المعجم الكبير للطبراني
Al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (Tabarani)
مسند النساء
The Female Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
أبو بكر بن صخير بن أبي الجهم، عن فاطمة
Abu Bakr bin Sukhayr bin Abi al-Jahm from Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her)
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حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُسْلِمٍ الْكَشِّيُّ، وَيُوسُفُ الْقَاضِي، قَالَا: ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ، ثنا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ، قَالَ: جِئْتُ أَنَا وَأَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ إِلَى فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ أُخْتِ الضَّحَّاكِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ، وَقَدْ أَخْرَجَتْ بِنْتَ أَخِيهَا ظُهْرًا، فَقُلْتُ: مَا حَمَلَكِ عَلَى هَذَا؟ قَالَتْ: كَانَ زَوْجِي أَبُو حَفْصِ بْنُ الْمُغِيرَةِ بَعَثَ إِلَيَّ مَعَ عَيَّاشِ بْنِ أَبِي رَبِيعَةَ بِطَلَاقِي ثَلَاثًا، وَبَعَثَ إِلَيَّ بِخَمْسَةِ أُصْعٍ مِنْ شَعِيرٍ، وَخَمْسَةِ أُصْعٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ، فَقُلْتُ: وَمَا لِي نَفَقَةٌ إِلَّا هَذَا؟ فَجَمَعْتُ عَلِيَّ ثِيَابِي، فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: «كَمْ طَلَّقَكِ؟» قُلْتُ: ثَلَاثًا، قَالَ: «فَإِنَّهُ صَدَقَ لَا نَفَقَةَ لَكِ، وَاعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ تَضَعِي عَنْكِ ثِيَابَكِ»
Abu Bakr bin Abi al-Jahm (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Abu Salamah bin Abd al-Rahman and I came to Sayyidah Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her), the sister of al-Dahhak bin Qays, and she had taken her niece out (of her house) at the time of Zuhr. I said: "What led you to do this?" She said: "My husband Abu Hafs bin al-Mughirah sent me word of my three divorces with Ayyash bin Abi Rabi'ah, and he sent me five sa' of barley and five sa' of dates. I said: 'Is this all the maintenance I get?' So I gathered my clothes about me and came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: 'How many times did he divorce you?' I said: 'Three.' He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: 'Then he has spoken the truth; you are not entitled to maintenance. Spend your waiting period in the house of Ibn Umm Maktum; there you can take off your outer garments.'"
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الْأَصْبَهَانِيُّ، ثنا شَرِيكٌ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا مَحْمُودُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْوَاسِطِيُّ، ثنا زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ يَحْيَى زَحْمَوَيْهِ، ثنا شَرِيكٌ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ صُخَيْرٍ، قَالَ: دَخَلْتُ أَنَا وَأَبُو سَلَمَةَ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَلَى فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ وَكَانَ زَوْجُهَا طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا، فَقَالَتْ: «أَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَلَمْ يَجْعَلْ لِي سُكْنَى وَلَا نَفَقَةً»
Abu Bakr bin Sukhayr said: Abu Salamah bin Abd al-Rahman and I went in to Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her); her husband had divorced her three times. She said: "I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and he (peace and blessings be upon him) did not grant me either housing or maintenance."
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْجَارُودِيُّ النَّيْسَابُورِيُّ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ طَهْمَانَ، عَنْ عُتْبَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ الْجَهْمِ، قَالَ: دَخَلْتُ عَلَى فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ وَكَانَ زَوْجُهَا طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا، فَقَالَتْ: مَتَّعَنِي بِثَلَاثَةِ آصُعٍ شَعِيرٍ، وَثَلَاثَةِ آصُعٍ تَمْرٍ، قَالَتْ: وَأَمَرَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ أَكُونَ عِنْدَ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ مَكْفُوفُ الْبَصَرِ لَا يَرَانِي حِينَ اخْلَعُ خِمَارِي، قَالَ: «فَإِذَا حَلَلْتِ فَلَا تَسْبِقِينِي» فَلَمَّا حَلَلْتُ، قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «أَذَكَرَكِ أَحَدٌ؟» قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ، مُعَاوِيَةُ، وَأَبُو جَهْمٍ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «أَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ، فَشَدِيدُ الْخُلُقِ عَلَى نِسَائِهِ، وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَلَا مَالَ لَهُ، وَلَكِنِ انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ» ، فَقُلْتُ: أُسَامَةُ - تَهَاوُنًا بِأَمْرِ أُسَامَةَ - ثُمَّ قُلْتُ: سَمْعًا وَطَاعَةً لِلَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ، فَزَوَّجَنِي أُسَامَةَ «فَكَرَمَنِي اللهُ بِابْنِ زَيْدٍ، وشَرَّفَنِي اللهُ بِابْنِ زَيْدٍ، ونَفَعَنِي اللهُ بِابْنِ زَيْدٍ»
Abu Bakr bin al-Jahm (may Allah have mercy on him) said: I went in to Fatimah bint Qays (may Allah be pleased with her), and her husband had divorced her three times. She said: He sent me three sa' of barley and three sa' of dates. Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: And the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered me to stay at the house of Ibn Umm Maktum, for he was blind; when I took off my head covering he could not see me. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "When your waiting period is over, do not decide anything before (consulting) me." When my waiting period was over, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Has anyone proposed to you?" I said: "Yes, Mu'awiyah and Abu Jahm." The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "As for Abu Jahm, he is harsh with his women; and as for Mu'awiyah, he has no wealth. Rather, marry Usamah." I said: "Usamah?" (making light of Usamah's standing). Then I said: "We hear and obey Allah and His Messenger." So he (peace and blessings be upon him) married me to Usamah, "and Allah honoured me through the son of Zayd, Allah ennobled me through the son of Zayd, and Allah benefited me through the son of Zayd."
