السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
باب: لا يرد نكاح غير الكفؤ إذا رضيت به الزوجة، ومن له الأمر معها وكان مسلما
The marriage of an incompatible match is not annulled if the wife and the one who has authority with her accept it and he is a Muslim
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، ثنا الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، ثنا أَسَدُ بْنُ مُوسَى، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: " يَا بَنِي بَيَاضَةَ أَنْكِحُوا أَبَا هِنْدٍ، وَأَنْكِحُوا إِلَيْهِ " قَالَ: وَكَانَ حَجَّامًا ".
Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Banu Bayadah! Give (your women) in marriage to Abu Hind, and yourselves also marry into his (family)." And he was a cupper.
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو سَعْدٍ الْمَالِينِيُّ، أنبأ أَبُو أَحْمَدَ بْنُ عَدِيٍّ، حَدَّثَنِي أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ الْمُثَنَّى، ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ الْحَجَّاجِ، ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، فَذَكَرَهُ بِمِثْلِهِ.
Likewise (through another chain).
وَفِيمَا ذَكَرَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ فِي الْمَرَاسِيلِ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ عُثْمَانَ، وَكَثِيرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، عَنْ بَقِيَّةَ، ثنا الزُّبَيْدِيُّ، حَدَّثَنِي الزُّهْرِيُّ فِي هَذِهِ الْقِصَّةِ أَنَّهُمْ، قَالُوا: " يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ تُزَوِّجُ بَنَاتِنَا مَوَالِيَنَا؟ فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ: {إِنَّا خَلَقْنَاكُمْ مِنْ ذَكَرٍ وَأُنْثَى وَجَعَلْنَاكُمْ شُعُوبًا وَقَبَائِلَ لِتَعَارَفُوا} [الحجرات: ١٣] الْآيَةَ ".
Al-Zuhri (may Allah have mercy on him) said regarding this incident that they said: "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! Will you marry our daughters to our slaves?" So Allah revealed this verse: "Indeed, We created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes so that you may know one another." [Surah al-Hujurat: 13]
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ النَّسَوِيُّ، أنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ، ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، ثنا وَكِيعٌ، ثنا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ الْعَدَوِيِّ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ تَقُولُ: إِنَّ زَوْجَهَا طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا، فَلَمْ يَجْعَلْ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ سُكْنَى، وَلَا نَفَقَةَ قَالَتْ: قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " إِذَا حَلَلْتِ فَآذِنِينِي فَآذَنَتْهُ، فَخَطَبَهَا مُعَاوِيَةُ وَأَبُو جَهْمٍ وَأُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُمْ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " أَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَرَجُلٌ تَرِبٌ لَا مَالَ لَهُ، وَأَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَرَجُلٌ ضَرَّابٌ لِلنِّسَاءِ، وَلَكِنْ أُسَامَةُ " فَقَالَتْ بِيَدِهَا هَكَذَا: أُسَامَةُ أُسَامَةُ. قَالَ: فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " طَاعَةُ اللهِ وَطَاعَةُ رَسُولِهِ خَيْرٌ لَكِ " قَالَتْ: فَتَزَوَّجْتُهُ فَاغْتَبَطْتُ بِهِ " رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، وَفَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ قُرَشِيَّةٌ مِنْ بَنِي فِهْرٍ، فَإِنَّهَا فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسِ بْنِ خَالِدِ بْنِ وَهْبِ بْنِ ⦗٢٢١⦘ ثَعْلَبَةَ بْنِ وَاثِلَةَ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ شَيْبَانَ بْنِ مُحَارِبِ بْنِ فِهْرٍ، وَأُسَامَةُ هُوَ ابْنُ زَيْدِ بْنِ حَارِثَةَ بْنِ شَرَاحِيلَ الْكَلْبِيُّ مَوْلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ.
