المعجم الكبير للطبراني
Al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (Tabarani)
مسند النساء
The Female Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
خبر أم سليم في موت ابنها من أبي طلحة
The account of Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) on the death of her son by Abu Talhah
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، ثنا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُوسَى الْمَخْزُومِيُّ الْفِطْرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي طَلْحَةَ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ: وَلَدَتْ أُمُّ سُلَيْمٍ غُلَامًا، فَاشْتَكَى فَاشْتَدَّ شَكْوُهُ ثُمَّ تُوُفِّيَ وَأَبُو طَلْحَةَ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَانْصَرَفَ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ مِنْ عِنْدِهِ حِينَ صَلَّى الْمَغْرِبَ وَقَدْ لَفَتَّهُ أُمُّ سُلَيْمٍ وَجَعَلَتْهُ فِي نَاحِيَةٍ مِنْ بَيْتِهَا، فَهَوَى إِلَيْهِ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ فَقَالَتْ: عَزَمْتُ عَلَيْكَ بِحَقِّي أَنْ لَا تُقَرِّبَهُ فَإِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ مُنْذُ اشْتَكَى خَيْرًا مِنْهُ اللَّيْلَةَ، فَقَرَّبْتُ إِلَيْهِ فِطْرَهُ فَأَفْطَرَ، ثُمَّ أَخَذَتْ طِيبًا فَأَصَابَتْهُ، ثُمَّ دَنَتْ إِلَى أَبِي طَلْحَةَ فَأَصَابَهَا، فَقَالَتْ: يَا أَبَا طَلْحَةَ لَوْ رَأَيْتَ جِيرَانًا أَعَارُوا جِيرَانًا لَهُمْ عَارِيَةً حَتَّى ظَنُّوا أَنْ قَدْ تَرَكُوهَا لَهُمْ، فَلَمَّا طَلَبُوهَا مِنْهُمْ وَجَدُوا فِي أَنْفُسِهِمْ، قَالَ: بِئْسَمَا صَنَعُوا، فَقَالَتْ: فَإِنَّ اللهَ قَدْ أَعَارَكَ فُلَانًا، ثُمَّ قَبَضَهُ مِنْكَ وَهُوَ أَحَقُّ بِهِ، فَغَدَا إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ أَصْبَحَ فَأَخْبَرَهُ الْخَبَرَ، فَقَالَ: اللهُمُّ بَارِكْ لَهُمَا فِي لَيْلَتِهِمَا، فَحَمَلَتْ بِعَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي طَلْحَةَ، فَوَضَعَتْهُ مِنْ آخِرِ اللَّيْلِ، فَقَالَتْ: لَا تُهِجْهُ، حَتَّى يُصْبِحَ، فَلَمَّا أَصْبَحَتْ غَسَّلَتْهُ وَسَرَّرَتْهُ، ثُمَّ دَعَتْ أَنَسًا فَقَالَتْ: يَا بُنَيَّ اذْهَبْ بِأَخِيكَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، قَالَ: أَنَسٌ فَأَقْبَلْتُ أَحْمِلُهُ وَإِذَا رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَائِمٌ فِي إِزَارٍ وَمَعَهُ مِسْحَاةٌ، فَقَالَ: يَا أَنَسُ مَا هَذَا مَعَكَ قُلْتُ أَخِي يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، فَقَالَ: نَاوِلْنِيهِ فَنَاوَلْتُهُ إِيَّاهُ فَدَعَا بِتَمْرٍ، فَمَضَغَهُ ثُمَّ حَنَّكَهُ فَتَلَمَّظَ الصَّبِيُّ، فَتَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: «حُبُّ الْأَنْصَارِ التَّمْرَ»
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) said: A son was born to Sayyidah Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her). He fell ill and his illness grew severe, then he died while Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) was with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Abu Talhah came back from him (peace and blessings be upon him) after praying Maghrib, and Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her) had wrapped him (the child) in a shroud and placed him in a corner of the house. Abu Talhah went towards him, but she said: "I adjure you by my right over you not to go near him, for since he fell ill he has never been better than he is tonight." She served him his food to break his fast, and he broke his fast. Then she took some perfume and applied it, then she drew close to Abu Talhah, and he had relations with her. Then she said: "O Abu Talhah! Have you seen some neighbours who lent their neighbours something, until they (the borrowers) thought they had left it to them, and then, when they asked for it back from them, they were upset?" He said: "They did wrong." She said: "Allah lent you so-and-so (your son), then took him back from you, and He has the greater right to him." As soon as morning came, Abu Talhah went to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and told him the whole story, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "May Allah bless the two of you in this night of yours." So she conceived and gave birth to Abdullah bin Abi Talhah. She gave birth to him in the last part of the night and said: "Do not disturb him until morning." When morning came, she bathed him and cut his umbilical cord, then called Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) and said: "My son! Take your brother to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)." Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I came carrying him, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was standing wearing a waist-wrap, with a hoe in his (peace and blessings be upon him) hand. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Anas! What is this with you?" I said: "O Messenger of Allah! My brother." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Give him to me." I gave him to him (peace and blessings be upon him); he (peace and blessings be upon him) called for a date, chewed it, then put it in the child's mouth (tahnik), and the child began smacking his lips. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) smiled and said: "The Ansar love dates."
حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ السَّدُوسِيُّ، ثنا عَاصِمُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ الْمُغِيرَةِ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ الْبُنَانِيِّ، عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ: كَانَ لِأَبِي طَلْحَةَ ابْنٌ مِنْ أُمَّ سُلَيْمٍ فَمَاتَ، فَقَالَتْ لِأَهْلِهَا: لَا تُحَدِّثُوا أَبَا طَلْحَةَ بِمَوْتِ ابْنِي حَتَّى أَكُونَ أَنَا الَّذِي أُحَدِّثُهُ، قَالَ: فَجَاءَ فَقَرَّبَتْ إِلَيْهِ عَشَاءَهُ وَشَرَابَهُ فَأَكَلَ وَشَرِبَ، ثُمَّ تَصَنَّعَتْ لَهُ أَحْسَنَ مَا كَانَتْ تَصْنَعُ قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ، فَلَمَّا شَبِعَ وَرَوَى وَقَعَ بِهَا، فَلَمَّا عَرَفَتْ أَنَّهُ قَدْ شَبِعَ، وَرَوَى، وَقَضَى حَاجَتَهُ مِنْهَا، قَالَتْ: يَا أَبَا طَلْحَةَ أَرَأَيْتَ لَوْ أَنَّ أَهْلَ بَيْتٍ أَعَارُوا عَارِيَتَهُمْ أَهْلَ بَيْتٍ آخَرِينَ، فَطَلَبُوا عَارِيَتَهُمْ أَلَهُمْ أَنْ يَحْبِسُوا عَارِيَتَهُمْ؟ قَالَ: لَا، قَالَتْ: فَاحْتَسِبِ ابْنَكَ، قَالَتْ: فَغَضِبَ ثُمَّ قَالَ: تَرَكْتِينِي ثُمَّ تَلَطَّخْتُ بِمَا تَلَطَّخْتُ، ثُمَّ تُحَدِّثِينِي بِمَوْتِ ابْنِي فَانْطَلَقَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَلَمْ تَرَ إِلَى أُمَّ سُلَيْمٍ صَنَعَتْ كَذَا وَكَذَا؟ فَقَالَ: رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكُمَا فِي غَابِرِ لَيْلَتِكُمَا» قَالَ: فَبَلَغَتْ تِلْكَ اللَّيْلَةَ فَحَمَلَتْ، قَالَ: فَهِيَ وَأَبُو طَلْحَةَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَلَمَّا دَنَوْا مِنَ الْمَدِينَةِ أَخَذَهَا الْمَخَاضُ فَاحْتَبَسَ عَلَيْهَا أَبُو طَلْحَةَ وَمَضَى رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، قَالَ: يَقُولُ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ: يَا رَبُّ إِنَّكَ لَتَعْلَمُ أَنَّهُ كَانَ يُعْجِبُنِي أَنْ أَخْرَجَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا خَرَجَ، وَأَدْخُلَ مَعَهُ إِذَا دَخَلَ، فَهَذِهِ احْتَبَسَتْ بِمَا تَرَى، قَالَ: يَقُولُ أَبُو طَلْحَةَ تَقُولُ أُمُّ سُلَيْمٍ: يَا أَبَا طَلْحَةَ لَا أَجِدُ مَا كُنْتُ أَجِدُ، فَانْطَلِقْ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، قَالَ: فَانْطَلَقَ حَتَّى قَدِمَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَضَرَبَهَا الْمَخَاضُ، فَوَلَدَتْ غُلَامًا، فَقَالَتْ لِي أُمِّي: يَا أَنَسُ لَا يَطْعَمْ شَيْئًا حَتَّى تَغْدُوَ بِهِ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، قَالَ: فَبَتُّ تِلْكَ اللَّيْلَةَ أُكَالِئُهُ مَحْنِيًّا عَلَيْهِ وَهُوَ يَبْكِي حَتَّى أَصْبَحَ، فَغَدَوْتُ بِهِ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَوَجَدْتُ بِيَدِهِ مِيسَمًا، فَلَمَّا رَأَى الصَّبِيُّ مَعِي قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: لَعَلَّ أُمَّ سُلَيْمٍ وَلَدَتْ؟ قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ. قَالَ: فَوَضَعَ الْمِيسَمَ وَقَعَدَ، فَأَتَيْتُهُ بِالصَّبِيِّ، فَوَضَعْتُهُ فِي حِجْرِهِ فَدَعَا بِعَجْوَةٍ مِنْ عَجْوَةِ الْمَدِينَةِ فَلَاكَهَا فِي فَمِهِ حَتَّى ذَابَتْ ثُمَّ لَفَظَهَا فِي فَمِ الصَّبِيِّ، فَجَعَلَ يَتَلَمَّظُ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «انْظُرُوا إِلَى حُبِّ الْأَنْصَارِ التَّمْرَ، ثُمَّ مَسَحَ وَجْهَهُ وَسَمَّاهُ عَبْدَ اللهِ»
