مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب الأدب
Book of Manners
بَابُ الْبُدَاءَةِ بِالسَّلَامِ
Initiating the greeting of peace
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عَنْ أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ قَالَ :
قُلْنَا : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّا نَلْتَقِي ، فَأَيُّنَا يَبْدَأُ بِالسَّلَامِ ؟ قَالَ : " أَطْوَعُكُمْ للهِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ مَنْ لَمْ أَعْرِفْهُمْ .
قُلْنَا : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّا نَلْتَقِي ، فَأَيُّنَا يَبْدَأُ بِالسَّلَامِ ؟ قَالَ : " أَطْوَعُكُمْ للهِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ مَنْ لَمْ أَعْرِفْهُمْ .
Sayyiduna Abu al-Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: We said: "O Messenger of Allah! When we meet (one another), which of us should be first to give the greeting of salam?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whichever of you is more obedient to Allah Almighty."
Tabarani recorded it, and its chain contains narrators whom I do not know.
Tabarani recorded it, and its chain contains narrators whom I do not know.
وَعَنِ الْأَغَرِّ - أَغَرِّ مُزَيْنَةَ - قَالَ : كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - أَمَرَ لِي بِجُزْءٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ ، فَمَطَلَنِي بِهِ ، فَكَلَّمْتُ فِيهِ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - فَقَالَ : " اغْدُ مَعَهُ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ فَخُذْ لَهُ ثَمَرَهُ " . فَوَعَدَنِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ الْمَسْجِدَ إِذَا صَلَّيْنَا الصُّبْحَ ، فَوَجَدْتُهُ حَيْثُ وَعَدَنِي ، فَانْطَلَقْنَا ، فَكُلَّمَا رَأَى أَبَا بَكْرٍ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَعِيدٍ سَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ ، فَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ : أَمَا تَرَى مَا يُصِيبُ الْقَوْمُ عَلَيْكَ مِنَ الْفَضْلِ ، لَا يَسْبِقُكَ إِلَى السَّلَامِ أَحَدٌ . فَكُنَّا إِذَا طَلَعَ الرَّجُلُ بَادَرْنَاهُ بِالسَّلَامِ ، قَبْلَ أَنْ يُسَلِّمَ عَلَيْنَا .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ وَالْأَوْسَطِ ، وَأَحَدِ إِسْنَادِيِ الْكَبِيرِ رِجَالُهُ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ وَالْأَوْسَطِ ، وَأَحَدِ إِسْنَادِيِ الْكَبِيرِ رِجَالُهُ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
Sayyiduna al-Agharr (may Allah be pleased with him), who is al-Agharr of Muzaynah, narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered that I be given some dates from a man of the Ansar. That man delayed giving them to me, so I spoke to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) about him, and he said: "O Abu Bakr! Go with him tomorrow and get his dates for him." Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) promised to meet me in the mosque, (saying that) when we had prayed the morning prayer we would go. I found him as he had promised, and then we set off. Whenever anyone saw Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) from a distance, he would greet him with salam. So Sayyiduna Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Have you seen how people are gaining merit over you? Everyone gets ahead of you in the greeting." The narrator says: After that, whenever anyone came before us, we would greet him before he could greet us.
Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. In one of the two chains of al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, the narrators are the narrators of the Sahih.
Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. In one of the two chains of al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, the narrators are the narrators of the Sahih.
وَعَنْ أَبِي أُمَامَةَ الْبَاهِلِيِّ أَنَّهُ كَانَ يُسَلِّمُ عَلَى كُلِّ مَنْ لَقِيَهُ ، قَالَ : فَمَا عَلِمْتُ أَحَدًا سَبَقَهُ بِالسَّلَامِ إِلَّا يَهُودِيًّا مَرَّةً ، اخْتَبَأَ لَهُ خَلْفَ أُسْطُوَانَةٍ ، فَخَرَجَ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ ، فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبُو أُمَامَةَ : وَيْحَكَ يَا يَهُودِيُّ ! مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلَى مَا صَنَعْتَ ؟ قَالَ لَهُ : رَأَيْتُكَ رَجُلًا تُكْثِرُ السَّلَامَ ، فَعَلِمْتُ أَنَّهُ فَضْلٌ ، فَأَرَدْتُ أَنْ آخُذَ بِهِ . فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبُو أُمَامَةَ : وَيْحَكَ ! إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - يَقُولُ : " إِنَّ اللَّهَ جَعَلَ السَّلَامَ تَحِيَّةً لِأُمَّتِنَا ، وَأَمَانًا لِأَهْلِ ذِمَّتِنَا " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، عَنْ شَيْخِهِ بَكْرِ بْنِ سَهْلٍ الدِّمْيَاطِيِّ ، ضَعَّفَهُ النَّسَائِيُّ ، وَقَالَ غَيْرُهُ : مُقَارِبُ الْحَدِيثِ .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، عَنْ شَيْخِهِ بَكْرِ بْنِ سَهْلٍ الدِّمْيَاطِيِّ ، ضَعَّفَهُ النَّسَائِيُّ ، وَقَالَ غَيْرُهُ : مُقَارِبُ الْحَدِيثِ .
It is reported about Sayyiduna Abu Umamah al-Bahili (may Allah be pleased with him) that he used to greet everyone he met. The narrator says: I do not know of anyone who got ahead of him in the greeting, except for a Jew on one occasion. He hid from his view; he had hidden behind a pillar, and when Abu Umamah passed by, he greeted him first. Sayyiduna Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him: "Woe to you, O Jew! Why did you do this?" He said to him: "I saw that you greet people a great deal, and I know that there is merit in this deed, so I wanted to gain that merit." Sayyiduna Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him) said to him: "Woe to you! I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: 'Indeed, Allah Almighty has made the greeting of salam a salutation for our Ummah and a guarantee of safety for our dhimmis (protected non-Muslim citizens).'"
Tabarani recorded it from his teacher Bakr bin Sahl al-Dimyati, whom Nasa'i (may Allah have mercy on him) declared da'if (weak), while others said that he is muqarib al-hadith (fair in hadith).
Tabarani recorded it from his teacher Bakr bin Sahl al-Dimyati, whom Nasa'i (may Allah have mercy on him) declared da'if (weak), while others said that he is muqarib al-hadith (fair in hadith).