Abu Bakr bin Abi al-Jahm al-Adawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I heard Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her) saying that her husband divorced her three times, and the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) did not assign her maintenance or residence. She said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "When you become lawful (for marriage), inform me." I informed him (peace and blessings be upon him), and Abu Jahm (may Allah be pleased with him), Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) and Usamah bin Zayd (may Allah be pleased with them both) proposed marriage to me. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Mu'awiyah is a man who has no wealth, and Abu Jahm beats women a great deal; but Usamah." She gestured with her hand like this (and said): Usamah, Usamah! The narrator said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Obedience to Allah and His Messenger is better for you." She said: I married him, and I came to be envied.
(b) Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her) was a Qurashi woman from Banu Fihr, and Usamah bin Zayd (may Allah be pleased with them both) was a freed slave of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
(b) Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her) was a Qurashi woman from Banu Fihr, and Usamah bin Zayd (may Allah be pleased with them both) was a freed slave of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ، بِبَغْدَادَ، أنبأ أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْمِصْرِيُّ، ثنا أَبُو الْقَاسِمِ بْنُ اللَّيْثِ، حَدَّثَنِي حُسَيْنُ بْنُ أَبِي السَّرِيِّ، ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ أَعْيَنَ الْحَرَّانِيُّ، ثنا حَفْصُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ الْأَسَدِيُّ، عَنِ الْكُمَيْتِ بْنِ زَيْدٍ الْأَسَدِيِّ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي مَذْكُورٌ، مَوْلَى زَيْنَبَ بِنْتِ جَحْشٍ، عَنْ زَيْنَبَ بِنْتِ جَحْشٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: خَطَبَنِي عِدَّةٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَأَرْسَلْتُ إِلَيْهِ أُخْتِي أُشَاوِرُهُ فِي ذَلِكَ قَالَ: " فَأَيْنَ هِيَ مِمَّنْ يُعَلِّمُهَا كِتَابَ رَبِّهَا وَسُنَّةَ نَبِيِّهَا؟ " قَالَتْ: مَنْ؟ قَالَ: " زَيْدُ بْنُ حَارِثَةَ "، فَغَضِبَتْ وَقَالَتْ: تُزَوِّجُ ابْنَةَ عَمِّكَ مَوْلَاكَ، ثُمَّ أَتَتْنِي، فَأَخْبَرَتْنِي بِذَلِكَ، فَقُلْتُ أَشَدَّ مِنْ قَوْلِهَا، وَغَضِبْتُ أَشَدَّ مِنْ غَضَبِهَا قَالَ: فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ: {وَمَا كَانَ لِمُؤْمِنٍ وَلَا مُؤْمِنَةٍ إِذَا قَضَى اللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَمْرًا أَنْ يَكُونَ لَهُمُ الْخِيَرَةُ مِنْ أَمْرِهِمْ} [الأحزاب: ٣٦] قَالَتْ: فَأَرْسَلْتُ إِلَيْهِ زَوِّجْنِي مَنْ شِئْتَ قَالَتْ: فَزَوَّجَنِي مِنْهُ، فَأَخَذْتُهُ بِلِسَانِي، فَشَكَانِي إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " أَمْسِكْ عَلَيْكَ زَوْجَكَ وَاتَّقِ اللهَ "، ثُمَّ أَخَذْتُهُ بِلِسَانِي، فَشَكَانِي إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَقَالَ أَنَا أُطَلِّقُهَا، فَطَلَّقَنِي فَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي، فَلَمَّا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتِي لَمْ أَشْعُرْ إِلَّا وَالنَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَنَا مَكْشُوفَةُ الشَّعْرِ، فَقُلْتُ: هَذَا أَمْرٌ مِنَ السَّمَاءِ، وَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، بِلَا خِطْبَةٍ وَلَا شَهَادَةٍ قَالَ: " اللهُ الْمُزَوِّجُ وَجِبْرِيلُ الشَّاهِدُ "، وَهَذَا وَإِنْ كَانَ إِسْنَادُهُ لَا تَقُومُ بِمِثْلِهِ حُجَّةٌ، فَمَشْهُورٌ أَنَّ زَيْنَبَ بِنْتَ جَحْشٍ، وَهِيَ مِنْ بَنِي أَسَدِ بْنِ خُزَيْمَةَ، وَأُمُّهَا أُمَيْمَةُ بِنْتُ عَبْدِ الْمُطَّلِبِ بْنِ هَاشِمٍ عَمَّةُ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَتْ عِنْدَ زَيْدِ بْنِ حَارِثَةَ حَتَّى طَلَّقَهَا، ثُمَّ تَزَوَّجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِهَا وَكَذَا فِي الْحَدِيثِ ابْنَةُ عَمِّكَ وَالصَّوَابُ ابْنَةُ عَمَّتِكَ.
