Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Women are to be consulted regarding their private parts (that is, regarding where they are to be married)." Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I said: O Prophet of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! They feel shy. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A previously married woman has more right over herself, and a virgin is to be asked, and her remaining silent is her permission."
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب النكاح / 13681