المعجم الكبير للطبراني
Al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (Tabarani)
مسند النساء
The Female Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
هند بنت عتبة بن ربيعة بن عبد شمس بن عبد مناف أم معاوية من أخبارها
Hind bint Utbah bin Rabi'ah bin Abd Shams bin Abd Manaf (may Allah be pleased with her), mother of Mu'awiyah: reports about her
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ السَّرِيِّ بْنِ مِهْرَانَ النَّاقِدُ، ثنا أَبُو السِّكِّينِ زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ يَحْيَى الطَّائِيُّ، حَدَّثَنِي عَمُّ أَبِي زَحْرِ بْنِ حِصْنٍ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ مُنْهِبٍ الطَّائِيِّ، قَالَ: " كَانَتْ هِنْدُ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ عِنْدَ الْفَاكِهِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ الْمَخْزُومِيِّ، وَكَانَ الْفَاكِهُ مِنْ فِتْيَانِ قُرَيْشٍ، وَكَانَ لَهُ بَيْتٌ لِلضِّيَافَةِ يَغْشَاهُ النَّاسُ مِنْ غَيْرِ إِذْنٍ فَخَلَا ذَلِكَ الْبَيْتُ يَوْمًا وَاضْطَجَعَ الْفَاكِهُ وَهِنْدٌ فِيهِ وَقْتَ الْقَائِلَةِ، ثُمَّ خَرَجَ الْفَاكِهُ فِي بَعْضِ حَاجَاتِهِ، فَأَقْبَلَ رَجُلٌ مِمَّنْ كَانَ يَغْشَاهُ فَوَلَجَ الْبَيْتَ، فَلَمَّا رَأَى الْمَرْأَةَ وَلَّى هَارِبًا، فَأَبْصَرَهُ الْفَاكِهُ وَهُوَ خَارِجٌ مِنَ الْبَيْتِ، فَأَقْبَلَ إِلَى هِنْدَ فَضَرَبَهَا بِرِجْلِهِ، وَقَالَ لَهَا: مَنْ هَذَا الَّذِي كَانَ عِنْدَكِ؟ قَالَتْ: مَا كَانَ عِنْدِي أَحَدٌ، وَمَا انْتَبَهْتُ حَتَّى أَنْبَهْتَنِي، قَالَ: الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ، وَتَكَلَّمَ فِيهَا النَّاسُ، فَقَالَ لَهَا أَبُوهَا: يَا بُنَيَّةُ، إِنَّ النَّاسَ قَدْ أَكْثَرُوا فِيكِ؛ فَنَبِّئِينِي نَبَأَكِ، فَإِنْ يَكُنِ الرَّجُلُ عَلَيْكِ صَادِقًا دَسَسْتَ إِلَيْهِ مَنْ يَقْتُلُهُ، فتنقطعَ عَنْكِ الْقَالَةُ، وَإِنْ كَانَ كَاذِبًا حَاكَمْتَهُ إِلَى بَعْضِ كُهَّانِ الْيَمَنِ، فَحَلَفْتُ لَهُ بِمَا كَانُوا يَحْلِفُونَ بِهِ إِنَّهُ لَكَاذِبٌ عَلَيْهَا، فَقَالَ لِلْفَاكِهِ: يَا هَذَا إِنَّكَ قَدْ رَمَيْتَ ابْنَتِي بِأَمْرٍ عَظِيمٍ فَحَاكَمَنِي إِلَى بَعْضِ كُهَّانِ الْيَمَنِ فَخَرَجَ عُتْبَةُ فِي جَمَاعَةٍ مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ مَنَافٍ وَخَرَجَ الْفَاكِهُ فِي جَمَاعَةٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ وَخَرَجَتْ مَعَهُمْ هِنْدٌ وَنِسْوَةٌ مَعَهَا، فَلَمَّا شَارَفُوا الْبِلَادَ وَقَالُوا نَرُدُّ عَلَى الْكَاهِنِ تَنَكَّرَ حَالُ هِنْدَ وَتَغَيَّرَ وَجْهُهَا، فَقَالَ لَهَا أَبُوهَا: إِنِّي قَدْ أَرَى مَا بِكِ مِنْ تَنَكُّرِ الْحَالِ وَمَا ذَاكَ إِلَّا لِمَكْرُوهٍ عِنْدَكِ أَفَلَا كَانَ هَذَا مِنْ قَبْلِ أَنْ يَشْهَدَ النَّاسُ مَسِيرَنَا؟ فَقَالَتْ: لَا وَاللهِ يَا أَبَتَاهُ مَا ذَاكَ لِمَكْرُوهٍ وَلَكِنِّي أَعْرِفُ أَنَّكُمْ تَأْتُونَ بَشَرًا يُخْطِئُ وَيُصِيبُ وَلَا آمَنُ أَنْ يُسْمِيَنِي بِسِمَةٍ تَكُونُ عَلَيَّ سُبَّةً فِي الْعَرَبِ، فَقَالَ: إِنِّي أَخْتَبِرُهُ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ فِي أَمْرَكِ فَصَفَّرَ بِفَرَسِهِ حَتَّى أَدْلَى ثُمَّ أَخَذَ حَبَّةً مِنْ بُرٍّ، فَأَدْخَلَهَا فِي إِحْلِيلِهِ وَأَوْكَأَ عَلَيْهَا بِسَيْرٍ، فَلَمَّا صَبَحُوا أَكْرَمُهُمْ وَنَحَرَ لَهُمْ، فَلَمَّا قَعَدُوا قَالَ لَهُ عُتْبَةُ: إِنَّا قَدْ جِئْنَاكَ فِي أَمْرٍ وَإِنِّي قَدِ اخْتَبَأْتُ لَكَ خَبَّأً اخْتَبِرُكَ، بِهِ فَانْظُرْ مَا هُوَ؟ قَالَ: نَمِرَةٌ فِي كمرةٍ قَالَ: أُرِيدُ أَبْيَنَ مِنْ هَذَا. قَالَ: حَبَّةٌ مِنْ بُرٍّ فِي إِحْلِيلِ مَهْرٍ، قَالَ: صَدَقْتَ انْظُرْ فِي أَمْرِ هَؤُلَاءِ النِّسْوَةِ، فَجَعَلَ يَدْنُو مِنْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ، فَيَضْرِبُ كَتِفَهَا وَيَقُولُ انْهَضِي حَتَّى دَنَا مِنْ هِنْدَ فَضَرَبَ كَتِفَهَا وَقَالَ: قَوْمِي غَيْرَ وَحْشَاءَ، وَلَا زَانِيَةً وَلْتَلِدْنَ غُلَامًا يُقَالُ لَهُ مُعَاوِيَةُ، فَنَهَضَ لَهَا الْفَاكِهُ، فَأَخَذَ بِيَدِهَا فَنَتَرَتْ يَدَهَا مِنْ يَدِهِ، وَقَالَتْ: إِلَيْكَ فَوَاللهِ لَأَحْرُصَنَّ عَلَى أَنْ يَكُونَ ذَلِكَ مِنْ غَيْرِكَ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا أَبُو سُفْيَانَ فَجَاءَتْ بِمُعَاوِيَةَ "