Sayyidah Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) said: Several Companions proposed marriage to me, so I sent my sister to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) to consult him. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "(What about) one who would teach her the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of the Messenger?" She said: Who is he? He said: "Zayd bin Harithah." She became angry and said: Will you marry your uncle's daughter to your freed slave? Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her) said: My sister told me, and I said something even harsher than she had and became even angrier, so Allah revealed this verse: "And it is not fitting for any believing man or believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter, that they should have a choice in their own affair." [Surah al-Ahzab: 36] She said: I said: Marry me to whomever you wish. She said: He (peace and blessings be upon him) married me to him. I was sharp-tongued with him, so he complained about me to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Keep your wife and fear Allah." Then I was sharp-tongued with him again, so he complained about me to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: I will divorce her. He gave me an irrevocable divorce. When my waiting period ended, I was not even aware until the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came in while my hair was uncovered. I said: This is a matter from heaven. I said: O Messenger of Allah! Without a proposal and without a witness? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah is the one who gives in marriage, and Jibril is the witness."
(b) Although its chain is such that no proof is established by the like of it, it is well known that Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her), who was from Banu Asad bin Khuzaymah, and whose mother Umaymah (may Allah be pleased with her) was the paternal aunt of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), was married to Zayd bin Harithah (may Allah be pleased with him). When he divorced her, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) married her. In the hadith the words are "ibnata 'ammik" (your paternal uncle's daughter), but the correct words are "ibnata 'ammatik" (your paternal aunt's daughter).
(b) Although its chain is such that no proof is established by the like of it, it is well known that Zaynab bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her), who was from Banu Asad bin Khuzaymah, and whose mother Umaymah (may Allah be pleased with her) was the paternal aunt of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), was married to Zayd bin Harithah (may Allah be pleased with him). When he divorced her, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) married her. In the hadith the words are "ibnata 'ammik" (your paternal uncle's daughter), but the correct words are "ibnata 'ammatik" (your paternal aunt's daughter).
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَمْرٍو الْبِسْطَامِيُّ الْأَدِيبُ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرٍ الْإِسْمَاعِيلِيُّ، أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ صَالِحٍ، ثنا هَارُونُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ، ثنا أَبُو أُسَامَةَ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: دَخَلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى ضُبَاعَةَ بِنْتِ الزُّبَيْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْمُطَّلِبِ، فَقَالَ لَهَا: " كَأَنَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ الْحَجَّ " قَالَتْ: أَجِدُنِي شَاكِيَةً قَالَ لَهَا: " حُجِّي وَاشْتَرِطِي أَنَّ مَحِلِّي حَيْثُ حَبَسْتَنِي "، وَكَانَتْ تَحْتَ الْمِقْدَادِ بْنِ الْأَسْوَدِ " ⦗٢٢٢⦘ رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، وَرَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ، عَنْ أَبِي كُرَيْبٍ كِلَاهُمَا، عَنْ أَبِي أُسَامَةَ.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) visited Duba'ah bint al-Zubayr bin Abd al-Muttalib (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: "Do you intend to perform Hajj?" She said: I feel unwell. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Perform Hajj and make the condition: My place of leaving ihram is wherever You detain me." And she was married to al-Miqdad bin al-Aswad (may Allah be pleased with him).
