مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابٌ فِي نِسَاءِ قُرَيْشٍ .

The women of Quraysh

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عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - خَطَبَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ قَوْمِهِ يُقَالُ لَهَا : سَوْدَةُ - ، وَكَانَتْ مُصْبِيَةً لَهَا خَمْسَةُ صِبْيَةٍ أَوْ سِتَّةٌ مِنْ بَعْلٍ مَاتَ - فَقَالَ [ لَهَا ] رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " مَا يَمْنَعُكِ مِنِّي ؟ " . قَالَتْ : وَاللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا يَمْنَعُنِي مِنْكَ أَنْ لَا تَكُونَ أَحَبَّ الْبَرِيَّةِ إِلَيَّ ، وَلَكِنْ أُكْرِمُكَ أَنْ يَضْغُوَ هَؤُلَاءِ [ الصِّبْيَةُ ] عِنْدَ رَأْسِكَ بُكْرَةً وَعَشِيَّةً . قَالَ : " فَهَلْ مَنَعَكِ مِنِّي شَيْءٌ غَيْرُ ذَلِكَ ؟ " . قَالَتْ : لَا وَاللَّهِ . قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " يَرْحَمُكِ اللَّهُ إِنَّ خَيْرَ نِسَاءٍ رَكِبْنَ أَعْجَازَ الْإِبِلِ صَالِحُ نِسَاءِ قُرَيْشٍ أَحْنَاهُ عَلَى وَلَدٍ فِي صِغَرِهِ وَأَرْعَاهُ عَلَى بَعْلٍ بِذَاتِ يَدِهِ " .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَأَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ شَهْرُ بْنُ حَوْشَبٍ ، وَهُوَ ثِقَةٌ ، وَفِيهِ كَلَامٌ ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent a marriage proposal to a woman from his people named Sayyidah Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her). She was a widow with five, or perhaps six, children; her husband had died. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: "Why will you not marry me?" She said: By Allah, O Messenger of Allah! What holds me back from marrying you is not that you are anything less than the most beloved of all creation to me; rather, I wish to spare you having these children at your head morning and evening, crying and clamouring. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Is there anything else holding you back?" She said: No, by Allah! The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "May Allah Almighty have mercy on you. Of the women who ride on the backs of camels, the best are the righteous women of Quraysh: the most tender towards their children in their childhood, and the most caring of their husbands in what they possess."
Ahmad, Abu Ya'la and at-Tabarani recorded it; its chain contains Shahr bin Hawshab, who is thiqah (trustworthy), though there has been criticism of him; the rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7425
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده حسن
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه أبو يعلى فى المسند (2686) اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير “ (13014) اخرجه احمد فى المسند (319,318/1)»
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - يَقُولُ : " خَيْرُ نِسَاءٍ رَكِبْنَ الْإِبِلَ نِسَاءُ قُرَيْشٍ أَحْنَاهُ عَلَى وَلَدٍ فِي صِغَرِهِ وَأَرْأَفَهُ بِزَوْجٍ عَلَى قِلَّةِ ذَاتِ يَدِهِ " .
ثُمَّ قَالَ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ : وَقَدْ عَلِمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - أَنَّ ابْنَةَ عِمْرَانَ لَمْ تَرْكَبِ الْإِبِلَ " .
قُلْتُ : هُوَ فِي الصَّحِيحِ خَلَا قَوْلَهُ : وَقَدْ عَلِمَ إِلَى آخِرِهِ . فَإِنَّهُ مَوْقُوفٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ ، وَهُنَا مَرْفُوعٌ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَأَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَرِجَالُ أَحْمَدَ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Of the women who ride camels, the best are the women of Quraysh: the most tender towards their children in their childhood, and the kindest to their husbands despite their poverty (or: the most loving towards them)." Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) knew that the daughter of Imran never rode a camel. (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say:
This narration is mentioned in the "Sahih", but without these words: "He knew that" to the end; in the "Sahih"
this part is mawquf (attributed to the Companion), while here it is marfu' (attributed to the Prophet).
Ahmad and Abu Ya'la recorded it; the narrators of Ahmad are the narrators of the Sahih.
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7426
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ صحیح
وَعَنْ طَلْحَةَ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - يَقُولُ بِطَرِيقِ مَكَّةَ : " خَيْرُ نِسَاءٍ رَكِبْنَ الْإِبِلَ نِسَاءُ قُرَيْشٍ أَحْنَاهُ عَلَى طِفْلٍ وَأَرْعَاهُ عَلَى زَوْجٍ " .
رَوَاهُ الْبَزَّارُ ، وَفِيهِ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي سَبْرَةَ ، وَهُوَ مَتْرُوكٌ .
Sayyiduna Talhah bin Ubaydullah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say on the road to Makkah: "Of the women who ride camels, the best are the women of Quraysh: the most tender towards children and the most caring of their husbands."
Al-Bazzar recorded it; its chain contains Abu Bakr bin Abi Sabrah, who is matruk (abandoned).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7427
Hadith Grading محدثین: ضعیف جداً
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه البزار فى المسند (1411)»
وَعَنْ أُمِّ هَانِئٍ بِنْتِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ قَالَتْ : خَطَبَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - فَقُلْتُ : مَا بِي عَنْكَ رَغْبَةٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، وَلَكِنْ لَا أُحِبُّ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ وَبَنِيَّ صِغَارٌ . فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " [ لِمَ ؟ ] خَيْرُ نِسَاءٍ رَكِبْنَ الْإِبِلَ نِسَاءُ قُرَيْشٍ أَحْنَاهُ عَلَى طِفْلٍ فِي صِغَرِهِ وَأَرْعَاهُ عَلَى بَعْلٍ فِي ذَاتِ يَدِهِ " .
قُلْتُ : لَهَا عِنْدَ التِّرْمِذِيِّ غَيْرُ هَذَا .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ ، وَالْأَوْسَطِ ، وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyidah Umm Hani bint Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) proposed marriage to me, and I said: O Messenger of Allah! It is not that I have no desire for you, but I do not like to marry while my children are small. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Why is that? Of the women who ride camels, the best are the women of Quraysh: the most tender towards children in their childhood and the most caring of their husbands." (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say: At-Tirmidhi recorded a narration from Sayyidah Umm Hani (may Allah be pleased with her) other than this one.
At-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7428
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ صحیح
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه احمد فى المسند (269/2)»
وَعَنْ زَيْدِ بْنِ أَبِي الْعَتَّابِ قَالَ : قَامَ مُعَاوِيَةُ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ فَقَالَ : وَسَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - يَقُولُ : " خَيْرُ نِسَاءٍ رَكِبْنَ الْإِبِلَ نِسَاءُ قُرَيْشٍ أَرْعَاهُ عَلَى زَوْجٍ فِي ذَاتِ يَدِهِ وَأَحْنَاهُ عَلَى وَلَدٍ فِي صِغَرِهِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي أَثْنَاءِ حَدِيثٍ ، وَرِجَالُهُ ثِقَاتٌ .
وَفِي الْمَنَاقِبِ أَحَادِيثُ نَحْوُ هَذَا .
Zayd bin Abi al-Attab narrates: Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) stood on the pulpit and said: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Of the women who ride camels, the best are the women of Quraysh: the most caring of their husbands, and the most tender towards their children in their childhood."
At-Tabarani recorded it in the course of a longer hadith, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy). Other hadiths of this kind will come in the chapter on virtues (Manaqib).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7429
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده صحيح
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير (342/19) اخرجه احمد فى المسند (101/4) ، أخرجه مسند أحمد برقم: 27580»