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Abu Talhah (may Allah be pleased with him) had a son by Umm Sulaym (may Allah be pleased with her), and he died. She said to her household: "Do not tell Abu Talhah about my son's death until I myself tell him." The narrator said: He came, and she placed his supper and drink before him, and he ate and drank. Then she adorned herself for him better than she used to do before. When he had eaten and drunk his fill, he had relations with her. When she was sure that he had eaten his fill, drunk his fill and fulfilled his need of her, she said: "O Abu Talhah! What do you think: if a household lent something to their neighbours and then asked for their loan back, would they have the right to withhold their loan?" He said: "No." She said: "Then leave the matter of your son to Allah and hope for His reward (he has died)." The narrator said: He became angry and said: "You left me alone until I became soiled as I became soiled, and now you tell me of my son's death?" So he went to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! Have you seen what Umm Sulaym did?" The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "May Allah bless the two of you in the rest of your night." The narrator said: So she conceived that very night. The narrator said: Later she and Abu Talhah were on a journey with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and when they drew near Madinah, labour pains came upon her, so Abu Talhah stayed back with her and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) went on ahead. The narrator said: Abu Talhah began to say: "O my Lord! You know that I used to love going out with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) whenever he (peace and blessings be upon him) went out and entering with him whenever he entered, and now this wife of mine has been held back by the state You see." The narrator said: Abu Talhah says that Umm Sulaym said: "O Abu Talhah! I do not feel the pain I was feeling before; set off with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)." The narrator said: So he set off until he arrived in Madinah with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him); then her labour pains began and she gave birth to a son. My mother said to me: "O Anas! Do not feed him anything until you take him to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) in the morning." The narrator said: I spent the whole night watching over him while he kept crying, until morning came; then I took him to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and I saw that he (peace and blessings be upon him) had a branding iron in his hand. When he (peace and blessings be upon him) saw the child with me, he said: "Perhaps Umm Sulaym has given birth?" I said: "Yes." The narrator said: So he (peace and blessings be upon him) put down the branding iron and sat down; I brought the child and placed him in his (peace and blessings be upon him) lap. He (peace and blessings be upon him) called for an Ajwah date of Madinah, chewed it in his mouth until it dissolved, then put it into the child's mouth, and the child began smacking his lips. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Look at the Ansar's love of dates." Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) passed his hand over his face and named him Abdullah.
