مستدرکِ حاکم
Mustadrak al-Hakim
كتاب معرفة الصحابة رضي الله تعالى عنهم
Book of Knowing the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
ذِكْرُ نِكَاحِ الْكِلَابِيَّةِ وَطَلَاقِهَا
The marriage and divorce of the woman of Banu Kilab or Kindah (may Allah be pleased with her)
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حدثنا بشرح هذه القصة أبو عبد الله الأصبهاني (2)، حدثنا الحسن بن الجَهم، حدثنا الحسين بن الفَرَج، حدثنا محمد بن عمر، حدثنا محمد بن يعقوب بن عتبة، عن عبد الواحد بن أبي عون الدَّوْسي قال: قَدِمَ النُّعمان بن أبي الجَون الكندي وكان ينزل وبنو أبيه نجدًا ممّا يلي الشَّرَبَّة (3)، فَقَدِمَ على رسول الله ﷺ مُسلِمًا، فقال: يا رسول الله، ألا أزوِّجُك أجمل أيمٍ في العرب؟ كانت تحتَ ابن عَمٍّ لها فتُوفي عنها فتأيَّمت، وقد رَغِبَت فيك وحطَّت إليك (4)، فتزوجها رسول الله ﷺ على اثنتي عشرة أُوقيةً ونَشٍّ، فقال: يا رسول الله، لا تُقصِّرْ بها في المهر، فقال رسول الله ﷺ: "ما أصدَقتُ أحدًا من نسائي فوق هذا، ولا أُصدِقُ أحدًا من بناتي فوق هذا، فقال النُّعمان: ففيك الأسى، فقال: فابعث يا رسولَ الله إلى أهلك من يَحمِلُهم إليك، فإني خارج مع رسولك فمرسل أهلك معه. فبعث رسول الله ﷺ معه أبا أسيد الساعدي فلما قَدِمَا عليها جلست في بيتها، وأذنت له أن يدخُلَ، فقال أبو أسيد: إنَّ نساءَ رسول الله ﷺ لا يراهنَّ الرجال، قال أبو أسيد - وذلك بعد أن نزلَ الحِجاب، فأرسلت إليه: فتستَّري لا تُري (5)، قال: حِجابٌ بينك وبين من تكلِّمين (6) من الرجال إِلَّا ذا مَحْرَم منكِ، فَفَعَلَت، فقال أبو أسيد: فأقمتُ ثلاثة أيام، ثم تحملتُ مع الظَّعينة على جَمَل في مِحَفَّة، فأقبلتُ بها حتى قدمت المدينة، فأنزلتها في بني ساعدة، فدخل عليها نساء الحي فرحَّبْنَ (1) بها وسهَّلَنَ، وخرَجْنَ من عندها فذكَرْنَ جمالها، وشاع ذلك بالمدينة، وتحدثوا بقدومها. قال أبو أُسيد الساعدي: ورجعت إلى النَّبيّ ﷺ وهو في بني عمرو بن عوف، فأخبرته، ودخل عليها داخل من النساء لما بلغهنَّ من جمالها، وكانت من أجمل النِّساء، فقالت (2): إِنَّكِ من الملوك، فإن كنتِ تُريدين أن تَحظَيْ عند رسول الله ﷺ فاستعيذي منه، فإنك تحظين عندَه ويَرغَبُ فيك (3).
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 6816 - سنده واه
[التعليق - من تلخيص الذهبي] ترقيم العلميه 6816 - سنده واه
It is narrated from Abd al-Wahid bin Abi Awn al-Dawsi that he said: Al-Nu'man bin Abi al-Jawn al-Kindi came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). He and the people of his family lived in the part of Najd adjoining al-Sharabbah. He accepted Islam and said: "O Messenger of Allah! Shall I not marry you to a most beautiful widow among the Arabs? She was married to her paternal cousin, who died, and now she is a widow and greatly desires to be married to you." So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married her for a dowry (mahr) of twelve uqiyah and a nash (half an uqiyah). He said: "O Messenger of Allah! Do not keep her dowry low." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have not fixed the dowry of any of my wives higher than this, nor have I fixed the dowry of any of my daughters higher than this." Al-Nu'man said: "In following you there is consolation." Then he said: "O Messenger of Allah! Send one of your messengers to bring her to you. I am going with your messenger and will send your family along with him." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) sent Sayyiduna Abu Usayd al-Sa'idi (may Allah be pleased with him) with him. When the two of them arrived there, the woman was in her house, and she gave them permission to enter. Sayyiduna Abu Usayd said: "Men who are strangers do not look upon the wives of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)." This was after the commands of the veil (hijab) had been revealed. The woman sent word asking (then what should I do?), and he said: "Veil yourself; there must be a screen between you and the men with whom you speak, except those who are your mahram." So she did so. Abu Usayd says: I stayed there three days, then I seated her in a litter on a camel and brought her to Madinah, and I lodged her among Banu Sa'idah. The women of the neighbourhood came to her, welcomed her and congratulated her, and when they left they began speaking of her beauty. This spread throughout Madinah and her arrival became the talk of the town. Sayyiduna Abu Usayd al-Sa'idi says: I returned to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), who was at that time among Banu Amr bin Awf, and I informed him. Then, when the women learned of her beauty, a woman came to her (out of envy or scheming) and said: "You are from a royal family. If you want your standing with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) to be raised, then when he comes near you, seek refuge in Allah from him. In this way your worth and standing with him will increase, and he will regard you with greater desire."
