The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A previously married woman has more right to her marriage than her guardians, and a virgin's permission is to be sought, and her permission is her silence."
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13677
Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) said that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is not permissible for any guardian to decide the affair of a previously married woman by himself; however, an orphan girl is to be consulted, and her permission is her silence."
Al-Naysaburi said: In my view Ma'mar erred in it; and al-Daraqutni said the same.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13680
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Women are to be consulted regarding their private parts (that is, regarding where they are to be married)." Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I said: O Prophet of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! They feel shy. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A previously married woman has more right over herself, and a virgin is to be asked, and her remaining silent is her permission."
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13681
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A previously married woman is not to be married until she is consulted, and a virgin is not to be married until her permission is sought." It was said: O Prophet of Allah! How will her permission be given? He said: "If she remains silent, that is her consent."
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13682
The father of Khansa bint Khidam al-Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) married her off while she was previously married, and she disliked it. She came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and he (peace and blessings be upon him) annulled her marriage.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13683
Mujammi' bin Yazid and Abd al-Rahman bin Yazid (may Allah be pleased with them both) informed al-Qasim bin Muhammad (may Allah have mercy on him) that a man from among them, who was called Khidam (may Allah be pleased with him), married his daughter to a man whom she disliked. She came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned the matter, so he (peace and blessings be upon him) annulled her marriage. Then she married Abu Lubabah bin Abd al-Mundhir (may Allah be pleased with him).
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13684
It is narrated concerning Khansa bint Khidam bin Khalid (may Allah be pleased with her) that she had become husbandless after (being married to) a man, and her father married her to a man from Banu Awf, but she longed for Abu Lubabah bin Abd al-Mundhir. Her case was raised to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered her father to let her follow her own wish, so she married Abu Lubabah.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13685
Khansa bint Khidam (may Allah be pleased with her) was widowed, and her father married her to someone she disliked. She came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: My father has married me to someone I dislike, although I am the owner of my own affair, and he did not even let me know. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "There is no marriage for him (that is, what he arranged is not valid); marry whomever you wish." So she married Abu Lubabah bin Abd al-Mundhir (may Allah be pleased with him).
This is mursal, and it is a supporting witness (shahid) for what preceded.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13686
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man in the time of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married off his daughter, who was previously married, having been with a man, and she disliked it. She came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned it to him, and he annulled her marriage.
Umar bin Abi Salamah narrated it from his father, naming the woman as Khansa bint Khidam, and he mentioned it as mursal. It has also been reported from him with a connected chain, but the mursal from him is more correct, and the connected reports that have preceded are sufficient.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13687
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) that a woman's husband died, and she had a son. The boy's paternal uncle sent a marriage proposal for the woman to her father, saying: Marry her to me. But he refused, and he married the woman off without her consent. The woman came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned the whole matter. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent a man to him, then said: "Did you marry her to someone other than her son's paternal uncle?" He said: Yes, I married her to a man better than her son's paternal uncle. So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) separated the two of them and married her to her son's paternal uncle.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13688
Abu Salamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A woman came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: My father has married me to someone I dislike, and I want to marry my son's paternal uncle. He (peace and blessings be upon him) annulled her marriage.
This is the correct version: mursal from Abu Salamah.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13689