Amrah (may Allah have mercy on her) said that she heard Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) when it was mentioned to her that Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) says that the deceased is punished because of the weeping of the living. Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: He certainly does not lie, but he has made a mistake or forgotten. He (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by a Jewish woman whose family were weeping over her, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "They are weeping over her, and she is being punished in the grave."
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الجنائز / 7174