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ الْفَقِيهُ، أنبأ عَلِيُّ بْنُ عُمَرَ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا الْعَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ التَّرَّسِيُّ، ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَهْدِيٍّ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " زَوَّجْتُ الْمِقْدَادَ وَزَيْدًا لِيَكُونَ أَشْرَفُكُمْ عِنْدَ اللهِ أَحْسَنَكُمْ خُلُقًا "، هَذَا مُنْقَطِعٌ وَفِيمَا قَبْلَهُ كِفَايَةٌ وَالْمِقْدَادُ هُوَ ابْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ ثَعْلَبَةَ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، حَلِيفُ الْأَسْوَدِ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي زُهْرَةَ، فَنُسِبَ إِلَيْهِ، وَلَمْ يَكُنْ مِنْ صُلْبِهِمْ، وَقَدْ زُوِّجَتْ مِنْهُ ضُبَاعَةُ بِنْتُ الزُّبَيْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْمُطَّلِبِ بْنِ هَاشِمٍ.
Imam al-Sha'bi (may Allah have mercy on him) said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I arranged the marriages of al-Miqdad and Zayd so that whoever among you is best in character would be the highest in rank with Allah."
This report is munqati' (has a broken chain), and the report before it is sufficient.
(b) Sayyiduna al-Miqdad (may Allah be pleased with him) is the son of Amr bin Tha'labah bin Malik; he was an ally of al-Aswad, a man from Banu Zuhrah, and so he was attributed to him, though he was not of their lineage; and Sayyidah Duba'ah bint al-Zubayr bin Abd al-Muttalib bin Hashim (may Allah be pleased with her) was married to him.
This report is munqati' (has a broken chain), and the report before it is sufficient.
(b) Sayyiduna al-Miqdad (may Allah be pleased with him) is the son of Amr bin Tha'labah bin Malik; he was an ally of al-Aswad, a man from Banu Zuhrah, and so he was attributed to him, though he was not of their lineage; and Sayyidah Duba'ah bint al-Zubayr bin Abd al-Muttalib bin Hashim (may Allah be pleased with her) was married to him.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو، ثنا أَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْمُزَنِيُّ، أنبأ عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عِيسَى، أنبأ أَبُو الْيَمَانِ، أَخْبَرَنِي شُعَيْبُ بْنُ أَبِي حَمْزَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، أَخْبَرَنِي عُرْوَةُ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّ " أَبَا حُذَيْفَةَ بْنَ عُتْبَةَ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ شَمْسٍ، وَكَانَ مِمَّنْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، تَبَنَّى سَالِمًا، وَزَوَّجَهُ ابْنَةَ أَخِيهِ هِنْدَ بِنْتَ الْوَلِيدِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ، وَهُوَ مَوْلًى لِامْرَأَةٍ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ، كَمَا تَبَنَّى النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ زَيْدًا "، وَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ بِطُولِهِ، رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ أَبِي الْيَمَانِ، فَهَذِهِ قُرَشِيَّةٌ مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ شَمْسِ بْنِ عَبْدِ مَنَافٍ زُوِّجَتْ مِنْ مَوْلًى.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said that Abu Hudhayfah bin Utbah bin Rabi'ah bin Abd Shams, who was present at Badr with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), had adopted Salim as his son. He married his niece to him, namely Hind bint al-Walid bin Utbah, while he (Salim) was a freed slave of a woman of the Ansar, just as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had adopted Zayd as his son.
(b) Imam al-Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates it from Abu al-Yaman. She was a Qurashi woman from Banu Abd Shams bin Abd Manaf, and she was married to a freed slave.
