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Bayhaqi 1501 — A man enjoying his menstruating wife short

أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ فُورَكٍ أنبأ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، ثنا يُونُسُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ ثنا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، ثنا حَمَّادٌ، ثنا ثَابِتٌ الْبُنَانِيُّ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، أَنَّ الْيَهُودَ كَانَتْ إِذَا حَاضَتْ مِنْهُمُ امْرَأَةٌ أَخْرَجُوهَا مِنَ الْبَيْتِ وَلَمْ يُؤَاكِلُوهَا وَلَمْ يُشَارِبُوهَا وَلَمْ يُجَامِعُوهَا فِي الْبَيْتِ فَسُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ {وَيَسْأَلُونَكَ عَنِ الْمَحِيضِ} [البقرة: ٢٢٢] قُلْ هُوَ أَذًى فَاعْتَزِلُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي الْمَحِيضِ إِلَى آخِرِ الْآيَةِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " جَامِعُوهُنَّ فِي الْبُيُوتِ وَاصْنَعُوا كُلَّ شَيْءٍ غَيْرَ النِّكَاحِ " فَقَالَتِ الْيَهُودُ: مَا يُرِيدُ هَذَا الرَّجُلُ أَنْ يَدَعَ شَيْئًا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا إِلَّا خَالَفَنَا فِيهِ، فَجَاءَ أُسَيْدُ بْنُ حُضَيْرٍ وَعَبَّادُ بْنُ بِشْرٍ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَا: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ الْيَهُودَ تَقُولُ كَذَا وَكَذَا أَفَلَا نَنْكِحُهُنَّ فِي الْمَحِيضِ؟ فَتَمَعَّرَ وَجْهُ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَتَّى ظَنَنَّا أَنْ قَدْ وَجَدَ عَلَيْهِمَا فَخَرَجَا فَاسْتَقْبَلَتْهُمَا هَدِيَّةٌ مِنْ لَبَنٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَبَعَثَ فِي أَثَرِهِمَا فَسَقَاهُمَا فَظَنَنَّا أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَجِدْ عَلَيْهِمَا " لَفْظُ حَدِيثِ مُوسَى بْنِ إِسْمَاعِيلَ وَفِي حَدِيثِ أَبِي دَاوُدَ الطَّيَالِسِيِّ فَأَمَرَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ يُؤَاكِلُوهُنَّ وَأَنْ يُشَارِبُوهُنَّ وَأَنْ يُجَامِعُوهُنَّ فِي الْبُيُوتِ وَيَفْعَلُوا مَا شَاءُوا إِلَّا الْجِمَاعَ وَذَكَرَ الْبَاقِي بِمَعْنَاهُ رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ زُهَيْرِ بْنِ حَرْبٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ مَهْدِيٍّ عَنْ حَمَّادٍ.
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that when a woman among the Jews menstruated, they would put her out of the house; they would neither eat nor drink with her, nor live with her in the house. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was asked about her (the menstruating woman), so Allah Almighty revealed: "And they ask you about menstruation. Say: It is a harm, so keep away from women during menstruation" [Surah al-Baqarah: 222] to the end. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Live with them in the houses and do everything except intercourse." The Jews said: This man does not leave any matter of ours without opposing us in it. Sayyiduna Usayd bin Hudayr and Abbad bin Bishr (may Allah be pleased with them both) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, the Jews are saying such and such; shall we not then have intercourse with them during menstruation? The face of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) changed, until we thought that he (peace and blessings be upon him) was angry with them both. The two of them went out, and on their way they were met by a gift of milk being brought for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He sent someone after them and gave them milk to drink, and then we were sure that he (peace and blessings be upon him) was not angry with them.
(b) In the hadith of Abu Dawud al-Tayalisi it is: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered that they eat and drink with them and live with them in the houses and do whatever they wish except intercourse; and he related the rest of the hadith with the same meaning.
Hadith Reference السنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الحيض / 1501
Hadith Grading محدثین: صحيح
Hadith Takhrij «صحيح۔ أخرجه مسلم 302»