السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب الحيض
Book of Menstruation
باب: الرجل يصيب من الحائض ما دون الجماع
A man enjoying his menstruating wife short of intercourse
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ فُورَكٍ أنبأ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، ثنا يُونُسُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ ثنا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، ثنا حَمَّادٌ، ثنا ثَابِتٌ الْبُنَانِيُّ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، أَنَّ الْيَهُودَ كَانَتْ إِذَا حَاضَتْ مِنْهُمُ امْرَأَةٌ أَخْرَجُوهَا مِنَ الْبَيْتِ وَلَمْ يُؤَاكِلُوهَا وَلَمْ يُشَارِبُوهَا وَلَمْ يُجَامِعُوهَا فِي الْبَيْتِ فَسُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ {وَيَسْأَلُونَكَ عَنِ الْمَحِيضِ} [البقرة: ٢٢٢] قُلْ هُوَ أَذًى فَاعْتَزِلُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي الْمَحِيضِ إِلَى آخِرِ الْآيَةِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " جَامِعُوهُنَّ فِي الْبُيُوتِ وَاصْنَعُوا كُلَّ شَيْءٍ غَيْرَ النِّكَاحِ " فَقَالَتِ الْيَهُودُ: مَا يُرِيدُ هَذَا الرَّجُلُ أَنْ يَدَعَ شَيْئًا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا إِلَّا خَالَفَنَا فِيهِ، فَجَاءَ أُسَيْدُ بْنُ حُضَيْرٍ وَعَبَّادُ بْنُ بِشْرٍ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَا: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ الْيَهُودَ تَقُولُ كَذَا وَكَذَا أَفَلَا نَنْكِحُهُنَّ فِي الْمَحِيضِ؟ فَتَمَعَّرَ وَجْهُ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَتَّى ظَنَنَّا أَنْ قَدْ وَجَدَ عَلَيْهِمَا فَخَرَجَا فَاسْتَقْبَلَتْهُمَا هَدِيَّةٌ مِنْ لَبَنٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَبَعَثَ فِي أَثَرِهِمَا فَسَقَاهُمَا فَظَنَنَّا أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَجِدْ عَلَيْهِمَا " لَفْظُ حَدِيثِ مُوسَى بْنِ إِسْمَاعِيلَ وَفِي حَدِيثِ أَبِي دَاوُدَ الطَّيَالِسِيِّ فَأَمَرَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ يُؤَاكِلُوهُنَّ وَأَنْ يُشَارِبُوهُنَّ وَأَنْ يُجَامِعُوهُنَّ فِي الْبُيُوتِ وَيَفْعَلُوا مَا شَاءُوا إِلَّا الْجِمَاعَ وَذَكَرَ الْبَاقِي بِمَعْنَاهُ رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ زُهَيْرِ بْنِ حَرْبٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ مَهْدِيٍّ عَنْ حَمَّادٍ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that when a woman among the Jews menstruated, they would put her out of the house; they would neither eat nor drink with her, nor live with her in the house. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was asked about her (the menstruating woman), so Allah Almighty revealed: "And they ask you about menstruation. Say: It is a harm, so keep away from women during menstruation" [Surah al-Baqarah: 222] to the end. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Live with them in the houses and do everything except intercourse." The Jews said: This man does not leave any matter of ours without opposing us in it. Sayyiduna Usayd bin Hudayr and Abbad bin Bishr (may Allah be pleased with them both) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, the Jews are saying such and such; shall we not then have intercourse with them during menstruation? The face of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) changed, until we thought that he (peace and blessings be upon him) was angry with them both. The two of them went out, and on their way they were met by a gift of milk being brought for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He sent someone after them and gave them milk to drink, and then we were sure that he (peace and blessings be upon him) was not angry with them.
(b) In the hadith of Abu Dawud al-Tayalisi it is: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered that they eat and drink with them and live with them in the houses and do whatever they wish except intercourse; and he related the rest of the hadith with the same meaning.
(b) In the hadith of Abu Dawud al-Tayalisi it is: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered that they eat and drink with them and live with them in the houses and do whatever they wish except intercourse; and he related the rest of the hadith with the same meaning.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الْقَطَّانُ بِبَغْدَادَ أنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ دُرُسْتُوَيْهِ ثنا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ، ثنا أَبُو صَالِحٍ، وَابْنُ بُكَيْرٍ وَأَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ وَابْنُ رُمْحٍ عَنِ اللَّيْثِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي ابْنُ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ حَبِيبٍ مَوْلَى عُرْوَةَ عَنْ نُدْبَةَ مَوْلَاةِ مَيْمُونَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ يُبَاشِرُ الْمَرْأَةَ مِنْ نِسَائِهِ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ إِذَا كَانَ عَلَيْهَا إِزَارٌ يَبْلُغُ أَنْصَافَ الْفَخِذَيْنِ أَوِ الرُّكْبَتَيْنِ مُحْتَجِزَةً بِهِ ".
