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Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 6151

وَعَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ عُمَيْسٍ قَالَتْ : كُنْتُ صَاحِبَةَ عَائِشَةَ الَّتِي هَيَّأَتْهَا وَأَدْخَلَتْهَا عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - وَمَعِي نِسْوَةٌ قَالَتْ : فَوَاللَّهِ مَا وَجَدْنَا عِنْدَهُ قِرًى إِلَّا قَدَحًا مِنْ لَبَنٍ ، فَشَرِبَ مِنْهُ ، ثُمَّ نَاوَلَهُ عَائِشَةَ فَاسْتَحْيَتِ الْجَارِيَةُ ، فَقُلْنَا : لَا تَرُدِّي يَدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - خُذِي مِنْهُ ، فَأَخَذَتْهُ عَلَى حَيَاءٍ ، فَشَرِبَتْ مِنْهُ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : " نَاوِلِي صَوَاحِبَكِ " . فَقُلْنَا : لَا نَشْتَهِيهِ . فَقَالَ : " لَا تَجْمَعْنَ جُوعًا وَكَذِبًا " . قَالَتْ : فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنْ قَالَتْ إِحْدَانَا لِشَيْءٍ تَشْتَهِيهِ : لَا أَشْتَهِيهِ يُعَدُّ ذَلِكَ كَذِبًا ؟ قَالَ : " إِنَّ الْكَذِبَ يُكْتَبُ كَذِبًا حَتَّى تُكْتَبَ الْكُذَيْبَةُ كُذَيْبَةً " .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ ، وَفِيهِ أَبُو شَدَّادٍ ، عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ رَوَى عَنْهُ ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ ، وَيُونُسُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ رِجَالُ الصَّحِيحِ إِلَّا أَنَّ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتَ عُمَيْسٍ كَانَتْ بِأَرْضِ الْحَبَشَةِ مَعَ زَوْجِهَا جَعْفَرٍ حِينَ تَزَوَّجَ النَّبِيُّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - عَائِشَةَ ، وَالصَّوَابُ حَدِيثُ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ يَزِيدَ ، وَاللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ .
وَرَوَاهُ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الصَّغِيرِ ، وَإِسْنَادُهُ ضَعِيفٌ .
Sayyidah Asma' bint Umays (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I was one of the women with Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) who prepared her and escorted her as a bride to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), and some other women were with me as well. Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said: By Allah, we found nothing with him to offer as hospitality except a cup of milk. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) drank from it, then he held it out to Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her), and she felt shy. We said: Do not turn back the hand of the Messenger of Allah; take it. So she took it shyly and drank from it. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Give some to your companions as well." We said: We have no desire for it. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not combine hunger and untruthfulness." Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I said: O Messenger of Allah! If one of us women desires something and then says, 'I have no desire for it,' will this also be counted as a lie? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A lie is written down as a lie, so much so that even a small lie is recorded as a small lie."
Ahmad and al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir; its chain contains a narrator, Abu Shaddad, who narrated it from Mujahid; Ibn Jurayj and Yunus bin Yazid narrated from him, and the rest of its narrators are the narrators of the Sahih. However, Sayyidah Asma' bint Umays (may Allah be pleased with her) was in the land of Abyssinia with her husband, Sayyiduna Ja'far (may Allah be pleased with him), at the time of the Prophet's (peace and blessings be upon him) marriage to Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her). The correct view is that the hadith is narrated from Sayyidah Asma' bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her), and Allah knows best.
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Saghir, and its chain is da'if (weak).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب الصيد والذبائح / 6151
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