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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 16477 — a man said: O Messenger of Allah! He ﷺ

حَدَّثَنَا الْعَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الْأَسْفَاطِيُّ، ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ الْعَيْشِيُّ، حَدَّثَنِي سَلْمُ بْنُ قُتَيْبَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ الثَّقَفِيِّ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَتْنِي سَارَةُ بِنْتُ مِقْسَمٍ، عَنْ مَيْمُونَةَ ابْنَةِ كَرْدَمٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهَا كَرْدَمِ بْنِ سُفْيَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّ، أَنَّ رَجُلًا قَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ فَأَصْغَى إِلَيْهِ، فَقَالَ: أَيْنَ عَامُ جَيْشِ عِثْرَانَ؟، قَالَ: فَعَرَفَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ذَلِكَ الْجَيْشَ، كُنْتُ فِي ذَلِكَ الْجَيْشِ، فَقَالَ طَارِقُ بْنُ الْمُرَقَّعِ: مَنْ يُعْطِينِي رُمْحًا بِثَوَابِهِ؟، قُلْتُ: وَمَا ثَوَابُهُ؟، فَقَالَ: أَوَّلُ ابْنَةٍ تُولَدُ لِي أُزَوِّجُهُ إِيَّاهَا، فَأَعْطَيْتُهُ رُمْحِي فَأَهْوَتْ عَنْهُ شَيْئًا، ثُمَّ بَلَغَنِي أَنَّهُ وُلِدَ لَهُ ابْنَةٌ وَقَدْ بَلَغَتْ، فَقُلْتُ: انْقُلْ إِلَيَّ أَهْلِي، فَأَبَى إِلَّا بِصَدَاقٍ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «وَبِقَدْرِ أَيِّ النِّسَاءِ هِيَ؟» ، قَالَ: قَدْ رَأَتِ الْقَتِيرَ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خَيْرٌ لَكَ أَنْ لَا تَأْثَمَ وَلَا تُؤْثِمَ، دَعْهَا عَنْكَ»
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Kardam bin Sufyan al-Thaqafi (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man said: O Messenger of Allah! He (peace and blessings be upon him) inclined his ear towards him, and he said: Recall the year of the army of Uthran. The narrator said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) recognised that army. (He said:) I was in that army, and Tariq bin al-Muraqqa' said: Who will give me a spear in return for a reward? I said: What is its reward? He said: I will marry him to the first daughter born to me. So I gave him my spear and then stayed away from him for some time. Then I learned that a daughter had been born to him and that she had reached maturity, so I said: Send my wife to me. He refused unless there was a dowry (mahr). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: "What age of women is she equal to?" He said: She has already seen the signs of old age. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is better for you that you neither fall into sin yourself nor make him fall into sin; leave her."
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الكاف / 16477
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 19، صفحہ 190، حدیث 428