السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب الصداق
Book of the Dowry
باب: ما يستحب من إظهار النكاح وإباحة الضرب بالدف عليه وما لا يستنكر من القول
It is recommended to announce marriage, the permissibility of beating the daff for it, and words that are not objectionable
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْقَاضِي قَالَا: نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ أنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْحَكَمِ، أنا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ، أنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ الْأَسْوَدِ الْقُرَشِيُّ، عَنْ عَامِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: " أَعْلِنُوا النِّكَاحَ " تَفَرَّدَ بِهِ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ الْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَامِرٍ.
Amir bin Abdullah bin al-Zubayr (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates from his father, Sayyiduna Abdullah bin al-Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him), that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Announce marriage."
Only Abdullah bin al-Aswad narrated it from Amir.
Only Abdullah bin al-Aswad narrated it from Amir.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، نا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الصَّفَّارُ نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مِهْرَانَ، نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَابِقٍ، نا إِسْرَائِيلُ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: نَقَلْنَا امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ إِلَى زَوْجِهَا، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " هَلْ كَانَ مَعَكُمْ لَهْوٌ فَإِنَّ الْأَنْصَارَ يُحِبُّونَ اللهْوَ " ⦗٤٧١⦘ رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنِ الْفَضْلِ بْنِ يَعْقُوبَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَابِقٍ إِلَّا أَنَّهُ قَالَ: زَنَتِ امْرَأَةٌ.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says: We escorted a woman of the Ansar to her husband, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Did you have any entertainment with you? For the Ansar love entertainment."
(b) Muhammad bin Sabiq narrates that a woman was escorted to her husband.
(b) Muhammad bin Sabiq narrates that a woman was escorted to her husband.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، أنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، أنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، نا مُسَدَّدٌ، نا بِشْرُ بْنُ المُفَضَّلِ، عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ، عَنِ الرُّبَيِّعِ بِنْتِ مُعَوِّذِ ابْنِ عَفْرَاءَ قَالَتْ: جَاءَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَدَخَلَ عَلَيَّ صَبِيحَةَ بُنِيَ بِي فَجَلَسَ عَلَى فِرَاشِي كَمَجْلِسِكَ مِنِّي فَجَعَلَتْ جُوَيْرِيَاتٌ يَضْرِبْنَ الدُّفَّ لَهُنَّ وَيَنْدُبْنَ مَنْ قُتِلَ مِنْ آبَائِي يَوْمَ بَدْرٍ إِلَى أَنْ قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ:.
Sayyidah Rubayyi' bint Mu'awwidh bin Afra' (may Allah be pleased with her) says: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me on the morning I was sent to my husband, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) sat on my bed just as you are sitting, and some young girls began beating the duff, lamenting those of my forefathers who were killed at Badr. One of the girls said: Our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) knows what will happen tomorrow. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Leave this, and say what you were saying before."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، وَأَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو قَالَا: نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ نا الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، نا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ، أنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ بِلَالٍ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، أَنَّ عَمْرَةَ بِنْتَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ قَالَتْ: كَانَ النِّسَاءُ إِذَا تَزَوَّجَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ أَوِ الرَّجُلُ خَرَجَ جَوَارِي مِنْ جَوَارِي الْأَنْصَارِ وَيُغَنِّينَ وَيَلْعَبْنَ، قَالَتْ: فَمَرُّوا فِي مَجْلِسٍ فِيهِ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَهُنَّ يُغَنِّينَ وَهُنَّ يَقُلْنَ.
Sayyidah Amrah bint Abdul Rahman (may Allah be pleased with her) says: Whenever a man or a woman got married, the girls of the Ansar would sing and play. Sayyidah Amrah (may Allah be pleased with her) says: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by that gathering while the girls were singing:
Her husband gave rams as a gift, which are kept in the pen, and her husband is a man among people who knows what will happen tomorrow.
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) went to them and said: "Subhan Allah (Glory be to Allah)! No one but Allah knows what will happen tomorrow. Say it like this:
We have come to you, we have come to you; welcome to us and blessings to you."
Her husband gave rams as a gift, which are kept in the pen, and her husband is a man among people who knows what will happen tomorrow.
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) went to them and said: "Subhan Allah (Glory be to Allah)! No one but Allah knows what will happen tomorrow. Say it like this:
We have come to you, we have come to you; welcome to us and blessings to you."
