مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
بَابٌ فِي الْمَرْأَةِ الصَّالِحَةِ ، وَغَيْرِهَا .

The righteous woman and others

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عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " مِنْ سَعَادَةِ ابْنِ آدَمَ ثَلَاثَةٌ وَمِنْ شِقْوَةِ ابْنِ آدَمَ ثَلَاثَةٌ ، مِنْ سَعَادَةِ ابْنِ آدَمَ : الْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ وَالْمَسْكَنُ الصَّالِحُ وَالْمَرْكَبُ الصَّالِحُ . وَمِنْ شِقْوَةِ ابْنِ آدَمَ : الْمَرْأَةُ السُّوءُ وَالْمَسْكَنُ السُّوءُ وَالْمَرْكَبُ السُّوءُ " .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَالْبَزَّارُ ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ ، وَالْأَوْسَطِ ، وَرِجَالُ أَحْمَدَ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
Sayyiduna Sa'd bin Abi Waqqas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Three things are part of a person's happiness, and three things are part of a person's misery. Part of a person's happiness are a righteous wife, a good home and a good mount; and part of a person's misery are a bad wife, a bad home and a bad mount."
Ahmad, al-Bazzar, and at-Tabarani in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat recorded it; the narrators of Ahmad are the narrators of the Sahih.
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7432
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ صحیح
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه البزار فى المسند (1412) اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير (329) اخرجه احمد فى المسند (1445) ، أخرجه مسند أحمد برقم: 1448، وأخرجه مسند البزار برقم: 1180، وأخرجه المعجم الكبير للطبراني برقم: 329، وأخرجه المعجم الأوسط للطبراني برقم: 3635»
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " ثَلَاثٌ قَاصِمَاتُ الظَّهْرِ : زَوْجُ سُوءٍ يَأْمَنُهَا صَاحِبُهَا وَتَخُونُهُ ، وَإِمَامٌ يُسْخِطُ اللَّهَ وَيُرْضِي النَّاسَ ، وَإِنَّ مَثَلَ عَمَلِ الْمَرْأَةِ الْمُؤْمِنَةِ كَمَثَلِ سَبْعِينَ صِدِّيقًا ، وَإِنَّ عَمَلَ الْمَرْأَةِ الْفَاجِرَةِ كَفُجُورِ أَلْفِ فَاجِرَةٍ " .
رَوَاهُ الْبَزَّارُ - وَقَالَ : ذَهَبَتْ عَنِّي وَاحِدَةٌ . قُلْتُ : وَقَدْ مَرَّتْ بِي - " وَجَارُ سُوءٍ إِنْ رَأَى خَيْرًا دَفَنَهُ ، وَإِنْ رَأَى شَرًّا أَذَاعَهُ " . وَفِيهِ سَعِيدُ بْنُ سِنَانٍ ، وَهُوَ مَتْرُوكٌ .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Three things break the back: a bad wife whose husband trusts her while she betrays him; a ruler who angers Allah Almighty and pleases the people; the deeds of a believing woman are like those of seventy truthful ones (siddiqs), and the deeds of an immoral woman are like the immorality of a thousand immoral women."
Al-Bazzar recorded it; he said: One of them escaped me. I say: It has come before me: (in it are these words:) "and a bad neighbour who, if he sees any good, buries it, and if he sees any evil, spreads it." Its chain contains Sa'id bin Sinan, who is matruk (abandoned).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7433
Hadith Grading محدثین: ضعیف جداً
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه البزار فى المسند (1414)»
وَعَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " مَنْ رَزَقَهُ اللَّهُ امْرَأَةً صَالِحَةً ، فَقَدْ أَعَانَهُ عَلَى شَطْرِ دِينِهِ فَلْيَتَّقِ اللَّهَ فِي الشَّطْرِ الثَّانِي " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ أَنَسٍ ، وَعَنْهُ زُهَيْرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ ، وَلَمْ أَعْرِفْهُ إِلَّا أَنْ يَكُونَ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ زَيْدِ بْنِ أَسْلَمَ فَيَكُونُ إِسْنَادُهُ مُنْقَطِعًا ، وَإِنْ كَانَ غَيْرَهُ فَلَمْ أَعْرِفْهُ وَاللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ .
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever Allah Almighty has blessed with a righteous wife, Allah Almighty has helped him with half of his religion, so let him fear Allah Almighty regarding the other half."
At-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat; it is mentioned in its chain that it is narrated by Abd al-Rahman from Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), and Zuhayr bin Muhammad
narrated it from him. I do not know him, unless he is Abd al-Rahman bin Zayd bin Aslam, in which case the chain of this narration is munqati' (broken); and if he is someone else, then I do not know him. And Allah knows best.
