Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 12494 — Severity regarding weeping over

Sayyidah Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: When Sayyiduna Abu Salamah (may Allah be pleased with him) passed away, I said: "I am a stranger, in a foreign land; I will weep for him with a weeping that will be talked about." When I had resolved to weep (wail), a woman came to me from the upland, wanting to help me in weeping. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) turned towards her and said: "Do you want to bring Shaytan into a house from which Allah Almighty has expelled him?" He said this twice. She said: So I stopped weeping and did not weep afterwards.