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مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب الصيد والذبائح
Book of Hunting and Slaughtering
بَابُ مَا يَجْرِي فِي الْوَلِيمَةِ .
What is served at a wedding feast
Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 6150
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وَعَنْ شَهْرِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ أَنَّ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتَ يَزِيدَ بْنِ السَّكَنِ - إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ بَنِي عَبْدِ الْأَشْهَلِ - دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا يَوْمًا فَقَرَّبَتْ إِلَيْهِ طَعَامًا فَقَالَ : لَا أَشْتَهِيهِ . فَقَالَتْ : إِنِّي قَيَّنْتُ عَائِشَةَ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - ، ثُمَّ جِئْتُهُ فَدَعَوْتُهُ لَجِلْوَتِهَا ، فَجَاءَ ، فَجَلَسَ إِلَى جَنْبِهَا فَأُتِيَ بِعُسِّ لَبَنٍ فَشَرِبَ ، ثُمَّ نَاوَلَهَا [ النَّبَيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ] فَخَفَضَتْ رَأْسَهَا وَاسْتَحْيَتْ . قَالَتْ أَسْمَاءُ : فَانْتَهَرْتُهَا وَقُلْتُ لَهَا : خُذِي مِنْ يَدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - . قَالَتْ : فَأَخَذَتْ ، فَشَرِبَتْ شَيْئًا ، ثُمَّ قَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " أَعْطِي تِرْبَكِ " . قَالَتْ أَسْمَاءُ : فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، بَلْ خُذْهُ فَاشْرَبْ مِنْهُ ، ثُمَّ نَاوِلْنِيهِ مِنْ يَدِكَ ، فَأَخَذَهُ فَشَرِبَ مِنْهُ ، ثُمَّ نَاوَلَنِيهِ ، قَالَتْ : فَجَلَسْتُ ، ثُمَّ وَضَعْتُهُ عَلَى رُكْبَتِي ، ثُمَّ طَفِقْتُ أُدِيرُهُ وَأُتْبِعُهُ شَفَتَيَّ لِأُصِيبَ مِنْهُ مَشْرَبَ النَّبِيِّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - ، ثُمَّ قَالَ لِنِسْوَةٍ عِنْدِي : " نَاوِلِيهِنَّ " . فَقُلْنَ : لَا نَشْتَهِيهِ . فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - : " لَا تَجْمَعْنَ جُوعًا وَكَذِبًا " .
فَهَلْ أَنْتَ مُنْتَهِيًا أَنْ تَقُولَ : لَا نَشْتَهِيهِ ؟ قُلْتُ : أَيْ أُمَّهْ لَا أَعُودُ أَبَدًا .
قُلْتُ : رَوَى ابْنُ مَاجَهْ بَعْضَهُ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ بِنَحْوِهِ وَزَادَ : وَأَبْصَرَ [ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ] عَلَى إِحْدَاهُنَّ سِوَارًا مِنْ ذَهَبٍ فَقَالَ : " يَا هَذِهِ ، أَتُحِبِّينَ أَنْ يُسَوِّرَكِ اللَّهُ مَكَانَهُ سِوَارًا مِنْ نَارٍ ؟ " . فَنَزَعْنَاهُ فَرَمَيْنَا بِهِ فَمَا نَدْرِي أَيْنَ هُوَ حَتَّى السَّاعَةِ . [ ثُمَّ ] قَالَ : [ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ] " : إِنَّمَا يَكْفِي إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تَتَّخِذَ جُمَانًا مِنْ فِضَّةٍ - وَرُبَّمَا قَالَ : سُوَارًا مِنْ فِضَّةٍ - ثُمَّ تَأْخُذَ شَيْئًا مِنْ زَعْفَرَانَ فَتُدِيفَهُ ، ثُمَّ تُلَطِّخَهُ عَلَيْهِ ، فَإِذَا هُوَ كَأَنَّهُ ذَهَبٌ " .
