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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 21634 — Hind came to the Prophet ﷺ and said: O

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، أنا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أنا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ مِنْ أَنْ يُذِلَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ، وَمَا عَلَى وَجْهِ الْأَرْضِ الْيَوْمَ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ أَنْ يُعِزَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ. قَالَ مَعْمَرٌ: يَعْنِي لَيَزْدَادَنَّ ثُمَّ قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مُمْسِكٌ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ، أَنْ أُمْسِكَ عَلَى عِيَالِهِ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِهِ؟ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «لَا حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُنْفِقِي عَلَيْهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الدَّبَرِيُّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّزَّاقِ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، أَنَّهُ حَدَّثَهُ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ، جَاءَتْ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ شَيْءٌ؟ قَالَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، ثنا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ: قَالَتْ هِنْدٌ أُمُّ مُعَاوِيَةَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ آخُذَ مِنْ مَالِهِ سِرًّا؟ قَالَ: «خُذِي أَنْتِ وَبَنِيكِ مَا يَكْفِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Hind (may Allah be pleased with her) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, there was no household on the face of the earth whose humiliation by Allah was dearer to me than your household; and today there is no household on the face of the earth whose honouring by Allah is dearer to me than your household. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "And by the One in Whose Hand is my soul, it will be even more (it will increase)." Ma'mar said: That is, it will increase further. Then she said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; is there any sin on me if I hold back something from his wealth for his dependants without his permission? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "There is no harm on you in spending on them according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give (enough) to me and my children except what I take from him without his knowing; is there any sin on me in that? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take what suffices you and your sons, according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her); she said: Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; is there any sin on me if I take something from his wealth secretly? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You and your sons, take what suffices you, according to what is reasonable."
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / مسند النساء / 21634
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 25، صفحہ 71، حدیث 171