Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Hind (may Allah be pleased with her) came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, there was no household on the face of the earth whose humiliation by Allah was dearer to me than your household; and today there is no household on the face of the earth whose honouring by Allah is dearer to me than your household. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "And by the One in Whose Hand is my soul, it will be even more (it will increase)." Ma'mar said: That is, it will increase further. Then she said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; is there any sin on me if I hold back something from his wealth for his dependants without his permission? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "There is no harm on you in spending on them according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he does not give (enough) to me and my children except what I take from him without his knowing; is there any sin on me in that? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take what suffices you and your sons, according to what is reasonable."
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her); she said: Sayyidah Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with her), said: O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man; is there any sin on me if I take something from his wealth secretly? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "You and your sons, take what suffices you, according to what is reasonable."
Hadith Referenceالمعجم الكبير للطبراني / مسند النساء / 21634