السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب الجنائز
Book of Funerals
باب: سياق أخبار تدل على جواز البكاء بعد الموت.
Reports indicating that weeping after death is permissible
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ عَبْدَانَ، أنبأ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ الصَّفَّارُ، أنبأ إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْقَاضِي، ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ هِلَالٍ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ: نَعَى رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ جَعْفَرًا وَزَيْدَ بْنَ حَارِثَةَ وَعَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ رَوَاحَةَ نَعَاهُمْ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَجِئَ خَبَرُهُمْ نَعَاهُمْ وَعَيْنَاهُ تَذْرِفَانِ "، رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ حَرْبٍ. وَقَدْ رُوِّينَا عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ أَنَّهُ قَالَ: " شَهِدْنَا ابْنَةً لِرَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَرَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ جَالِسٌ عَلَى الْقَبْرِ فَرَأَيْتُ عَيْنَيْهِ تَدْمَعَانِ ".
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) announced the death of Ja'far, Zayd bin Harithah and Abdullah bin Rawahah (may Allah be pleased with them) before the news of them had arrived, while his (peace and blessings be upon him) eyes were shedding tears.
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) also said: We attended (the burial of) a daughter of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was sitting at the grave, and I saw his eyes shedding tears.
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) also said: We attended (the burial of) a daughter of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was sitting at the grave, and I saw his eyes shedding tears.
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الْحَافِظُ، وَأَبُو الْفَضْلِ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ قَالَا: ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ الْفَرَّاءُ، أنبأ يَعْلَى بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، ثنا أَبُو مُنَيْنٍ يَزِيدُ بْنُ كَيْسَانَ عَنْ أَبِي حَازِمٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ زَارَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَبْرَ أُمِّهِ فَبَكَى وَأَبْكَى مَنْ حَوْلَهُ ثُمَّ قَالَ: " اسْتَأْذَنْتُ رَبِّي أَنْ أَزُورَ قَبْرَهَا فَأَذِنَ لِي وَاسْتَأْذَنْتُهُ أَنْ أَسْتَغْفِرَ لَهَا فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ لِي فَزُورُوا الْقُبُورَ فَإِنَّهَا تُذَكِّرُ الْمَوْتَ " أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ مِنْ حَدِيثِ يَزِيدَ..
Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) visited the grave of his mother, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) wept and made those around him weep as well. Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I asked my Lord for permission to visit her grave, and I was granted permission; and I asked permission to pray for her forgiveness, and I was not granted permission. So visit the graves, for they remind of death."
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ، ثنا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ، أنبأ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، ثنا يَزِيدُ، فَذَكَرَهُ. رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي بَعْضِ النُّسَخِ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عُبَيْدٍ.
Muhammad bin Ubayd said: Yazid narrated a similar hadith to us.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَحْيَى بْنِ عَبْدِ الْجَبَّارِ السُّكَّرِيُّ، بِبَغْدَادَ، أنبأ إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الصَّفَّارُ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ الرَّمَادِيُّ، ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أنبأ مَعْمَرٌ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ وَهْبِ بْنِ كَيْسَانَ، أَنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَمْرٍو أَخْبَرَهُ، أَنَّ سَلَمَةَ بْنَ الْأَزْرَقِ كَانَ جَالِسًا عِنْدَ ابْنِ عُمَرَ بِالسُّوقِ فَمُرَّ بِجِنَازَةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا، قَالَ: فَعَابَ ذَلِكَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ وَانْتَهَرَهُنَّ قَالَ: فَقَالَ سَلَمَةُ: لَا تَقُلْ ذَلِكَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ فَأَشْهَدُ عَلَى أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ لَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ: مُرَّ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِجِنَازَةٍ وَأَنَا مَعَهُ وَمَعَهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ وَنِسَاءٌ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهَا فَزَبَرَهُنَّ عُمَرُ وَانْتَهَرَهُنَّ فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " دَعْهُنَّ يَا عُمَرُ فَإِنَّ الْعَيْنَ دَامِعَةٌ وَالنَّفْسَ مُصَابَةٌ وَالْعَهْدَ حَدِيثٌ "، قَالُوا: أَنْتَ سَمِعْتَهُ يَقُولُ هَذَا؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ فَاللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ، مَرَّتَيْنِ.
