Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He is not one of us who (at a time of calamity) strikes his cheeks, or tears his collar, or cries out as in the Jahiliyyah."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat. Its chain contains Abdullah bin Abd al-Quddus; there is criticism about him, and he has also been declared trustworthy.
Hadith Referenceمجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب الجنائز / 4034
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده ضعیف
Hadith Takhrij«أخرجه المعجم الأوسط للطبراني برقم: 3979»
Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He is not one of us who (at a time of calamity) shaves his head, or wails in a loud voice, or tears (his clothes)."
Al-Bazzar recorded it, and its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Abu Ya'la also recorded it.
Hadith Referenceمجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب الجنائز / 4035
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسنادہ صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«اخرجه ابو يعلي فى المسند ( 2133) اخرجه الامام البزار فى المسند (801)»