وَقَدْ أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، نا عَلِيُّ بْنُ حَمْشَاذٍ، نا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْقَاضِي، ح وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو نَصْرٍ عُمَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ بْنِ عُمَرَ بْنِ قَتَادَةَ أنا أَبُو حَاتِمِ بْنُ أَبِي الْفَضْلِ الْهَرَوِيُّ، نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السَّامِيُّ قَالَا: نا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ أَبِي أُوَيْسٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو أُوَيْسِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ بِنْتِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ سَمِعَ نَاسًا يُغَنُّونَ فِي عُرْسٍ وَهُمْ يَقُولُونَ:.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) heard people singing at a wedding: Her husband has given her rams as a gift, which are kept in the pen, and your love is with a man among people who knows what will happen tomorrow.
Yahya says: Your husband is a man who knows what will happen tomorrow. Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No one but Allah knows what will happen tomorrow."
Yahya says: Your husband is a man who knows what will happen tomorrow. Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No one but Allah knows what will happen tomorrow."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مَنْصُورٍ عَبْدُ الْقَاهِرِ بْنُ طَاهِرٍ الْفَقِيهُ، مِنْ أَصْلِهِ نا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ رَجَاءٍ الْبَزَّارِيُّ أنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ، نا أَبُو كَامِلٍ الْفُضَيْلُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ، نا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ، عَنِ الْأَجْلَحِ، عَنْ أَبِي الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّهَا أَنْكَحَتْ ذَا قَرَابَةٍ لَهَا مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ فَجَاءَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: " أَهْدَيْتُمُ الْفَتَاةَ؟ " قَالَتْ: نَعَمْ قَالَ: " فَأَرْسَلْتُمْ مَنْ تُغَنِّي؟ " قَالَتْ: لَا، قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " إِنَّ الْأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ أَرْسَلْتُمْ مَنْ يَقُولُ: أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ ".
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says that she arranged the marriage of a close female relative of hers. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came and asked: "Have you sent the girl off to her husband?" Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says: Yes. He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Did you send someone with her to sing?" She said: No. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The Ansar are a people who love singing. If only you had sent someone who would say: 'Atainakum atainakum, fa-hayyuna nuhayyikum' (We have come to you, we have come to you; welcome to us and welcome to you)."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ فُورَكٍ أنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، نا يُونُسُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ، نا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، نا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ عَامِرَ بْنَ سَعْدٍ الْبَجَلِيَّ، يَقُولُ: شَهِدْتُ ثَابِتَ بْنَ وَدِيعَةَ وَقَرَظَةَ بْنَ كَعْبٍ الْأَنْصَارِيَّ فِي عُرْسٍ وَإِذَا غِنَاءٌ، فَقُلْتُ لَهُمَا فِي ذَلِكَ فَقَالَا: " إِنَّهُ قَدْ رُخِّصَ فِي الْغِنَاءِ فِي الْعُرْسِ وَالْبُكَاءِ عَلَى الْمَيِّتِ فِي غَيْرِ نِيَاحَةٍ " وَرَوَاهُ إِسْرَائِيلُ عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ.
Amir bin Sa'd al-Bajali (may Allah have mercy on him) says: I was present with Sayyiduna Thabit bin Wadi'ah and Sayyiduna Qarazah bin Ka'b al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with them both) at a wedding where singing was going on. I spoke to them both about it, and they said: "Permission has been given for singing at weddings, and for weeping over the dead without wailing."
كَمَا أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ الْمُقْرِئُ ابْنُ الْحَمَامِيِّ بِبَغْدَادَ نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ سَلْمَانَ، نا عَبْدُ الْمَلِكِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، نا أَبُو عَامِرٍ الْعَقَدِيُّ، نا إِسْرَائِيلُ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ عَامِرِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ الْبَجَلِيِّ قَالَ: دَخَلْتُ عَلَى قَرَظَةَ بْنِ كَعْبٍ وَأَبِي مَسْعُودٍ وَذَكَرَ ثَالِثًا قَالَ عَبْدُ الْمَلِكِ: ذَهَبَ عَلَيَّ وَجَوَارِي يَضْرِبْنَ بِالدُّفِّ وَيُغَنِّينَ فَقُلْتُ: تُقِرُّونَ عَلَى هَذَا وَأَنْتُمْ أَصْحَابُ مُحَمَّدٍ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ؟ قَالُوا: " إِنَّهُ قَدْ رَخَّصَ لَنَا فِي الْعُرُسَاتِ وَالنِّيَاحَةِ عِنْدَ الْمُصِيبَةِ " وَرَوَاهُ شَرِيكٌ بِمَعْنَاهُ، وَذَكَرَ قَرَظَةَ وَأَبَا مَسْعُودٍ إِلَّا أَنَّهُ قَالَ: وَفِي الْبُكَاءِ عِنْدَ الْمُصِيبَةِ قَالَ شَرِيكٌ: أُرَاهُ قَالَ فِي غَيْرِ نَوْحٍ.
