The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"The upper hand is better than the lower hand, and (in spending) begin with those who are under your care."
Hadith Referenceصحیح الجامع الصغیر / حرف الياء / 8195
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:صحيح
Hadith Takhrij[حم طب] عن ابن عمر. تخريج مشكلة الفقر ٤٤.