Ibn Sirin (may Allah have mercy on him) says that whenever Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) heard a sound or the beating of a duff, he would ask: What is this? If they said it was a wedding or a circumcision gathering, he would remain silent.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الصداق / 14697