Amir bin Sa'd al-Bajali (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I came to Qarazah bin Ka'b and Abu Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with them both), and he also mentioned a third; Abd al-Malik says: his name escaped me. Some girls were beating the duff and singing, and I said: "Do you allow this, while you are Companions of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)?" They said: "We have been given permission at weddings, and for wailing at a time of calamity."
(b) Sharik says that Qarazah and Abu Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with them both) stated that weeping at a time of calamity is permitted; Sharik says: I think he said: weeping without wailing.
(b) Sharik says that Qarazah and Abu Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with them both) stated that weeping at a time of calamity is permitted; Sharik says: I think he said: weeping without wailing.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ، نا مُعَلَّى بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، نا هُشَيْمٌ، ثنا أَبُو بَلْجٍ، نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ حَاطِبٍ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: " فَصْلٌ بَيْنَ الْحَلَالِ وَالْحَرَامِ الصَّوْتُ وَضَرْبُ الدُّفِّ فِي النِّكَاحِ ".
Muhammad bin Hatib (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "What distinguishes the lawful from the unlawful is the sound, and the beating of the duff at marriage."
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السُّلَمِيُّ، أنا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ الْكَارِزِيُّ، نا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، عَنْ أَبِي عُبَيْدٍ، نا هُشَيْمٌ، عَنْعَنَ فَذَكَرَهُ إِلَّا أَنَّهُ قَالَ: وَالدُّفُّ فِي النِّكَاحِ قَالَ أَبُو عُبَيْدٍ: قَدْ زَعَمَ بَعْضُ النَّاسِ أَنَّ الدُّفَّ لُغَةً، وَالْخَبَرُ بِالْفَتْحِ، وَأَمَّا قَوْلُهُ الصَّوْتُ فَبَعْضُ النَّاسِ يَذْهَبُ بِهِ إِلَى السَّمَاعِ وَهَذَا خَطَأٌ وَفِيمَا مَعْنَاهُ عِنْدَنَا إِعْلَانُ النِّكَاحِ وَاضْطِرَابُ الصَّوْتِ بِهِ وَالذِّكْرُ فِي النَّاسِ وَلِذَلِكَ قَالَ عُمَرُ.
Hushaym (may Allah have mercy on him) says: the beating of the duff is at marriage. Abu Ubayd (may Allah have mercy on him) says: Some people claim that al-duff is a dialectal form, and that in the report it is with a fatha; and as for "al-sawt" (the sound), some people take it to mean al-sama' (listening to music), and this is a mistake. In our view its meaning is the announcement of the marriage, making a sound about it, and making it known among people.
يَعْنِي مَا أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو حَازِمٍ الْحَافِظُ، أنا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ بْنُ حَمْزَةَ الْهَرَوِيُّ، أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ نَجْدَةَ، نا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، نا هُشَيْمٌ، أنا يُونُسُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، نا الْحَسَنُ، أَنَّ رَجُلًا تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً سِرًّا فَكَانَ يَخْتَلِفُ إِلَيْهَا فَرَآهُ جَارٌ لَهَا فَقَذَفَهُ بِهَا فَاسْتَعْدَى عَلَيْهِ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ لَهُ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: بَيِّنَتُكَ عَلَى تَزْوِيجِهَا، فَقَالَ: يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ كَانَ أَمْرٌ دُونَ فَأَشْهَدْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَهْلَهَا فَدَرَأَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الْحَدَّ عَنْ قَاذِفِهِ، وَقَالَ: " حَصِّنُوا فَرُوجَ هَذِهِ النِّسَاءِ، وَأَعْلِنُوا هَذَا النِّكَاحَ وَنَهَى عَنِ الْمُتْعَةِ ".
Al-Hasan (may Allah have mercy on him) says that a man secretly married a woman and used to visit her. A neighbour of hers saw him and accused him with her, and the matter was taken to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him). Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Who is your witness to your marriage to her? He said: O Commander of the Believers! It was a private matter, or a small affair, and I made her family witnesses to it. So Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) did not impose the prescribed punishment (hadd) on the one who had accused him, and said: Safeguard the chastity of these women and announce marriage; and he forbade mut'ah (temporary marriage).
