السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
باب: لا نكاح لمن لم يولد
There is no marriage for one not yet born
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ بِبَغْدَادَ، أنبأ أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْمِصْرِيُّ، ثنا مَالِكُ بْنُ يَحْيَى، ثنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، أنبأ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ بْنِ مِقْسَمٍ وَهُوَ ابْنُ ضَبَّةَ قَالَ: حَدَّثَتْنِي عَمَّتِي سَارَةُ بِنْتُ مِقْسَمٍ، عَنْ مَيْمُونَةَ بِنْتِ كَرْدَمٍ قَالَتْ: رَأَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِمَكَّةَ، وَهُوَ عَلَى نَاقَةٍ لَهُ، وَأَنَا مَعَ أَبِي، وَبِيَدِ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ دِرَّةٌ كَدِرَّةِ الْكُتَّابِ، فَسَمِعْتُ الْأَعْرَابَ وَالنَّاسَ يَقُولُونَ: الطَّبْطَبِيَّةَ الطَّبْطَبِيَّةَ، فَدَنَا مِنْهُ أَبِي، فَأَخَذَ بِقَدَمِهِ وَأَقَرَّ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَتْ: فَمَا نَسِيتُ طُولَ أُصْبُعِ قَدَمِهِ السَّبَّابَةِ عَلَى سَائِرِ أَصَابِعِهِ قَالَ: فَقَالَ لَهُ: إِنِّي شَهِدْتُ جَيْشَ عَثْرَانَ قَالَتْ: فَعَرَفَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ذَلِكَ الْجَيْشَ، فَقَالَ طَارِقُ بْنُ الْمُرَقَّعِ: مَنْ يُعْطِينِي رُمْحًا بِثَوَابِهِ قَالَ: فَقُلْتُ: وَمَا ثَوَابُهُ قَالَ: أُزَوِّجُهُ أَوَّلَ ابْنَةٍ تَكُونُ لِي قَالَ: فَأَعْطَيْتُهُ رُمْحِي، ثُمَّ تَرَكْتُهُ حَتَّى وُلِدَ لَهُ ابْنَةٌ وَبَلَغَتْ، فَأَتَيْتُهُ، فَقُلْتُ: جَهِّزْ إِلِيَّ أَهْلِي، قَالَ: لَا وَاللهِ لَا أُجَهِّزُهَا حَتَّى تُحْدِثَ صَدَاقًا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ، فَحَلَفْتُ أَنْ لَا أَفْعَلَ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " وَبِقَرْنِ أِيِّ النِّسَاءِ هِيَ؟ " قُلْتُ: قَدْ رَأَتِ الْقَتِيرَ قَالَ: فَنَظَرَ إِلِيَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَقَالَ: " دَعْهَا لَا خَيْرَ لَكَ فِيهَا " قَالَ: فَرَاعَنِي ذَلِكَ وَنَظَرَ إِلِيَّ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " لَا تَأْثَمُ وَلَا يَأْثَمُ "، وَذَكَرَ بَاقِيَ الْحَدِيثِ ".
Sayyidah Maymunah bint Kardam (may Allah be pleased with her) says: I was with my father when I saw the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) in Makkah riding his she-camel, and in the hand of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was a whip like the whip of a schoolteacher. I heard the Bedouins and the people saying: "The sound of footsteps, the sound of footsteps!" My father drew near and took hold of his foot, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) let him do so. Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) says: I have not forgotten the second toe of the foot of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), which was longer than all the other toes. He said to him: I was present in the army of Athran. She says: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) knew that army. Then Tariq bin al-Muraqqa' said: Who will give me a spear for a good return? I said: What will its return be? He said: I will give him in marriage the first daughter born to me. Kardam (may Allah be pleased with him) says: I gave him my spear; a daughter was born to him and reached maturity. I came and said: Prepare my wife for me. Tariq said: Give another dower besides that and I will prepare her; otherwise, by Allah, I will not do it. I too swore and said: I will not do it. Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "Of what age among women is she?" I said: She has seen the beginning of grey hair. He says: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) looked at me and said: "Leave her; there is no good in her for you." He says: That alarmed me, and he looked at me, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Neither you will be sinful nor he."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ صَالِحٍ، ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أنبأ ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مَيْسَرَةَ، أَنَّ خَالَتَهُ، أَخْبَرَتْهُ عَنِ امْرَأَةٍ قَالَ: هِيَ مُصَدَّقَةٌ امْرَأَةُ صِدْقٍ قَالَتْ: " بَيْنَا أَنَا فِي غَزَاةٍ فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ إِذْ رَمِضُوا، فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ: مَنْ يُعْطِينِي نَعْلَيْهِ وَأُنْكِحَهُ أَوَّلَ بِنْتٍ تُولَدُ لِي؟ فَخَلَعَ أَبِي نَعْلَيْهِ، فَأَلْقَاهُمَا إِلَيْهِ فَوُلِدَتْ لَهُ جَارِيَةٌ فَبَلَغَتْ ذَكَرَ نَحْوَهُ وَلَمْ يَذْكُرْ قِصَّةَ الْقَتِيرِ وَالْقَتِيرُ الشَّيْبُ.
Ibrahim bin Maysarah narrates from his maternal aunt, who narrates from a truthful woman, that she said: We were on a military expedition in the Time of Ignorance in intense heat, and a man said: Whoever gives me his sandals, I will give him in marriage the first daughter born to me. So my father took off his sandals and gave them to him. A girl was born to him and reached the age of maturity. He mentioned it in this way but did not mention qatir, that is, "grey hair".