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7434
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الاوسط (976)»
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " مَا أَفَادَ عَبْدٌ بَعْدَ الْإِسْلَامِ خَيْرًا لَهُ مِنْ زَوْجَةٍ مُؤْمِنَةٍ إِذَا نَظَرَ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْهُ ، وَإِذَا غَابَ عَنْهَا حَفِظَتْهُ فِي نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِهِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْأَوْسَطِ ، وَفِيهِ جَابِرٌ الْجُعْفِيُّ ، وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ ، وَقَدْ وُثِّقَ ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "After Islam, a servant has gained nothing better for himself than a believing wife: when he looks at her she pleases him, and when he is away from her she guards herself and her husband's wealth for him."
At-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat; its chain contains Jabir al-Ju'fi, who is da'if (weak), though he has also been declared trustworthy; the rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7435
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الاوسط (2136) ، أخرجه المعجم الأوسط للطبراني برقم: 2136»
وَعَنْ سَمُرَةَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " أَشَدُّ حَسَرَاتِ بَنِي آدَمَ ثَلَاثٌ : رَجُلٌ كَانَتْ لَهُ أَرْضٌ تُسْقَى وَلَهُ سَانِيَةٌ يَسْقِي عَلَيْهَا أَرْضَهُ فَلَمَّا اشْتَدَّ ظَمَأُ أَرْضِهِ وَأَخْرَجَتْ ثَمَرَهَا مَاتَتْ سَانِيَتُهُ فَيَجِدُ حَسْرَةً عَلَى سَانِيَتِهِ الَّتِي قَدْ عَلِمَ أَنَّهُ لَا يَجِدُ مِثْلَهَا وَيَجِدُ حَسْرَةً عَلَى ثَمَرَةِ أَرْضِهِ الَّتِي تَفْسَدُ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَحْتَالَ حِيلَةً .
وَرَجُلٌ لَهُ فَرَسٌ جَوَادٌ فَلَقِيَ جَمْعًا مِنَ الْكُفَّارِ فَلَمَّا دَنَا بَعْضُهُمْ مِنْ بَعْضٍ انْهَزَمَ أَعْدَاءُ اللَّهِ فَسَبَقَ الرَّجُلُ عَلَى فَرَسِهِ فَلَمَّا كَادَ أَنْ يَلْحَقَ انْكَسَرَتْ يَدُ فَرَسِهِ فَنَزَلَ عِنْدَهُ يَجِدُ حَسْرَةً عَلَى فَرَسِهِ أَنْ لَا يَجِدَ مِثْلَهُ وَيَجِدُ حَسْرَةً عَلَى مَا فَاتَهُ مِنَ الظَّفَرِ الَّذِي كَانَ أَشْرَفَ عَلَيْهِ .
وَرَجُلٌ كَانَتْ عِنْدَهُ امْرَأَةٌ قَدْ رَضِيَ هَيْأَتَهَا وَدِينَهَا فَنَفَسَتْ غُلَامًا فَمَاتَتْ بِنِفَاسِهَا فَيَجِدُ حَسْرَةً عَلَى امْرَأَتِهِ يَظُنُّ أَنَّهُ لَنْ يُصَادِفَ مِثْلَهَا وَيَجِدُ حَسْرَةً عَلَى وَلَدِهِ يَخْشَى ضَيْعَتَهُ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَجِدَ مَنْ يُرْضِعُهُ " . قَالَ : " فَهَذِهِ أَكْبَرُ هَؤُلَاءِ الْحَسَرَاتِ " .
رَوَاهُ الْبَزَّارُ ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ ، وَالْأَوْسَطِ ، وَإِسْنَادُهُ حَسَنٌ لَيْسَ فِيهِ غَيْرُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ ، وَقَدْ وَثَّقَهُ جَمَاعَةٌ .
Sayyiduna Samurah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The bitterest regrets of the children of Adam concern three things. One is a man who has land that is irrigated, and he has a camel on which he draws water to irrigate his land; when his land is in severe need of water and is about to bring forth its fruit, his camel dies. He feels regret over his camel, knowing that he will not find another like it, and he also feels regret over the fruit of his land, that it will spoil before he can find some other means. Another is a man who rides a fine horse and meets the disbelievers; when the two sides close in on each other and the enemy of Allah is routed, the man rides ahead on his horse, until, just as he is about to reach the enemy, his horse's leg breaks. He dismounts, and at that moment he feels regret that he will not find another horse like it, and he also feels regret over the victory he was about to win and has missed, which had been within his reach. And another is a man who has a wife whose appearance and religion both please him; she gives birth to a child and then dies during her postnatal bleeding (nifas). That man feels regret over his wife, thinking he will not find another wife like her, and he also feels regret over his child, fearing the child will perish before he finds someone to nurse it." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This is the greatest of these regrets."
