السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
باب: ما يستدل به على أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم في سوى ما ذكرنا ووصفنا من خصائصه من الحكم بين الأزواج فيما يحل منهن ويحرم بالحادث لا يخالف حلاله حلال
Evidence that, apart from the particularities of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) we have mentioned and described, in ruling between wives on what becomes lawful or unlawful from them through an occurrence, his lawful does not differ from the lawful of others
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ الْعَدْلُ، بِبَغْدَادَ، أنبأ أَبُو عَلِيٍّ إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الصَّفَّارُ، ثنا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْوَرَّاقُ، ثنا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ، أنبأ ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ قَالَ: حَضَرْنَا مَعَ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُمَا جِنَازَةَ مَيْمُونَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِسَرِفَ، فَقَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ: " هَذِهِ مَيْمُونَةُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا " إِذَا رَفَعْتُمْ نَعْشَهَا، فَلَا تُزَعْزِعُوا، وَلَا تُزَلْزِلُوا ارْفُقُوا؛ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ عِنْدَهُ تِسْعُ نِسْوَةٍ يَقْسِمُ لِثَمَانٍ وَوَاحِدَةٌ لَمْ يَكُنْ يَقْسِمُ لَهَا " قَالَ عَطَاءٌ: وَالَّتِي لَمْ يَكُنْ يَقْسِمُ لَهَا صَفِيَّةُ. أَخْرَجَاهُ فِي الصَّحِيحِ مِنْ حَدِيثِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، هَكَذَا يَقُولُ عَطَاءٌ: إِنَّ الَّتِيَ لَمْ يَقْسِمْ لَهَا صَفِيَّةُ، وَالْأَخْبَارُ الْمَوْصُولَةُ تَدُلُّ عَلَى أَنَّهَا سَوْدَةُ، حَيْثُ وَهَبَتْ يَوْمَهَا مِنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا.
Ata' said: We went with Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) to the funeral of Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her) at a place called Sarif. Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: This is Maymunah (may Allah be pleased with her); when you lift her body, do not jolt it much and do not shake it, but carry it gently. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had nine wives; he assigned turns to eight and did not assign a turn to one.
Ata' said: The one to whom he did not assign a turn was Safiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her). The remaining connected (mawsul) reports indicate that she was Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her), who had gifted her day to Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her).
Ata' said: The one to whom he did not assign a turn was Safiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her). The remaining connected (mawsul) reports indicate that she was Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her), who had gifted her day to Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her).
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنبأ إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْفَضْلِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ الشَّعْرَانِيُّ، ثنا جَدِّي، ثنا ابْنُ أَبِي أُوَيْسٍ، حَدَّثَنِي سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ بِلَالٍ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي أَبِي، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ يَسْأَلُ فِي مَرَضِهِ الَّذِي مَاتَ فِيهِ: " " أَيْنَ أَنَا غَدًا؟ أَيْنَ أَنَا غَدًا؟ " " يُرِيدُ يَوْمَ عَائِشَةَ، فَأَذِنَ لَهَا أَزْوَاجُهُ يَكُونُ حَيْثُ شَاءَ فَكَانَ فِي بَيْتِ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا حَتَّى مَاتَ عِنْدَهَا صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا: فَمَاتَ فِي الْيَوْمِ الَّذِي كَانَ يَدُورُ عَلَيَّ فِي بَيْتِي، فَقُبِضَ وَأَنَّ رَأْسَهُ لَبَيْنَ سَحْرِي وَنَحْرِي، وَخَالَطَ رِيقُهُ رِيقِي قَالَتْ: دَخَلَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ، وَمَعَهُ سِوَاكٌ يَسْتَنُّ بِهِ، فَنَظَرَ إِلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقُلْتُ: أَعْطِنِي هَذَا السِّوَاكَ يَا عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ، فَأَعْطَانِيهِ فَقَضِمْتُهُ، ثُمَّ مَضَغْتُهُ، فَأَعْطَيْتُهُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَاسْتَنَّ بِهِ وَهُوَ مُسْتَنِدٌ إِلَى صَدْرِي صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " " رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ أَبِي أُوَيْسٍ، وَأَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ.