Humayd bin Munhib al-Ta'i said: Hind bint Utbah was married to al-Fakih bin al-Mughirah al-Makhzumi. Al-Fakih was one of the leading young men of Quraysh, and he had a house for guests which people would enter without permission. One day that house was empty, and al-Fakih and Hind were lying in it at midday. Then al-Fakih went out for some need of his, and a man from among those who used to frequent it came and entered the house. When he saw the woman, he turned back and fled. Al-Fakih saw him as he was coming out of the house, so he came to Hind, kicked her with his foot and said: Who was this who was with you? She said: No one was with me, and I knew nothing until you woke me. He said: Go back to your family. And the people began to talk about her. Her father said to her: My daughter, the people have said a great deal about you, so tell me your story. If the man is telling the truth about you, I will secretly send someone to kill him so that the talk about you comes to an end; and if he is lying, I will take him for judgement to one of the soothsayers of Yemen. So Hind swore to her father by the kind of oath people used to swear (in that era) that the man was lying against her. So Utbah said to al-Fakih: You have accused my daughter of a grave matter, so come with me to one of the soothsayers of Yemen for judgement. So Utbah set out with a group of Banu Abd Manaf and al-Fakih set out with a group of Banu Makhzum, and Hind and some women set out with them. When they drew near that land and said, "Now we are going to the soothsayer," Hind's state changed and her face altered. Her father said to her: I see that your state has changed, and this can only be because of something blameworthy; so why did this not happen before the people witnessed this journey of ours? She said: No, by Allah, O my father, it is not because of anything blameworthy; rather, I know that you are going to a human being who errs and is right, and I fear that he may brand me with a mark that will become a disgrace for me among the Arabs. Her father said: I will test him before he says anything about your matter. So he whistled to his horse to stir it until its organ came out; then he took a grain of wheat, put it into its opening and tied it with a strap. When they came to the soothsayer in the morning, he honoured them and slaughtered an animal for them. When they had sat down, Utbah said to him: We have come to you about a matter, and I have hidden something for you in order to test you, so see what it is. The soothsayer said: A namirah (a small thing) in a kamrah (the tip of the organ). Utbah said: I want a clearer answer than this. The soothsayer said: A grain of wheat in the urethra of a colt. Utbah said: You have spoken the truth; now look into the matter of these women. So he began to approach each woman, strike her shoulder and say: Stand up, until he came near Hind, struck her shoulder and said: Stand up, you are neither a wanton woman nor an adulteress, and you will give birth to a boy who will be called Mu'awiyah. At this al-Fakih rose and took her by the hand, but Hind pulled her hand from his hand and said: Keep away; by Allah, I will strive that this be from someone other than you. So Abu Sufyan married her, and Mu'awiyah was born to them.
حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، أنا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أنا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ مِنْ أَنْ يُذِلَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ، وَمَا عَلَى وَجْهِ الْأَرْضِ الْيَوْمَ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ أَنْ يُعِزَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ. قَالَ مَعْمَرٌ: يَعْنِي لَيَزْدَادَنَّ ثُمَّ قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مُمْسِكٌ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ، أَنْ أُمْسِكَ عَلَى عِيَالِهِ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِهِ؟ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «لَا حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُنْفِقِي عَلَيْهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّزَّاقِ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، أَنَّهُ حَدَّثَهُ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ، جَاءَتْ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ شَيْءٌ؟ قَالَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، ثنا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: قَالَتْ هِنْدٌ أُمُّ مُعَاوِيَةَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ آخُذَ مِنْ مَالِهِ سِرًّا؟ قَالَ: «خُذِي أَنْتِ وَبَنِيكِ مَا يَكْفِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّزَّاقِ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، أَنَّهُ حَدَّثَهُ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ، جَاءَتْ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ شَيْءٌ؟ قَالَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، ثنا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: قَالَتْ هِنْدٌ أُمُّ مُعَاوِيَةَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ آخُذَ مِنْ مَالِهِ سِرًّا؟ قَالَ: «خُذِي أَنْتِ وَبَنِيكِ مَا يَكْفِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Hind (may Allah be pleased with her) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, there was no household on the face of the earth whose humiliation by Allah was dearer to me than your household; and today there is no household on the face of the earth whose honouring by Allah is dearer to me than your household. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "And by the One in Whose Hand is my soul, it will be even more (it will increase)." Ma'mar said: That is, it will increase further. Then she said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; is there any sin on me if I hold back something from his wealth for his dependants without his permission? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "There is no harm on you in spending on them according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give (enough) to me and my children except what I take from him without his knowing; is there any sin on me in that? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take what suffices you and your sons, according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her); she said: Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; is there any sin on me if I take something from his wealth secretly? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You and your sons, take what suffices you, according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give (enough) to me and my children except what I take from him without his knowing; is there any sin on me in that? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take what suffices you and your sons, according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her); she said: Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; is there any sin on me if I take something from his wealth secretly? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You and your sons, take what suffices you, according to what is reasonable."
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُعَاذٍ الْحَلَبِيُّ، ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ الْقَعْنَبِيُّ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ أُمُّ مُعَاوِيَةَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ: إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلَا يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ، وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ حَرَجٌ؟ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give me and my children as much as suffices me, except what I take from him secretly without his knowing; is there any harm on me in that? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take what suffices you and your sons, according to what is reasonable."
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ الصَّنْعَانِيُّ، ثنا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ أَبِي أُوَيْسٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ، جَاءَتْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِي وَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ شَيْءٌ؟ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give my son (enough), except what I take from him without his knowing; is there any sin on me in that? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take what suffices you and your sons, according to what is reasonable."
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو الْخَلَّالُ الْمَكِّيُّ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي عُمَرَ الْعَدَنِيُّ، ثنا وَكِيعُ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلَا يُعْطِينِي وَوَلَدِي مَا يَكْفِينِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَقَالَ: «خُذِي لَكِ وَلِوَلَدِكَ مَا يَكْفِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Hind (may Allah be pleased with her) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give me and my son as much as suffices me, except what I take from his wealth without his knowing. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take for yourself and your son what suffices you, according to what is reasonable."
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الْعَسْكَرِيُّ، ثنا سَعِيدُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ النُّفَيْلِيُّ، ثنا يُونُسُ بْنُ رَاشِدٍ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ: جَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ، وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ مِنْ شَيْءٍ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give me and my son (enough), except what I take from him without his knowing; is there any sin on me in that? The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take what suffices you and your sons, according to what is reasonable."
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَضْرَمِيُّ، ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ حَمَّادٍ الضَّبِّيُّ، ثنا يَحْيَى بْنُ يَمَانٍ، عَنْ مَعْمَرٍ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنْ هِنْدَ، قَالَتْ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ " أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مُمْسِكٌ، أَفَنُطْعِمُ عَبِيدَنَا مِنْ مَالِهِ؟ قَالَ: «نَعَمْ»
It is narrated from Sayyidah Hind (may Allah be pleased with her); she said: I said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; may we feed our slaves from his wealth? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Yes."