It is narrated from Nudbah, the freed slave-woman of Sayyidah Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her), that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would have bodily contact (mubasharah) with his wives while they were menstruating, when they had on a waist-wrap reaching to the middle of the thigh or to the knees, wrapped tightly in it.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، وَأَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْقَاضِي قَالَا: ثنا أَبُو ⦗٤٦٨⦘ الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ خَالِدِ بْنِ خَلِيٍّ، ثنا بِشْرُ بْنُ شُعَيْبِ بْنِ أَبِي حَمْزَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي حَبِيبٌ مَوْلَى عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ أَنَّ نُدْبَةَ مَوْلَاةَ مَيْمُونَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّهَا أَرْسَلَتْهَا مَيْمُونَةُ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِي رِسَالَةٍ فَدَخَلَتْ عَلَيْهِ فَإِذَا فِرَاشُهُ مَعْزُولٌ عَنْ فِرَاشِ امْرَأَتِهِ فَرَجَعَتْ إِلَى مَيْمُونَةَ فَبَلَّغَتْهَا رِسَالَتَهَا، ثُمَّ ذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ فَقَالَتْ لَهَا مَيْمُونَةُ: ارْجِعِي إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَسَلِيهَا عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَرَجَعَتْ إِلَيْهَا فَسَأَلَتْهَا عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَأَخْبَرَتْهَا أَنَّهَا إِذَا طَمِثَتْ عَزَلَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ فِرَاشَهُ عَنْهَا فَأَرْسَلَتْ مَيْمُونَةُ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فَتَغَيَّظَتْ عَلَيْهِ وَقَالَتْ: " أَتَرْغَبُ عَنْ سُنَّةِ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَوَاللهِ إِنْ كَانَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِهِ لَتَأْتَزِرُ بِالثَّوْبِ مَا يَبْلُغُ أَنْصَافَ فَخِذَيْهَا، ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا بِسَائِرِ جَسَدِهَا ".
It is narrated from al-Zuhri (may Allah have mercy on him) that he said: Habib (may Allah have mercy on him), the freed slave of Urwah bin al-Zubayr (may Allah have mercy on him), informed me that Sayyidah Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) sent her slave-woman Nudbah to Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) with a letter. She reached him, and his bed was set apart from his wife's. She returned to Sayyidah Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her), delivered her letter, and then told her the whole story. At this Sayyidah Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "Go to his wife and ask her about this matter." She went back to her and asked her, and she told her that when she menstruates, Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) moves his bed away from her. Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) sent a message to Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both), was angry with him, and said: "Do you turn away from the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)? By Allah, a wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would wrap a cloth round herself reaching to the middle of her thighs, and then he (peace and blessings be upon him) would have bodily contact with the whole of (the rest of) her body."
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، ثنا مُسَدَّدٌ، ثنا يَحْيَى، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ صُبْحٍ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ خِلَاسًا الْهَجَرِيَّ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ عَائِشَةَ تَقُولُ: " كُنْتُ أَنَا وَرَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ نَبِيتُ فِي الشِّعَارِ الْوَاحِدِ وَأَنَا حَائِضٌ طَامِثٌ فَإِنْ أَصَابَهُ مِنِّي شَيْءٌ غَسَلَ مَكَانَهُ وَلَمْ يَعْدُهُ وَصَلَّى فِيهِ ".
Khilas al-Hajari says that he heard Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) say: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and I would spend the night under one sheet while I was menstruating heavily. If anything from me got on him (peace and blessings be upon him), he (peace and blessings be upon him) would wash that spot, not going beyond it, and he would pray in it (that same garment).
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ يَعْنِي ابْنَ عُمَرَ بْنِ غَانِمٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ يَعْنِي ابْنَ زِيَادٍ، عَنْ عُمَارَةَ بْنِ غُرَابٍ، أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ حَدَّثَتْهُ أَنَّهَا سَأَلَتْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ: " إِحْدَانَا تَحِيضُ وَلَيْسَ لَهَا وَلِزَوْجِهَا إِلَّا فِرَاشٌ وَاحِدٌ قَالَتْ: " أُخْبِرُكِ بِمَا صَنَعَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ دَخَلَ فَمَضَى إِلَى مَسْجِدِهِ - قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ: تَعْنِي مَسْجِدَ بَيْتِهِ - فَلَمْ يَنْصَرِفْ حَتَّى غَلَبَتْنِي عَيْنِي وَأَوْجَعَهُ الْبَرْدُ فَقَالَ: " ادْنِي مِنِّي " قَالَتْ: فَقُلْتُ: إِنِّي حَائِضٌ قَالَ: " وَإِنْ، اكْشِفِي عَنْ فَخِذَيْكِ فَكَشَفْتُ عَنْ فَخِذِيَّ فَوَضَعَ خَدَّهُ وَصَدْرَهُ عَلَى فَخِذِيَّ وَحَنَيْتُ عَلَيْهِ حَتَّى دَفِيءَ وَنَامَ ".
