Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 12495 — Severity regarding weeping over

Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: When the news of the death of Sayyiduna Ja'far (may Allah be pleased with him) came, I saw the signs of grief on the blessed face of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). A man came and said: "O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! The women are weeping." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Go to them and silence them; if they refuse to be quiet, throw dust in their faces." Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I said to myself: "By Allah, you neither left yourself alone, nor are you obeying the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)."