المعجم الكبير للطبراني
Al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (Tabarani)
مسند النساء
The Female Companions (may Allah be pleased with them)
يزيد أبو عبد الله الشيباني، عن شهر، عن أسماء
Yazid Abu Abdullah al-Shaybani from Shahr from Asma (may Allah be pleased with her)
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حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ الْفَضْلُ بْنُ دُكَيْنٍ، وَأَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ، قَالَا: ثنا يَزِيدُ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الشَّيْبَانِيُّ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ شَهْرَ بْنَ حَوْشَبٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَتْنَا أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةُ، أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ فِي النِّسْوَةِ اللَّاتِي أَخَذَ عَلَيْهِنَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَا أَخَذَ، وَكَانَتْ مَعَهَا خَالَتُهَا عَلَيْهَا خَوَاتِيمَ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ وسِوارَانِ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ، فَجَعَلَ يَصْرِفُ بَصَرَهُ عَنْهَا، حَتَّى إِذَا فَرَغَ قَالَ: «مَا هَذِهِ أَيَسُرُّكِ أَنْ يُحَلِّيَكِ اللهُ حُلِيًّا مِنْ نَارٍ؟» قَالَتْ: أَعُوذُ بِاللهِ مِنَ النَّارِ، فَنَزَعَتْ خَوَاتِيمَهَا فَرَمَتْ بِهَا بَيْنَ يَدَيْهَا، وَعَالَجَتْ سَوَارِيهَا فَلَمْ تَسْتَطِعْ فَعَمَدَتْ إِلَيْهِ فَقَضَمَتْهُ عَنْهَا، فَرَمَتْ بِهَا فِي مَكَانٍ لَا نَدْرِي مَا فَعَلَ، قَالَتْ: فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ نَحْنُ النِّسَاءُ لَا بُدَّ لَنَا أَنْ نَتَزَيَّنَ لِبُعُولَتِنَا، فَأَذِنَ لَنَا فِي خِرْصَيْنِ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ فَأَبَى عَلِيَّ، وَقَالَ: «مَا عَلَى إِحْدَاكُنَّ إِلَّا أَنْ تَتَّخِذَ خِرْصَيْنِ مِنْ فِضَّةٍ، ثُمَّ تَتَّخِذُ شَعْرَتَيْنِ مِنْ زَعْفَرَانٍ فَتَمُرُّ بِهِ بَيْنَ إِصْبِعَيْهَا ثُمَّ تُصَفِّرُهُ فَإِذَا هُوَ مِثْلُ الذَّهَبِ»
Sayyidah Umm Salamah al-Ansariyyah (Asma bint Yazid) (may Allah be pleased with her) was among the women from whom the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) took the same pledge of allegiance that he took from the other women. With her was her maternal aunt, who had gold rings and two gold bracelets on her hands. He (peace and blessings be upon him) kept turning his gaze away from her, until, when he had finished, he said: "What is this? Would it please you that Allah should adorn you with ornaments of fire?" The aunt said: I seek refuge with Allah from the Fire. So she took off her rings and threw them down in front of her, and she tried to take off her bracelets but could not, so she bit them off with her teeth and threw them in a certain place; we do not know what became of them. Sayyidah Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I said: O Messenger of Allah, we women must adorn ourselves for our husbands, so permit us two gold earrings. But he (peace and blessings be upon him) refused me and said: "All that one of you need do is make two silver earrings, then take two threads of saffron, pass it between her fingers and make it yellow, and it will be like gold."
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، ثنا يَزِيدُ الشَّيْبَانِيُّ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ شَهْرَ بْنَ حَوْشَبٍ، يَقُولُ: حَدَّثَتْنِي أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةُ، أَنَّ امْرَأَةً مِنَ النِّسْوَةِ قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا هَذَا الْمَعْرُوفُ الَّذِي نُهِينَا أَنْ نَعْصِيَكَ فِيهِ؟ قَالَ: «لَا تَنُحْنَ» قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ فَإِنَّ بَنِي فُلَانٍ قَدْ كَانَ أَسْعَدُونِي عَلَى بِنْتِ عَمِّي فُلَانَةٍ فَلَا بُدَّ مِنْ قَضَائِهِمْ، فَأَبَى عَلَيَّ، فَعَاوَدْتُهُ مِرَارًا، فَأَذِنَ لِي فِي قَضَائِهِنَّ فَلَمْ أَنُحْ بَعْدَ قَضَائِهِنَّ وَلَا غَيْرُهُ حَتَّى السَّاعَةِ، وَلَمْ يَبْقَ مِنَ النِّسْوَةِ إِلَّا قَدْ نَاحَتْ غَيْرِي
Umm Salamah al-Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated that one of the women said: O Messenger of Allah, what is this good thing (ma'ruf) in which we have been forbidden to disobey you? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not wail (over the dead)." I said: O Messenger of Allah, the people of such-and-such a tribe helped me in wailing at the death of my cousin so-and-so (that is, by custom they had a claim on me), so I must repay them. But he (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade me. I asked him repeatedly, and then he (peace and blessings be upon him) permitted me to repay them. After repaying them, I have neither wailed nor done anything else like it to this day, and there is no woman left, other than me, who has not wailed.