Salamah bin al-Azraq was sitting with Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) in the market when a funeral passed by over which people were weeping. Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) disapproved of it and rebuked them. Salamah said: Do not say that, O Abu Abd al-Rahman! I bear witness concerning Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that I heard him say: A funeral passed by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) while I was with him, and Sayyiduna Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) was also there, and women were weeping over it. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) scolded them and forbade them, and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Umar, leave them, for the eye sheds tears, the soul is afflicted, and the wound is fresh." They said: Did you hear him say this? He said: Yes. Then Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: Allah and His Messenger know best; he said this twice.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنِ فُورَكٍ، أنبأ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ فَارِسٍ ⦗١١٨⦘ الْأَصْبَهَانِيُّ، ثنا أَبُو بِشْرٍ يُونُسُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ يُوسُفَ بْنِ مِهْرَانَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، قَالَ بَكَتِ النِّسَاءُ عَلَى رُقَيَّةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا فَجَعَلَ عُمَرُ يَنْهَاهُنَّ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " مَهْ يَا عُمَرُ "، ثُمَّ قَالَ: " إِيَّاكُنَّ وَنَعِيقَ الشَّيْطَانِ فَإِنَّهُ مَهْمَا يَكُنْ مِنَ الْعَيْنِ وَالْقَلْبِ فَمِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَمَا يَكُونُ مِنَ اللِّسَانِ وَالْيَدِ فَمِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ " قَالَ: وَجَعَلَتْ فَاطِمَةُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا تَبْكِي عَلَى شَفِيرِ قَبْرِ رُقَيَّةَ فَجَعَلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَمْسَحُ الدُّمُوعَ عَنْ وَجْهِهَا بِالْيَدِ أَوْ قَالَ بِالثَّوْبِ. وَهَذَا وَإِنْ كَانَ غَيْرَ قَوِيٍّ فَقَوْلُهُ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي الْحَدِيثِ الثَّابِتِ عَنْهُ: " إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يُعَذِّبُ بِدَمْعِ الْعَيْنِ وَلَا بِحُزْنِ الْقَلْبِ وَلَكِنْ يُعَذِّبُ بِهَذَا وَأَشَارَ إِلَى لِسَانِهِ أَوْ يَرْحَمُ " يَدُلُّ عَلَى مَعْنَاهُ وَيَشْهَدُ لَهُ بِالصِّحَّةِ وَبِاللهِ التَّوْفِيقُ.
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: The women wept over Sayyidah Ruqayyah (may Allah be pleased with her), and Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) forbade them. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Umar, leave them." Then he said: "Beware of the shrieking of Satan; for whatever comes from the eye and the heart is mercy, and whatever comes from the tongue and the hand is from Satan." He said: Sayyidah Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) was weeping at the edge of the grave of Sayyidah Ruqayyah (may Allah be pleased with her), and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was wiping the tears from her face with his hand, or he said: "with the cloth."
Even though this is not strong, his (peace and blessings be upon him) statement in the established hadith, that Allah Almighty does not punish for the tears of the eyes nor for the grief of the heart, but rather punishment comes because of this, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) pointed to his tongue, or He shows mercy, indicates its meaning and testifies to its soundness.
Even though this is not strong, his (peace and blessings be upon him) statement in the established hadith, that Allah Almighty does not punish for the tears of the eyes nor for the grief of the heart, but rather punishment comes because of this, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) pointed to his tongue, or He shows mercy, indicates its meaning and testifies to its soundness.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ الْأَصْبَهَانِيُّ، رَحِمَهُ اللهُ، أنبأ أَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ الْأَعْرَابِيِّ، أنبأ سَعْدَانُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ، ثنا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، عَنِ الْأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ شَقِيقٍ قَالَ: لَمَّا مَاتَ خَالِدُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ اجْتَمَعَ نِسْوَةُ بَنِي الْمُغِيرَةِ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهِ فَقِيلَ لِعُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: أَرْسِلْ إِلَيْهِنَّ فَإِنَّهُنَّ لَا يَبْلُغْكَ عَنْهُنَّ شَيْءٌ تَكْرَهُ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ: " مَا عَلَيْهِنَّ أَنْ يَهْرِقْنَ دُمُوعَهُنَّ عَلَى أَبِي سُلَيْمَانَ مَا لَمْ يَكُنْ نَقْعًا أَوْ لَقْلَقَةً ".
Shaqiq (may Allah have mercy on him) said: When Sayyiduna Khalid bin al-Walid (may Allah be pleased with him) died, the women of Banu al-Mughirah gathered and began to weep over him. It was said to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him): Send word to them and forbid them; nothing has reached you from them that you would dislike. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: There is nothing against them; they are only shedding tears over Abu Sulayman, as long as there is no loud voice or wailing.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ بِشْرَانَ، وَأَبُو مُحَمَّدِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ يَحْيَى بْنِ عَبْدِ الْجَبَّارِ بِبَغْدَادَ قَالَا: ثنا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الصَّفَّارُ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أنبأ مَعْمَرٌ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، أَنَّ فَاطِمَةَ، عَلَيْهَا السَّلَامُ، بَكَتْ أَبَاهَا فَقَالَتْ: " يَا أَبَتَاهُ مِنْ رَبِّهِ مَا أَدْنَاهُ، يَا أَبَتَاهُ إِلَى جَبْرَائِيلَ أَنْعَاهُ، يَا أَبَتَاهُ جَنَّةُ الْفِرْدَوْسِ مَأْوَاهُ ". زَادَ فِيهِ حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ عَنْ ثَابِتٍ: " يَا أَبَتَاهُ أَجَابَ رَبًّا دَعَاهُ " وَمِنْ ذَلِكَ الْوَجْهِ أَخْرَجَهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ.
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Sayyidah Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) wept for her father and said: "O my dear father, how near he is to his Lord! O my dear father, to Jibril we announce his death! O my dear father, the Garden of Firdaws is his abode!" And these words have also been added: "My father has answered the call of his Lord."