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) that in the illness in which he (peace and blessings be upon him) passed away, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to ask: "Where will I be tomorrow? Where will I be tomorrow?" He meant Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her), that is, her turn. So his (peace and blessings be upon him) wives gave permission that he (peace and blessings be upon him) could stay wherever he wished, and so his (peace and blessings be upon him) death took place in the house of Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her). Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: He (peace and blessings be upon him) passed away on the day that was my turn; he (peace and blessings be upon him) was taken in my house, and his (peace and blessings be upon him) blessed head was between my chest and my chin, and his (peace and blessings be upon him) saliva mixed with mine. She said: Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Bakr came in with a tooth-stick (miswak) which he was using. He (peace and blessings be upon him) looked at it. I said: O Abd al-Rahman! Give me the miswak. I softened it, then chewed it, and gave it to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and he (peace and blessings be upon him) used it while he (peace and blessings be upon him) was reclining against my chest.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، وَأَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ قَالَا: ثنا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الصَّفَّارُ، ثنا سَعْدَانُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ، ثنا عَاصِمُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ عَاصِمٍ، ثنا عَبَّادُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ، ثنا عَاصِمٌ الْأَحْوَلُ، عَنْ مُعَاذَةَ الْعَدَوِيَّةِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: " كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَسْتَأْذِنُنَا فِي يَوْمِ إِحْدَانَا بَعْدَمَا أُنْزِلَتْ {تُرْجِي مَنْ تَشَاءُ مِنْهُنَّ وَتُؤْوِي إِلَيْكَ مَنْ تَشَاءُ} [الأحزاب: ٥١]، فَقَالَتْ لَهَا مُعَاذَةُ: فَمَا كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ لِرَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا اسْتَأْذَنَ؟ قَالَتْ: أَقُولُ إِنْ كَانَ ذَاكَ إِلِيَّ لَمْ أُوثِرْ عَلَى نَفْسِي أَحَدًا " أَخْرَجَهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ عَنْ عَاصِمٍ الْأَحْوَلِ، وَأَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ، عَنْ سُرَيْجِ بْنِ يُونُسَ، عَنْ عَبَّادِ بْنِ عَبَّادٍ. ⦗١١٨⦘ قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ: وَكَانَ إِذَا أَرَادَ سَفَرًا أَقْرَعَ بَيْنَهُنَّ فَأَيَّتُهُنَّ خَرَجَ سَهْمُهَا خَرَجَ بِهَا.
Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: After this verse was revealed, "You may defer whom you will of them and take to yourself whom you will" [Surah al-Ahzab: 51], the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) used to ask our permission on the day (turn) of any one of us. Mu'adhah said: Then what did you say to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) when he (peace and blessings be upon him) asked your permission? Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I would say: If that were up to me, I would not prefer anyone over myself.
Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: And when he (peace and blessings be upon him) intended to travel, he would cast lots among them, and whichever of them drew the lot, he would take her with him.
Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: And when he (peace and blessings be upon him) intended to travel, he would cast lots among them, and whichever of them drew the lot, he would take her with him.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، ثنا أَبُو جَعْفَرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ صَالِحِ بْنِ هَانِئٍ، ثنا يَحْيَى بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يَحْيَى الشَّهِيدُ، ثنا أَبُو الرَّبِيعِ الْعَتَكِيُّ، نا فُلَيْحُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ، وَسَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ، وَعَلْقَمَةَ بْنِ وَقَّاصٍ، وَعُبَيْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَرَضِيَ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَخْرُجَ سَفَرًا أَقْرَعَ بَيْنَ أَزْوَاجِهِ، فَأَيَّتُهُنَّ خَرَجَ سَهْمُهَا خَرَجَ بِهَا مَعَهُ " رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ، وَمُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ أَبِي الرَّبِيعِ قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: فَهَذَا لِكُلِّ مَنْ لَهُ أَزْوَاجٌ مِنَ النَّاسِ قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ رَضِيَ اللهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُ: وَمِنْ ذَلِكَ أَنَّهُ أَرَادَ فِرَاقَ سَوْدَةَ، فَقَالَتْ: لَا تُفَارِقْنِي وَدَعْنِي حَتَّى يَحْشُرَنِيَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِي أَزْوَاجِكَ، وَأَنَا أَهَبُ يَوْمِي وَلَيْلَتِي لِأُخْتِي عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) intended to travel, he would cast lots among his wives, and whichever wife's lot came out, he would take her with him.
Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: This applies to everyone among people who has wives. Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) also said: And among that is that he intended to part from Sawdah, and she said: "Do not part from me; leave me so that Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, resurrects me among your wives, and I give my day and my night to my sister Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her)."
Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: This applies to everyone among people who has wives. Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) also said: And among that is that he intended to part from Sawdah, and she said: "Do not part from me; leave me so that Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, resurrects me among your wives, and I give my day and my night to my sister Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her)."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنبأ عَلِيُّ بْنُ عِيسَى بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ، وَعَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَا: ثنا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، أنبأ جَرِيرٌ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: " مَا رَأَيْتُ امْرَأَةً فِي مِسْلَاخِهَا مِثْلَ سَوْدَةَ مِنِ امْرَأَةٍ فِيهَا حِدَّةٌ، فَلَمَّا كَبِرَتْ قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ جَعَلْتُ يَوْمِي مِنْكَ لِعَائِشَةَ، فَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقْسِمُ لِعَائِشَةَ يَوْمَيْنِ يَوْمَهَا وَيَوْمَ سَوْدَةَ " رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ زُهَيْرِ بْنِ حَرْبٍ عَنْ جَرِيرٍ، وَأَخْرَجَهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ مُخْتَصَرًا مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ.
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I have not seen any woman in whose skin I would rather be (that is, whom I would rather be like) than Sayyidah Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her), a woman in whom there was some sharpness. When she grew old, she said: "O Messenger of Allah! I give my turn to Aishah." So the Prophet of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) used to allot two days to Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her): her own day and the day of Sayyidah Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her).
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ، ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ، ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا: يَا ابْنَ أُخْتِي كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، لَا يُفَضِّلُ بَعْضَنَا عَلَى بَعْضٍ فِي الْقَسْمِ مِنْ مُكْثِهِ عِنْدَنَا، وَكَانَ قَلَّ يَوْمٌ إِلَّا وَهُوَ يَطُوفُ عَلَيْنَا جَمِيعًا، فَيَدْنُو مِنْ كُلِّ امْرَأَةٍ مِنْ غَيْرِ مَسِيسٍ، حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ الَّذِي هُوَ يَوْمُهَا فَيَبِيتُ عِنْدَهَا، وَلَقَدْ قَالَتْ سَوْدَةُ بِنْتُ زَمْعَةَ حِينَ أَسَنَّتْ وَفَرِقَتْ أَنْ يُفَارِقَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ يَوْمِي لِعَائِشَةَ، فَقَبِلَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنْهَا قَالَ: تَقُولُ فِي ذَلِكَ أَنْزَلَ اللهُ تَعَالَى وَفِي أَشْبَاهِهَا، أَرَاهُ قَالَ: {وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَا} [النساء: ١٢٨] الْآيَةَ ".
Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: O my nephew! The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did not favour any of us over another in the division of his staying with us, and there was hardly a day on which he (peace and blessings be upon him) did not go round to all of us wives, coming near to each woman without touching, until he reached the one whose turn it was, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) would spend the night with her. And when Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her) grew old and feared that he (peace and blessings be upon him) would separate from her, she said: Give my turn to Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her); and he (peace and blessings be upon him) accepted this from her. (The narrator) said: She used to say that concerning this and similar cases Allah Almighty revealed, I think he said: "And if a woman fears from her husband ill-conduct or desertion, there is no sin upon them both" [Surah al-Nisa: 128].
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، وَأَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو قَالَا: ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ ⦗١١٩⦘ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْجَبَّارِ، ثنا حَفْصُ بْنُ غِيَاثٍ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " طَلَّقَ سَوْدَةَ، فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ إِلَى الصَّلَاةِ أَمْسَكَتْ بِثَوْبِهِ، فَقَالَتْ: مَالِي فِي الرِّجَالِ مِنْ حَاجَةٍ، وَلَكِنِّي أُرِيدُ أَنْ أُحْشَرَ فِي أَزْوَاجِكَ قَالَ: فَرَجَعَهَا وَجَعَلَ يَوْمَهَا لِعَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا وَكَانَ يَقْسِمُ لَهَا بِيَوْمِهَا وَيَوْمِ سَوْدَةَ " قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ: وَقَدْ فَعَلَتِ ابْنَةُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ شَبِيهًا بِهَذَا حِينَ أَرَادَ زَوْجُهَا طَلَاقَهَا.
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) divorced Sawdah (may Allah be pleased with her). When he (peace and blessings be upon him) went out for the prayer, she took hold of him (peace and blessings be upon him) by his garment and said: "I have no need of any man; I wish to be raised as your (peace and blessings be upon him) wife." He (peace and blessings be upon him) took her back and assigned her turn to Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her); he (peace and blessings be upon him) allotted two days to her: one day her own and one Sawdah's (may Allah be pleased with her).
Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The daughter of Muhammad bin Maslamah did something similar to this when her husband wanted to divorce her.
Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The daughter of Muhammad bin Maslamah did something similar to this when her husband wanted to divorce her.