(b) Imam al-Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates it from Abu al-Yaman. She was a Qurashi woman from Banu Abd Shams bin Abd Manaf, and she was married to a freed slave.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ الْفَقِيهُ، أنبأ عَلِيُّ بْنُ عُمَرَ الْحَافِظُ، أنبأ ابْنُ مَخْلَدٍ، ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْعَتِيقُ، ثنا عَاصِمُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ، عَنْ أَبِي الْحَسَنِ، عَنْ حَنْظَلَةَ بْنِ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ الْجُمَحِيِّ، عَنْ أُمِّهِ قَالَتْ: " رَأَيْتُ أُخْتَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ تَحْتَ بِلَالٍ ".
Hanzalah bin Abi Sufyan al-Jumahi narrates from his mother that she said: I saw the sister of Abd al-Rahman bin Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) married to Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him).
وَفِيمَا ذَكَرَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ فِي الْمَرَاسِيلِ عَنْ هَارُونَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ زَيْدِ بْنِ أَسْلَمَ، مُرْسَلًا أَنَّ بَنِي بُكَيْرٍ، أَتَوْا رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالُوا: " زَوِّجْ أُخْتَنَا مِنْ فُلَانٍ، فَقَالَ: " أَيْنَ أَنْتُمْ عَنْ بِلَالٍ "، فَعَادُوا فَأَعَادَ ثَلَاثًا، فَزَوَّجُوهُ قَالَ: وَكَانَ بَنُو بُكَيْرٍ مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرِينَ مِنْ بَنِي لَيْثٍ "، أَخْبَرَنَاهُ أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، أنبأ أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ الْفَسَوِيُّ، أنبأ أَبُو عَلِيٍّ اللُّؤْلُؤِيُّ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، فَذَكَرَهُ.
Zayd bin Aslam (may Allah have mercy on him) narrates in a mursal report that the sons of Bukayr came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: Marry our sister to so-and-so. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "What is your opinion of Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him)?" They repeated their request, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) repeated this three times, so they married her to him. The narrator said: Banu Bukayr were from the Muhajirun, of the tribe of Banu Layth.
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنبأ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الزَّاهِدُ الصَّفَّارُ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عِيسَى الْقَاضِي، ثنا عَارِمُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ، ثنا عَبْدُ الْوَاحِدِ بْنُ زِيَادٍ، ثنا عَمْرُو بْنُ مَيْمُونٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، أَنَّ أَخًا لِبِلَالٍ كَانَ يَنْتَمِي فِي الْعَرَبِ، وَيَزْعُمُ أَنَّهُ مِنْهُمْ، ⦗٢٢٣⦘ فَخَطَبَ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْعَرَبِ، فَقَالُوا: إِنْ حَضَرَ بِلَالٌ زَوَّجْنَاكَ قَالَ: فَحَضَرَ بِلَالٌ، فَقَالَ: أَنَا بِلَالُ بْنُ رَبَاحٍ، وَهَذَا أَخِي وَهُوَ " امْرُؤُ سُوءٍ سِيِّئُ الْخُلُقِ وَالدِّينِ، فَإِنْ شِئْتُمْ أَنْ تُزَوِّجُوهُ، فَزَوِّجُوهُ وَإِنْ شِئْتُمْ أَنْ تَدَعُوهُ فَدَعُوهُ، فَقَالُوا: مَنْ تَكُنْ أَخَاهُ نُزَوِّجْهُ، فَزَوَّجُوهُ ".
Amr bin Maymun (may Allah have mercy on him) said: My father narrated to me that Sayyiduna Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him) had a brother who used to trace his lineage to the Arabs and considered himself one of them. He proposed marriage to an Arab woman. They said: If Sayyiduna Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him) comes, we will marry you (to her). Sayyiduna Bilal (may Allah be pleased with him) came and said: I am Bilal bin Rabah, and this is my brother, who is bad in religion and character. If you wish, marry him and give her to him in marriage; and if you wish to leave him, then leave him. They said: Whoever you are the brother of, we will marry him (to our woman). So they married him.
