مصنف ابن ابي شيبه
Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah
كتاب الطلاق
Book of Divorce
ما قالوا: في الرجل أو (المرأة) تسأل ابنها (أن) يطلق امرأته
A man or woman asking their son to divorce his wife
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٢٠١٧٧ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا يزيد بن هارون عن ابن أبي ذئب قال: نا الحارث بن عبد الرحمن عن حمزة بن عبد اللَّه بن عمر قال: كانت (تحت) (١) ابن ⦗٤٤٠⦘ عمر (امرأة) (٢) وكان يعجب بها (وكان عمر يكرهها) (٣) فقال (له) (٤): طلقها، فأبى (فذكرها) (٥) عمر لرسول اللَّه ﷺ فقال النبي ﷺ: "أطع أباك وطلقها (٦) " (٧).
Hamzah bin Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) had a wife whom he loved very much, while Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) did not like that woman. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said to his son Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him): Divorce her. He refused to divorce her, so Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) mentioned this to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: "Obey your father and divorce her."
٢٠١٧٨ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا جرير عن (الركين) (١) عن أبي طلحة الأسدي قال: كنت جالسًا عند ابن عباس فأتاه أعرابيان (فاكتنفاه) (٢) فقال: أحدهما: إني منت أبغي إبلًا لي، فنزلت بقوم فأعجبتني فتاة لهم، فتزوجتها فحلف أبواي أن لا يضماها أبدا، وحلف الفتى فقال: عليه (ألف محرر) (٣) وألف هدية وألف بدنة إن طلقها، فقال ابن عباس: ما أنا بالذي آمرك أن تطلق امرأتك، ولا أن (تعق) (٤) والديك قال: فما أصنع بهذه المرأة؟ قال: إبرر والديك (٥).
Abu Talhah al-Asadi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I was sitting with Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) when two bedouins came to him with their dispute. One of them said: I went searching for my camel and came to a people; a girl of theirs pleased me greatly, so I married her. My parents have sworn that they will never accept this woman as a daughter-in-law. The young man swore that if he divorced her, it would be binding on him to free a thousand slaves, give a thousand offerings and give a thousand camels in charity. Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: I neither command you to divorce, nor to disobey your parents. He said: Then what should I do? He said: Keep treating your parents with kindness.
٢٠١٧٩ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا (١) محمد بن فضيل عن عطاء بن السائب عن أبي عبد الرحمن قال: كان من الحي فتى في بيت شلم (تزل) (٢) به أمه حتى (زوجته) (٣) ابنة عم له فعلق منها معلقًا، ثم قالت له أمه: طلقها، فقال: لا أستطيع، علقت مني (ما لا أستطيع) (٤) أن أطلقها معه، قالت: فطعامك (وشرابك) (٥) علي حرام حتى تطلقها فرحل إلى أبي الدرداء إلى الشام فذكر له شأنه فقال: (ما) (٦) أنا بالذي آمرك أن تطلق امرأتك، ولا أنا بالذي آمرك أن تعق والديك (٧).
Abu Abd al-Rahman (may Allah have mercy on him) said: In a tribe there was a young man whose mother insisted until she had him married to his paternal cousin. Then the young man too came to love her. Then his mother ordered him to divorce that girl. The young man said: Now I have come to love her, and I no longer have the strength to divorce her. His mother said: Your food and your drink are forbidden to me until you divorce her. The young man travelled to Syria (al-Sham) and reached Sayyiduna Abu al-Darda (may Allah be pleased with him), and told him the whole story. He said: I neither command you to divorce your wife, nor do I tell you to disobey your mother.
٢٠١٨٠ - حدثنا أبو بكر قال: نا (هشيم) (١) (عن) (٢) حميد عن الحسن قال: (جاءه) (٣) رجل فقال: إن أمه أمرته أن (يتزوج) (٤)، [ثم أمرته بعد ذلك أن يطلق؟ فقال (الحسن) (٥): ليس طلاقه امرأته] (٦)، من بر (أمه) (٧) في شيء.
A man came to al-Hasan and said that his mother had first ordered him to marry and then ordered him to divorce his wife now. Al-Hasan said: Divorcing his wife is no part of dutifulness to his mother.