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مُحَمَّدِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، أنبأ أَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ الْأَعْرَابِيِّ، نا سَعْدَانُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ، نا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ قَالَ: كَانَتِ ابْنَةُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ عِنْدَ رَافِعِ بْنِ خَدِيجٍ، فَكَرِهَ مِنْهَا إِمَّا كِبَرًا وَإِمَّا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ، فَأَرَادَ طَلَاقَهَا، فَقَالَتْ: لَا تُطَلِّقْنِي وَأَمْسِكْنِي وَاقْسِمْ لِي مَا شِئْتَ، فَاصْطَلَحَا عَلَى صُلْحٍ فَجَرَتِ السُّنَّةُ بِذَلِكَ، وَنَزَلَ الْقُرْآنُ: {وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا} [النساء: ١٢٨] ".
Sa'id bin al-Musayyib (may Allah have mercy on him) said: The daughter of Muhammad bin Maslamah was married to Sayyiduna Rafi' bin Khadij (may Allah be pleased with him). He disliked her, either because of old age or for some other reason, and intended to divorce her. She said: Do not divorce me; keep me, and allot to me whatever you wish. Then the two of them came to a settlement, and this became an established sunnah, and this verse was revealed: "And if a woman fears from her husband ill-conduct or desertion" [Surah al-Nisa: 128].
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْقَاضِي، ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، أنبأ الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، أنبأ الشَّافِعِيُّ، أنبأ أَنَسُ بْنُ عِيَاضٍ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ زَيْنَبَ بِنْتِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ أُمِّ حَبِيبَةَ بِنْتِ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ " هَلْ لَكَ فِي أُخْتِي بِنْتِ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " فَاعِلٌ مَاذَا؟ " قَالَتْ: تَنْكِحُهَا قَالَ: " أُخْتُكِ؟ " قَالَتْ: نَعَمْ قَالَ: " أَوَتُحِبِّينَ ذَلِكَ؟ " قَالَتْ: نَعَمْ لَسْتُ لَكَ بِمُخْلِيَةٍ، وَأَحَبُّ مَنْ شَرِكَنِي فِي خَيْرٍ أُخْتِي، قَالَ: " فَإِنَّهَا لَا تَحِلُّ لِي " قَالَتْ: فَقُلْتُ: فَوَاللهِ لَقَدْ أُخْبِرْتُ أَنَّكَ تَخْطُبُ ابْنَةَ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ قَالَ: " ابْنَةُ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ؟ " قَالَتْ: نَعَمْ قَالَ: " فَوَاللهِ لَوْ لَمْ تَكُنْ رَبِيبَتِي فِي حِجْرِي مَا حَلَّتْ لِي؛ إِنَّهَا لَابْنَةُ أَخِي مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ أَرْضَعَتْنِي وَأَبَاهَا ثُوَيْبَةُ، فَلَا تَعْرِضْنَ عَلَيَّ بَنَاتِكُنَّ وَلَا أَخَوَاتِكُنَّ "، أَخْرَجَاهُ فِي الصَّحِيحِ مِنْ حَدِيثِ هِشَامٍ، وَالزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ عُرْوَةَ.
Sayyidah Umm Habibah bint Abi Sufyan (may Allah be pleased with her) said: (I said:) "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! Do you have any interest in our sister, the daughter of Abu Sufyan?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Meaning what?" She said: "Will you marry her?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The one who is your sister?" She said: "Yes." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Would you like that?" She said: "Yes, I am not selfish, and the one I would most like to share good with me is my sister." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "She is not lawful for me." I said: "I have been told that you are going to marry the daughter of Abu Salamah." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The daughter of Umm Salamah?" The Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "Yes." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "By Allah! Had she not been brought up in my care, in my lap, she would still not be lawful for me; she is the daughter of my foster brother. Thuwaybah suckled me and her father. So do not send me proposals of your daughters and sisters."
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ، أنبأ أَبُو يَعْلَى، ثنا زُهَيْرُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، ثنا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، ثنا الْأَعْمَشُ، عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ عُبَيْدَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السُّلَمِيِّ، عَنْ عَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا لَكَ تَتُوقُ فِي قُرَيْشٍ وَتَدَعُنَا قَالَ: " وَعِنْدَكُمْ شَيْءٌ؟ " قَالَ: قُلْنَا: نَعَمِ ابْنَةُ حَمْزَةَ قَالَ: فَقَالَ: " فَإِنَّهَا لَا تَحِلُّ لِي هِيَ ابْنَةُ أَخِي مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ "، رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ زُهَيْرِ بْنِ حَرْبٍ.
Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I said: O Messenger of Allah! You find more excellence among Quraysh and leave us. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do you have anything?" We said: Yes, the daughter of Hamzah (may Allah be pleased with him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "She is the daughter of my foster brother; she is not lawful for me."
