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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 20829 — one of the women said: O Messenger

حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ، ثنا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، ثنا يَزِيدُ الشَّيْبَانِيُّ، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ شَهْرَ بْنَ حَوْشَبٍ، يَقُولُ: حَدَّثَتْنِي أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةُ، أَنَّ امْرَأَةً مِنَ النِّسْوَةِ قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا هَذَا الْمَعْرُوفُ الَّذِي نُهِينَا أَنْ نَعْصِيَكَ فِيهِ؟ قَالَ: «لَا تَنُحْنَ» قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ فَإِنَّ بَنِي فُلَانٍ قَدْ كَانَ أَسْعَدُونِي عَلَى بِنْتِ عَمِّي فُلَانَةٍ فَلَا بُدَّ مِنْ قَضَائِهِمْ، فَأَبَى عَلَيَّ، فَعَاوَدْتُهُ مِرَارًا، فَأَذِنَ لِي فِي قَضَائِهِنَّ فَلَمْ أَنُحْ بَعْدَ قَضَائِهِنَّ وَلَا غَيْرُهُ حَتَّى السَّاعَةِ، وَلَمْ يَبْقَ مِنَ النِّسْوَةِ إِلَّا قَدْ نَاحَتْ غَيْرِي
Umm Salamah al-Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated that one of the women said: O Messenger of Allah, what is this good thing (ma'ruf) in which we have been forbidden to disobey you? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not wail (over the dead)." I said: O Messenger of Allah, the people of such-and-such a tribe helped me in wailing at the death of my cousin so-and-so (that is, by custom they had a claim on me), so I must repay them. But he (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade me. I asked him repeatedly, and then he (peace and blessings be upon him) permitted me to repay them. After repaying them, I have neither wailed nor done anything else like it to this day, and there is no woman left, other than me, who has not wailed.
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / مسند النساء / 20829
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 24، صفحہ 181، حدیث 458