Al-Bazzar recorded it, and at-Tabarani in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat; its chain is hasan (good); there is no (weak) narrator in it other than Sa'id bin Bashir, and a group of scholars declared him trustworthy.
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7436
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ حسن
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه البزار فى المسند (1415 و 1416) اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير (7084,6879)»
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " أَرْبَعٌ مَنْ أُعْطِيَهُنَّ ، فَقَدْ أُعْطِيَ خَيْرَ الدُّنْيَا وَالْآخِرَةِ : قَلْبًا شَاكِرًا وَلِسَانًا ذَاكِرًا وَبَدَنًا عَلَى الْبَلَاءِ صَابِرًا وَزَوْجَةً لَا تَبْغِيهِ خَوْنًا فِي نَفْسِهَا ، وَلَا مَالِهِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ ، وَالْأَوْسَطِ ، وَرِجَالُ الْأَوْسَطِ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Four things: whoever is given them has been given the good of this world and the Hereafter: a grateful heart, a tongue that remembers Allah, a body patient in trial, and a wife who does not seek to betray him with regard to herself or his wealth."
At-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir and al-Mu'jam al-Awsat; the narrators of al-Mu'jam al-Awsat are the narrators of the Sahih.
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7437
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ صحیح
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الأوسط (7351) اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير (11275)»
وَعَنْ أَبِي أُمَامَةَ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - لِمُعَاذِ بْنِ جَبَلٍ : " يَا مُعَاذُ ، وَقَلْبًا شَاكِرًا وَلِسَانًا ذَاكِرًا وَزَوْجَةً صَالِحَةً تُعِينُكَ عَلَى أَمْرِ دُنْيَاكَ وَدِينِكَ خَيْرُ مَا اكْتَسَبَهُ النَّاسُ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ يَزِيدَ ، وَهُوَ ضَعِيفٌ ، وَقَدْ وُثِّقَ .
Sayyiduna Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Mu'adh bin Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him): "O Mu'adh! A grateful heart, a tongue that remembers Allah, and a righteous wife who helps you in the affairs of your world and your religion: these are the best of what people acquire."
At-Tabarani recorded it; its chain contains Ali bin Yazid, who is da'if (weak), though he has also been declared trustworthy.
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7438
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير (7828) ، أخرجه المعجم الكبير للطبراني برقم: 7828»
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سَلَامٍ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " خَيْرُ النِّسَاءِ تَسُرُّكَ إِذَا أَبْصَرْتَ وَتُطِيعُكَ إِذَا أَمَرْتَ وَتَحْفَظُ غَيْبَتَكَ فِي نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِكَ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ زُرَيْكُ بْنُ أَبِي زُرَيْكٍ ، وَلَمْ أَعْرِفْهُ . وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Salam (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The best of women is she who pleases you when you look at her, obeys you when you command her, and guards herself and your wealth in your absence."
At-Tabarani recorded it; its chain contains Zurayk bin Abi Zurayk, whom I do not know; the rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7439
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده ضعیف
وَعَنْ أَبِي أُمَامَةَ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " مَثَلُ الْمَرْأَةِ الصَّالِحَةِ فِي النِّسَاءِ كَمَثَلِ الْغُرَابِ الْأَعْصَمِ " قِيلَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَمَا الْغُرَابُ الْأَعْصَمُ ؟ قَالَ : " الَّذِي إِحْدَى رِجْلَيْهِ بَيْضَاءُ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَفِيهِ مُطَّرِحُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ ، وَهُوَ مَجْمَعٌ عَلَى ضَعْفِهِ .
Sayyiduna Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The likeness of a righteous woman among women is that of the a'sam crow." It was asked: O Messenger of Allah! Which is the a'sam crow? He said: "The one with one of its two legs white."
At-Tabarani recorded it; its chain contains Mutarrih bin Yazid, and there is agreement that he is da'if (weak).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7440
Hadith Grading محدثین: ضعیف جداً
Hadith Takhrij «اخرجه الطبراني فى المعجم الكبير (7817) ، أخرجه المعجم الكبير للطبراني برقم: 7817، وأخرجه المطالب العالية بزوائد المسانيد الثمانية برقم: 1686، وأخرجه إتحاف الخيرة المهرة بزوائد المسانيد العشرة برقم: 3105»
وَعَنْ عُمَارَةَ بْنِ خُزَيْمَةَ بْنِ عَمْرٍو قَالَ : كُنَّا مَعَ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِي فِي حَجٍّ أَوْ عُمْرَةٍ فَلَمَّا كُنَّا بِمَرِّ الظَّهْرَانِ إِذَا امْرَأَةٌ فِي هَوْدَجِهَا وَاضِعَةٌ يَدَهَا عَلَى هَوْدَجِهَا فَلَمَّا نَزَلَ دَخَلَ الشِّعْبَ وَدَخَلْنَا مَعَهُ فَقَالَ : كُنَّا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - فِي هَذَا الْمَكَانِ فَإِذْ نَحْنُ بِغِرْبَانٍ كَثِيرٍ ، وَإِذَا بِغُرَابٍ أَعْصَمِ الْمِنْقَارِ وَالرِّجْلِ فَقَالَ : " لَا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا كَقَدْرِ الْغُرَابِ فِي هَذِهِ الْغِرْبَانِ " .
