever you feed your children is charity for you; whatever you feed your wife is charity for you; and whatever you feed your servant is charity for you."
Ahmad recorded it, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy). (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say: Other hadith of this kind, with various chains, will come later in the chapter on marriage, if Allah wills.

Sayyidah Aishah Siddiqah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever has two daughters, or two sisters, or two paternal aunts, or two maternal aunts, and supports them, the eight gates of Paradise will be opened for him. O servants of Allah, help him! O servants of Allah, give to him! O servants of Allah, lend to him!"
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Umar bin Habib al-Adawi, who is matruk (abandoned).

Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whatever a person spends on himself, on his children, on his household, on his relatives and on his close kin is charity."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains a narrator, Miswar bin al-Salt, who is matruk (abandoned).

Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: A man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah! To whom should I give the surplus of what Allah Almighty has granted me? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Begin with your mother, then your father, your sister, your brother, and then your nearest relatives in order of closeness; and do not forget the neighbours and those in need.
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains a narrator, Abbad bin Ahmad al-Arzami, who is da'if (weak).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The upper hand is more virtuous than the lower hand. Begin with those whom you support: your mother, your father, your sister and your brother, and (then) your nearest relatives in order of closeness."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, and its chain is hasan (good).

Sayyiduna Sa'sa'ah bin Najiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I came into the presence of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah! Sometimes I have something surplus which I set aside for some hardship or for a traveller. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, and your nearest relatives in order of closeness (spend the surplus on them).
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains a narrator whom I do not know.

Sayyiduna Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever spends on himself so that by it he may keep himself from (begging from people), that is charity; and whoever spends on his wife, his children and his household, that is charity."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat and al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. He recorded it with two chains, one of which is hasan (good).

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abi Awfa (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A man's spending on his household is charity."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat and al-Mu'jam al-Kabir. Its chain contains a narrator, Muhammad bin Kathir al-Kufi, who is da'if (weak). (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say: The remaining hadith about spending (on dependants) will come later in the chapter on marriage.