The paternal aunt of Umarah bin Ghurab said to Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): When one of us menstruates, she and her husband have only one bed. She said: I will tell you what the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did. He (peace and blessings be upon him) came in and then went to the masjid. Imam Abu Dawud (may Allah have mercy on him) said: meaning the masjid of his house. He (peace and blessings be upon him) did not leave it until my eyes overcame me (that is, I fell asleep), and the cold troubled him (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Come close to me." I said: I am menstruating. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Even so; uncover your thighs." So I uncovered my thighs, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) placed his cheek and chest on my thigh, and I bent over him until he (peace and blessings be upon him) became warm and fell asleep.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ ثنا أَبُو مُسْلِمٍ ثنا أَبُو عُمَرَ ثنا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنْ بَعْضِ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ إِذَا أَرَادَ مِنَ الْحَائِضِ شَيْئًا أَمَرَهَا فَأَلْقَتْ عَلَى فَرْجِهَا ثَوْبًا، ثُمَّ صَنَعَ مَا أَرَادَ قَالَ أَبُو بَكْرِ: وَكُلُّ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ثِقَاتٌ.
Ikrimah (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates from one of the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) (may Allah be pleased with her) that when the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) wanted something from a menstruating woman, he (peace and blessings be upon him) would instruct her to put a cloth over her private part, then he (peace and blessings be upon him) would do what he wished. Abu Bakr (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "All the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) are thiqat (trustworthy)."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ ثنا الْعَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ ثنا زُهَيْرٌ ثنا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ أَبِي مَيْسَرَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: " كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يُبَاشِرُنِي فِي شِعَارٍ وَاحِدٍ وَأَنَا حَائِضٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لِإِرْبِهِ أَوْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ " ⦗٤٦٩⦘ كَذَا رَوَاهُ زُهَيْرُ بْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ وَتَابَعَهُ إِسْرَائِيلُ وَرَوَاهُ شُعْبَةُ، فَبَيِّنٌ أَنَّ ذَلِكَ كَانَ بَعْدَ الِاتِّزَارِ.
(a) It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) would lie with her under one sheet and have bodily contact with her, and he had more control over his desire than you. (b) Shu'bah relates that this was after tying on the waist-wrap.
أَخْبَرَنَاهُ أَبُو الْحَسَنِ الْمُقْرِئُ، أنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ ثنا يُوسُفُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ ثنا عَمْرُو بْنُ مَرْزُوقٍ ثنا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ أَبِي مَيْسَرَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: كُنْتُ أَتَّزِرُ وَأَنَا حَائِضٌ، وَأَدْخَلُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي لِحَافِهِ وَالْأَحَادِيثُ الَّتِي مَضَتْ فِي الْبَابِ قَبْلَ هَذَا أَصَحُّ وَأَبَيْنُ وَيُحْتَمَلُ أَنْ يَكُونَ الْمُرَادُ بِمَا عَسَى أَنْ يَصِحَّ مِنْ هَذِهِ الْأَحَادِيثِ مَا هُوَ مُبَيَّنٌ فِي تِلْكَ الْأَحَادِيثِ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
(a) It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that she said: I would tie on a waist-wrap while I was menstruating, and I would get under one quilt with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). (b) The hadiths that have passed in the chapter before this are more authentic and clearer, and it is possible that what is meant by whatever may be authentic of these hadiths is what is made clear in those hadiths. And Allah knows best.
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، ثنا بَحْرُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ، قَالَ: قُرِئَ عَلَى شُعَيْبِ بْنِ اللَّيْثِ أَخْبَرَكَ أَبُوكَ، عَنْ بُكَيْرٍ، عَنْ أَبِي مُرَّةَ مَوْلَى عَقِيلِ بْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ عِقَالٍ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ أُمَّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ مَا يَحْرُمُ عَلَيَّ مِنِ امْرَأَتِي وَأَنَا صَائِمٌ؟ قَالَتْ: " فَرْجُهَا " قَالَ: فَقُلْتُ: مَا يَحْرُمُ عَلَيَّ مِنَ امْرَأَتِي إِذَا حَاضَتْ؟ قَالَتْ: " فَرْجُهَا ".
Hakim bin Iqal says: I asked Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): What is forbidden to me from my wife while I am fasting? She said: Her private part. I said: What is forbidden to me from my wife when she is menstruating? She said: Her private part.
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ، أنبأ أَبُو جَعْفَرٍ الرَّزَّازُ ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُكْرَمٍ ثنا أَبُو النَّضْرِ هَاشِمُ بْنُ الْقَاسِمِ، ثنا الْحَكَمُ بْنُ فُضَيْلٍ، عَنْ خَالِدٍ الْحَذَّاءِ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، قَالَ: " اتَّقِ مِنَ الْحَائِضِ مِثْلَ مَوْضِعِ النَّعْلِ ".
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both): "With a menstruating woman, avoid a place the size of a sandal."