قَالَ أَبُو عُمَرَ : الْأَعْصَمُ : الْأَحْمَرُ .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ وَاللَّفْظُ لَهُ ، وَأَحْمَدُ ، وَرِجَالُ أَحْمَدَ ثِقَاتٌ .
Umarah bin Khuzaymah bin Amr narrates: We were with Sayyiduna Amr bin al-As (may Allah be pleased with him) on a Hajj or an Umrah. When we reached Marr al-Zahran, there was a woman in her howdah who had placed her hand on the howdah. When he was going down, he entered a mountain pass, and we entered it with him. He told us: Once we were with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) at this place, and there were many crows here, and among them was a crow whose beak and legs were a'sam. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No more women will enter Paradise than the proportion of this crow among these crows." Abu Umar said: A'sam means red.
At-Tabarani recorded it, and this wording is his; Ahmad also recorded it, and the narrators of Ahmad are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7441
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ صحیح
وَعَنْ عُبَادَةَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - قَالَ : " مَثَلُ الْمَرْأَةِ الْمُؤْمِنَةِ كَمَثَلِ الْغُرَابِ الْأَبْلَقِ فِي غِرْبَانٍ سُودٍ لَا ثَانِيَةَ لَهَا ، وَلَا شَبَهَ لَهَا . وَمَثَلُ الْمَرْأَةِ السُّوءِ كَمَثَلِ بَيْتٍ مُزَوَّقٍ ظَهْرُهُ ، خَرِبٍ جَوْفُهُ ، كَظُلَّةٍ لَا نُورَ لَهَا يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ وَاللَّهِ إِنِّي لَأَخْشَى أَنْ لَا تَقُومَ امْرَأَةٌ عَنْ فِرَاشِ زَوْجِهَا مُجَانِبَةً لَهُ إِلَّا هِيَ عَاصِيَةٌ لِلَّهِ وَلِرَسُولِهِ " .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ . وَإِسْحَاقُ بْنُ يَحْيَى لَمْ يُدْرِكْ عُبَادَةَ ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ ثِقَاتٌ .
Sayyiduna Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The likeness of a believing woman is that of a piebald crow among black crows: she has no equal and none like her. And the likeness of a bad woman is that of a house whose outside is adorned while its inside is in ruins, and that of a canopy that will have no light on the Day of Resurrection. I fear that a woman who rises from her husband's bed, keeping away from him, will be counted as disobedient to Allah and His Messenger."
At-Tabarani recorded it; the narrator Ishaq bin Yahya did not meet Sayyiduna Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him), and the rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7442
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسناده منقطع
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبْزَى قَالَ : قَالَ دَاوُدُ النَّبِيُّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : كُنْ لِلْيَتِيمِ كَالْأَبِ الرَّحِيمِ وَاعْلَمْ أَنَّكَ كَمَا تَزْرَعُ تَحْصُدُ ، وَمَثَلُ الْمَرْأَةِ الصَّالِحَةِ لِبَعْلِهَا كَالْمَلِكِ الْمُتَوَّجِ بِالْمُخَوَّصِ بِالذَّهَبِ كُلَمَّا رَآهَا قَرَّتْ بِهَا عَيْنَاهُ وَمَثَلُ الْمَرْأَةِ السُّوءِ لِبَعْلِهَا كَالْحِمْلِ الثَّقِيلِ عَلَى الشَّيْخِ الْكَبِيرِ .
قُلْتُ : فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ ، وَهُوَ فِي الْمَوَاعِظِ بِتَمَامِهِ .
رَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ، وَرِجَالُهُ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ .
Sayyiduna Abd al-Rahman bin Abza (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet Dawud (peace be upon him) said: "Be to the orphan like a merciful father, and know that as you sow, so shall you reap. The likeness of a righteous woman to her husband is that of a king wearing a crown adorned with gold: whenever he sees her, his eyes are cooled by her. And the likeness of a bad woman to her husband is that of a heavy load placed upon an old man." (Allamah al-Haythami says:) Then he mentioned the whole hadith; it will come in full in the chapter on admonitions (Mawa'iz).
At-Tabarani recorded it, and its narrators are the narrators of the Sahih.
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب النكاح / 7443
Hadith Grading محدثین: إسنادہ صحیح