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Mu'jam Kabir Tabarani 16478 — I and a cousin of mine, who was called

حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ بْنِ نَجْدَةَ الْحَوْطِيُّ، وَأَبُو زَيْدٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ الْحَوْطِيُّ، قَالَا: ثنا أَبُو الْيَمَانِ، ثنا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ، عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ أُمَيَّةَ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ كَرْدَمَ بْنَ قَيْسٍ، قَالَ: خَرَجْتُ أَنَا وَابْنُ عَمٍّ لِي يُقَالُ لَهُ أَبُو ثَعْلَبَةَ فِي يَوْمٍ حَارٍّ وَعَلِيَّ حِذَاءٌ وَلَا حِذَاءَ لَهُ، فَقَالَ: أَعْطِنِي نَعْلَكَ، فَقُلْتُ: لَا، إِلَّا أَنْ تَزَوَّجَنِي ابْنَتَكَ، فَقَالَ: أَعْطِنِي فَقَدْ زَوَّجْتُكَهَا، فَلَمَّا انْصَرَفْنَا بَعَثَ إِلَيَّ بِنَعْلَيَّ وَقَالَ: لَا زَوْجَةَ لَكَ عِنْدِي، فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: «دَعْهَا، وَلَا خَيْرَ لَكَ فِيهَا»
فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنِّي نَذَرْتُ لَأَنْحَرَنَّ ذُودًا مِنْ إِبِلٍ ذَوْدَى مَكَانَ كَذَا وَكَذَا قَالَ: «أَوْفِ بِنَذْرِكَ، لَا نَذْرَ فِي قَطِيعَةِ رَحِمٍ وَلَا فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ ابْنُ آدَمَ»
Sayyiduna Kardam bin Qays (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I and a cousin of mine, who was called Abu Tha'labah, went out on a hot day. I had shoes and he had none, so he said: Give me your shoes. I said: No, unless you marry your daughter to me. He said: Give me (the shoes); I have married her to you. When we returned, he sent my shoes back to me and said: You have no wife with me. I mentioned this to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Leave her; there is no good for you in her."
I said: O Messenger of Allah, I have vowed to slaughter a small herd of camels at such-and-such a place. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Fulfil your vow. There is no vow in severing ties of kinship, nor in what a human being does not own."
Hadith Reference المعجم الكبير للطبراني / باب الكاف / 16478
Hadith Takhrij المعجم الكبير للطبراني (مطبوعہ): جلد 19، صفحہ 191، حدیث 429