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المطالب العالية بزوائد المسانيد الثمانية
Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah
كتاب الوليمة
Book of the Wedding Feast
بَابُ حَقٌّ الزوج عَلَى الْمَرْأَةِ
Chapter: The husband's right over the wife
Al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1665 — The husband's right over the wife
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وَقَالَ مُسَدَّدٌ : حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ ، نَبَا حُسَيْنُ بْنُ قَيْسٍ ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ : إِنَّ امْرَأَةً مِنْ خَثْعَمَ أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ، إِنِّي امْرَأَةٌ أَيِّمٌ ، فَأَخْبِرْنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ ؟ فَقَالَ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِنَّ حَقَّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ إِنْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ بَعِيرٍ أَنْ لَا تَمْنَعَهُ ، وَمِنْ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَا تَصُومَ يَوْمًا تَطَوُّعًا إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِ ، فَإِنْ فَعَلَتْ جَاعَتْ وَعَطِشَتْ ، وَلَمْ يُقْبَلْ مِنْهَا .
وَمِنْ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَا تُعْطِيَ شَيْئًا مِنْ بَيْتِهِ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِ ، فَإِنْ فَعَلَتْ كَانَ الْأَجْرُ لِغَيْرِهَا وَالشَّقَاءُ عَلَيْهَا . وَمِنْ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الزَّوْجَةِ أَنْ لَا تَخْرُجَ مِنْ بَيْتِهَا إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِ ، فَإِنْ فَعَلَتْ لَعَنَتْهَا مَلَائِكَةُ السَّمَاءِ ، وَمَلَائِكَةُ الرَّحْمَةِ ، وَمَلَائِكَةُ الْعَذَابِ ، حَتَّى تَرْجِعَ أَوْ تَتُوبَ " .
1665 \ 2 - وَقَالَ أَبُو يَعْلَى : حَدَّثَنَا وَهْبُ بْنُ بَقِيَّةَ .
1665 \ 3 - وَقَالَ الْبَزَّارُ : حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ الْقُرَشِيُّ ، قَالَ : نَبَا خَالِدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ ، بِطُولِهِ . زَادَ الْبَزَّارُ فِي آخِرِهِ : قَالَتْ : لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ أَبَدًا .
وَمِنْ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَا تُعْطِيَ شَيْئًا مِنْ بَيْتِهِ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِ ، فَإِنْ فَعَلَتْ كَانَ الْأَجْرُ لِغَيْرِهَا وَالشَّقَاءُ عَلَيْهَا . وَمِنْ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الزَّوْجَةِ أَنْ لَا تَخْرُجَ مِنْ بَيْتِهَا إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِ ، فَإِنْ فَعَلَتْ لَعَنَتْهَا مَلَائِكَةُ السَّمَاءِ ، وَمَلَائِكَةُ الرَّحْمَةِ ، وَمَلَائِكَةُ الْعَذَابِ ، حَتَّى تَرْجِعَ أَوْ تَتُوبَ " .
1665 \ 2 - وَقَالَ أَبُو يَعْلَى : حَدَّثَنَا وَهْبُ بْنُ بَقِيَّةَ .
1665 \ 3 - وَقَالَ الْبَزَّارُ : حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ الْقُرَشِيُّ ، قَالَ : نَبَا خَالِدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ ، بِطُولِهِ . زَادَ الْبَزَّارُ فِي آخِرِهِ : قَالَتْ : لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ أَبَدًا .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) that a woman of the tribe of Khath'am came into the noble presence of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, I am a woman who has no husband; so tell me, what is the husband's right over his wife? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is the husband's right over his wife that if he asks for her (for intimacy) while she is (riding) on the back of a camel, she should not refuse him; and it is the husband's right over his wife that she should not observe a voluntary fast without his permission, and if she does so, she will merely remain hungry and thirsty and (in terms of reward) her fast will not be accepted.
And it is the husband's right over his wife that she should not give anything from his house (to anyone) without his permission, and if she does so, its reward will go to others (the husband and so on) and its burden will be upon her. And it is the husband's right over his wife that she should not go out of his house without his permission, and if she does so, the angels of the heavens, the angels of mercy and the angels of punishment will keep cursing her until she returns (home) or repents."
Besides Imam Musaddad, Imam Abu Ya'la and Imam al-Bazzar have also narrated this report, and Imam al-Bazzar added at the end of his report that (on hearing the importance of these rights) the woman said: I will never marry.
And it is the husband's right over his wife that she should not give anything from his house (to anyone) without his permission, and if she does so, its reward will go to others (the husband and so on) and its burden will be upon her. And it is the husband's right over his wife that she should not go out of his house without his permission, and if she does so, the angels of the heavens, the angels of mercy and the angels of punishment will keep cursing her until she returns (home) or repents."
Besides Imam Musaddad, Imam Abu Ya'la and Imam al-Bazzar have also narrated this report, and Imam al-Bazzar added at the end of his report that (on hearing the importance of these rights) the woman said: I will never marry.