قال ابن عمر: فحدثني عبد الله بن جعفر، عن ابن أبي عون قال: تزوّج النَّبيُّ ﷺ الكندية في شهر ربيع الأول سنة تسع من الهجرة (4).
It is narrated from Ibn Abi Awn that he said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) married the woman of the tribe of Kindah in Rabi' al-Awwal of the year 9 AH.
قال: وحدثني عبد الرحمن بن أبي الزناد، عن هشام بن عروة، عن أبيه: أنَّ الوليد بن عبد الملك كتب إليه يسأله: هل تزوّج رسول الله ﷺ أختَ الأشعث بن قيس؟ فقال: ما تزوجها رسول الله ﷺ قَطُّ، ولا تزوّج كنديةٌ إلَّا أختَ بني الجَوْن، فمَلَكَها، فلما أتي بها وقَدِمَتِ المدينة نظر إليها فطلقها، ولم يبن بها (5).
Hisham bin Urwah narrates from his father that al-Walid bin Abd al-Malik wrote to him asking: Did the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) marry the sister of al-Ash'ath bin Qays? He replied: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) never married her, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) did not marry any Kindi woman except that sister of Banu al-Jawn. He (peace and blessings be upon him) became her husband (that is, he contracted the marriage), but when she was brought and reached Madinah, he (peace and blessings be upon him) looked at her and divorced her, and did not consummate the marriage with her.
قال: وذكر هشام بن محمد: أنَّ ابنَ الغَسِيل حدثه عن حمزة بن أبي أسيد الساعدي، عن أبيه، وكان بدريًا قال: تزوّج رسول الله ﷺ أسماء بنت النعمان الجونيّة، فأرسلني فجئتُ بها، فقالت حفصة لعائشة: اخضبيها أنتِ، وأنا أمشُطُها، ففعلتا، ثم قالت لها إحداهما: إن النَّبيّ ﷺ يعجبه من المرأة إذا دخلت عليه أن تقول: أعوذُ بالله منك، فلما دخلت عليه أغلق الباب وأرخى السِّترَ مدَّ يده إليها، فقالت: أعوذُ بالله منك، فقال رسول الله ﷺ بكُمِّه على وجهه، فاستَتَرَ به، وقال: "عُذتِ مَعَاذًا" ثلاث مرات. قال أبو أسيد: ثم خرج عليَّ فقال: "يا أبا أسيد، ألحقها بأهلها، ومتِّعها برازِقِيَّين" يعني كِرباسين، فكانت تقول: ادعُونِي الشَّقيَّة (1). قال ابن عمر قال هشام بن محمد: فحدثني زهير بن معاوية الجعفي: أنها ماتت كَمَدًا.
Hamzah bin Abi Usayd al-Sa'idi narrates from his father, who was a Companion who fought at Badr, that he said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married Asma' bint al-Nu'man al-Jawniyyah. He (peace and blessings be upon him) sent me, and I brought her. Sayyidah Hafsah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): "You apply henna to her and I will comb her hair." They did so. Then one of them said to her: "The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) likes it when a woman, as he comes in to her, says: 'I seek refuge in Allah from you.'" So when he (peace and blessings be upon him) came to her, closed the door and let down the curtain, and then extended his hand (peace and blessings be upon him) towards her, she said: "I seek refuge in Allah from you." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) placed his sleeve over his face, covering himself, and said three times: "'Udhti ma'adhan (You have sought refuge in a mighty place of refuge)." Abu Usayd says: Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) came out and said to me: "O Abu Usayd! Take her back to her family and give her two linen garments." After that the woman used to say: "Call me the Shaqiyyah (the wretched one)." Hisham bin Muhammad says that Zuhayr bin Mu'awiyah al-Ju'fi told him that she died of this very grief.
قال هشام: وحدثني أبي، عن أبي صالح عن ابن عباس قال: خَلَفَ على أسماء بنت النعمان المهاجرُ بن أبي أميَّة، فأراد عمرُ أن يُعاقبها، فقالت: والله ما ضُرِبَ عليَّ الحِجابُ، ولا سُمِّيتُ بأمِّ المؤمنين، فكفَّ عنها (2). ذكر قتيلة بنت قيس أختِ الأشعث بن قيس
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) that he said: Al-Muhajir bin Abi Umayyah (later) married Asma' bint al-Nu'man, and Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) wanted to punish her. But Asma' said: "By Allah! The command of the veil (hijab) was never applied to me, nor was I ever given the name Mother of the Believers." So Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) refrained from her.