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ، أنا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الصَّفَّارُ، نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، نا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أنا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنِ ابْنِ سِيرِينَ، أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ كَانَ إِذَا سَمِعَ صَوْتًا، أَوْ دُفًّا قَالَ: مَا هَذَا؟ فَإِنْ قَالُوا: عُرْسٌ أَوْ خِتَانٌ صَمَتَ.
Ibn Sirin (may Allah have mercy on him) says that whenever Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) heard a sound or the beating of a duff, he would ask: What is this? If they said it was a wedding or a circumcision gathering, he would remain silent.
وَأَمَّا الْحَدِيثُ الَّذِي أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو طَاهِرٍ الْفَقِيهُ، نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ، نا أَصْبَغُ، نا عِيسَى بْنُ يُونُسَ، نا خَالِدُ بْنُ إِلْيَاسَ، عَنْ رَبِيعَةَ بْنِ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " أَظْهِرُوا النِّكَاحَ وَاضْرِبُوا عَلَيْهِ بِالْغِرْبَالِ " كَذَا قَالَ: وَإِنَّمَا هُوَ خَالِدُ بْنُ إِلْيَاسَ ضَعِيفٌ.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Make marriage public and beat the duff for it."
Its chain contains Khalid bin Ilyas, who is da'if (weak).
Its chain contains Khalid bin Ilyas, who is da'if (weak).
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو طَاهِرٍ الْفَقِيهُ، وَأَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو قَالَا: نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ الْأَصَمُّ، نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ، نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، نا عِيسَى بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ، عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " أَعْلِنُوا هَذَا النِّكَاحَ، وَاجْعَلُوهُ فِي الْمَسَاجِدِ، وَاضْرِبُوا عَلَيْهِ بِالدُّفُوفِ، وَلْيُولِمْ أَحَدُكُمْ وَلَوْ بِشَاةٍ، فَإِذَا خَطَبَ أَحَدُكُمُ امْرَأَةً وَقَدْ خَضَبَ بِالسَّوَادِ فَلْيُعْلِمْهَا وَلَا يَغُرَّنَّهَا " عِيسَى بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ ضَعِيفٌ.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) says that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Announce marriage, hold it in the mosques, beat the duff for it, and hold a wedding feast (walimah), even if only with one goat. When one of you proposes to a woman and he has dyed his hair black, let him inform her and not deceive her."
Isa bin Maymun is da'if (weak).
Isa bin Maymun is da'if (weak).
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ وَأَبُو زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ قَالَا: نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ هُوَ الْأَصَمُّ أنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْحَكَمِ، أنا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ، حَدَّثَنِي شِمْرُ بْنُ نُمَيْرٍ الْأُمَوِيُّ، عَنْ حُسَيْنِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ، عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَرَّ هُوَ وَأَصْحَابُهُ بِبَنِي زُرَيْقٍ فَسَمِعُوا غِنَاءً وَلَعِبًا فَقَالَ: " مَا هَذَا؟ " قَالُوا: نِكَاحُ فُلَانٍ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَالَ: " كَمَّلَ دِينَهُ هَذَا النِّكَاحُ لَا السِّفَاحُ، وَلَا نِكَاحُ السِّرِّ حَتَّى يُسْمَعَ دُفٌّ أَوْ يُرَى دُخَانٌ " قَالَ حُسَيْنٌ: وَحَدَّثَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ يَحْيَى الْمَازِنِيُّ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ يَكْرَهُ نِكَاحَ السِّرِّ حَتَّى يُضْرَبَ بِالدُّفِّ حُسَيْنُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ ضَعِيفٌ.
Sayyiduna Ali bin Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) says that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) passed by Banu Zurayq, and they heard the sound of singing and play. He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "What is this?" They said: O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! This is the marriage of so-and-so. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Marriage is what completes one's religion, not fornication; and marriage is not to be kept secret, until the sound of the duff is heard or smoke is seen."
(b) Amr bin Yahya al-Mazini (may Allah have mercy on him) says that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) disliked secret marriage, until the duff was beaten for it.
Husayn bin Abdullah is da'if (weak).
(b) Amr bin Yahya al-Mazini (may Allah have mercy on him) says that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) disliked secret marriage, until the duff was beaten for it.
Husayn bin Abdullah is da'if (weak).
