Expelling wailing women from houses and the rebuke for wailing

It is narrated from Sa'id bin al-Musayyib (may Allah have mercy on him) that when Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) passed away, the women began weeping over him. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said that the deceased is punished because of the weeping of the living." But they would not stop weeping. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to Hisham bin al-Walid: "Get up and take these women out." Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) wanted to stop him, so Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Go in, I have given you permission." When he went in, Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "My son, will you take me out too?" He replied: "Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) has given you permission." Then he went on taking the other women out one by one, while Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) kept admonishing them with his whip, until Umm Farwah also came out and the wailing women were dispersed.
I (Ibn Hajar) say: The marfu' part of this narration (the Prophet's words) is recorded in the books of hadith. Imam Ahmad narrated from Abd al-Razzaq with this same chain only the marfu' part, while Imam Bukhari alluded to this incident in mu'allaq (suspended) form.

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Three things will remain in my Ummah until the Hour is established: wailing, believing that rain comes through the influence of the stars, and boasting about lineage."
Imam Abu Ya'la recorded it in his Musnad.

Abu Bakr al-Hudhali (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I asked Imam Hasan al-Basri (may Allah have mercy on him): "Did the women of the Muhajirun also do what the women of today do?" He said: "No. Today faces are scratched, collars are torn, hair is plucked out, and the instruments of Satan are played. Two utterly ugly and indecent voices are raised, at times of joy and at times of calamity. Allah Almighty, praising the believers, said: 'And in their wealth is a known right for the one who asks and the one who is deprived', yet you have made in your wealth a fixed right for the singing woman at times of joy and for the wailing woman at times of calamity. The deceased dies while he owes a debt, holds a trust, and has made a bequest; then Satan comes to his family and, as it were, says: 'By Allah, you will not distribute his estate, nor return his trust, nor pay his debt, nor carry out his bequest, until you first give me my due.' So they buy new clothes, then deliberately tear them; they bring white clothes and dye them; they put up a canopy in the house for this wailing woman, and they call a hired slave-girl or woman who weeps with feigned grief and seeks out her tears in exchange for their dirhams. Whoever calls her, she weeps for him for a fixed fee; she sings for their living in their homes and torments their dead in their graves, and because of the fee given to her she deprives them of their reward. The wailing woman, as it were, says to the people: 'I command you to do the very thing Allah has forbidden you; Allah has commanded you to be patient and I forbid you from patience, and Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, has forbidden you from impatience while I command you to be impatient.' Then it is said: 'Recognise her right'; so drinks are cooled for her, she is given clothes to wear, and she is mounted on a riding animal. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un (We belong to Allah and to Him we return)! I never thought I would live in a nation in which all this would be found."

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He is not one of us who, at a time of calamity, shaves his head, wails and cries out loudly, or tears his clothes."
Imam Abu Ya'la recorded this narration through several chains by way of Hammad.

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The wailing women will be clothed in shirts of molten copper."
Imam Abu Ya'la recorded this narration in his Musnad.

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Any wailing woman who dies without repenting, Allah Almighty will clothe her in a shirt of fire and make her stand before the people on the Day of Resurrection."
Imam Abu Ya'la recorded it in his Musnad.

It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) that he related: I was attending a funeral, and suddenly a woman appeared there. Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) began to push her away and send her back (from there), but she did not care in the least. Then Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both), (addressing me), said: "O Mujahid, we seek reward, while this woman seeks to gather sin."
The chain of this narration contains the narrator Layth bin Abi Sulaym, who is considered weak by the majority of hadith scholars because of his poor memory.