وَقَدْ رَوَى قِصَّةَ السِّوَارِ أَبُو دَاوُدَ بِاخْتِصَارٍ كَثِيرٍ . وَشَهْرٌ فِيهِ كَلَامٌ ، وَحَدِيثُهُ حَسَنٌ .
فَهَلْ أَنْتَ مُنْتَهِيًا أَنْ تَقُولَ : لَا نَشْتَهِيهِ ؟ قُلْتُ : أَيْ أُمَّهْ لَا أَعُودُ أَبَدًا .
قُلْتُ : رَوَى ابْنُ مَاجَهْ بَعْضَهُ .
رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَالطَّبَرَانِيُّ فِي الْكَبِيرِ بِنَحْوِهِ وَزَادَ : وَأَبْصَرَ [ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ] عَلَى إِحْدَاهُنَّ سِوَارًا مِنْ ذَهَبٍ فَقَالَ : " يَا هَذِهِ ، أَتُحِبِّينَ أَنْ يُسَوِّرَكِ اللَّهُ مَكَانَهُ سِوَارًا مِنْ نَارٍ ؟ " . فَنَزَعْنَاهُ فَرَمَيْنَا بِهِ فَمَا نَدْرِي أَيْنَ هُوَ حَتَّى السَّاعَةِ . [ ثُمَّ ] قَالَ : [ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ] " : إِنَّمَا يَكْفِي إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تَتَّخِذَ جُمَانًا مِنْ فِضَّةٍ - وَرُبَّمَا قَالَ : سُوَارًا مِنْ فِضَّةٍ - ثُمَّ تَأْخُذَ شَيْئًا مِنْ زَعْفَرَانَ فَتُدِيفَهُ ، ثُمَّ تُلَطِّخَهُ عَلَيْهِ ، فَإِذَا هُوَ كَأَنَّهُ ذَهَبٌ " .
وَقَدْ رَوَى قِصَّةَ السِّوَارِ أَبُو دَاوُدَ بِاخْتِصَارٍ كَثِيرٍ . وَشَهْرٌ فِيهِ كَلَامٌ ، وَحَدِيثُهُ حَسَنٌ .
Shahr bin Hawshab said: Sayyidah Asma' bint Yazid bin al-Sakan (may Allah be pleased with her), who was one of the women of Banu Abd al-Ashhal: one day Shahr came to visit her. That lady placed food before him, and he said: I have no desire for it. That lady said: I prepared Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) for her wedding to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Then I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and called him so that he would come and sit with Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came and sat beside Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her). Then a vessel of milk was brought, and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) drank from it. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) held it out to Sayyidah Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her), but she lowered her head and felt shy. Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I scolded her and said to her: Take it from the hand of the Messenger of Allah. Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said: She took it and drank some. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Give some to your companion as well." Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I said: O Messenger of Allah, rather, you take it and drink from it, and then hand it to me with your blessed hand. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took it and drank from it, then he handed it to me. Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said: I sat down and placed it on my knee, then I turned it around and put my lips on the place from which the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had drunk. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said about the women who were with me: "Give it to them too!" Those women said: We have no desire for it. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not combine hunger and untruthfulness."
(After narrating this, Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said to Shahr bin Hawshab:) So will you stop saying, 'We have no desire for it'? I said: O mother, I will never do that again. (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say: Ibn Majah recorded part of this report.
Ahmad recorded it, and al-Tabarani recorded something similar in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, adding these words: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) saw a gold bracelet on the hand of one of those women and said: "O woman! Would you like Allah Almighty to put on you, in its place, a bracelet made of fire?" The woman narrator said: So we took off our jewellery and threw it away, and until now we do not know where it is. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is enough for any one of you women to have a silver bangle made, then take a little saffron, moisten it and apply it to it, and it will become like gold." Abu Dawud recorded the story of the bracelet in a much abridged form. There is some criticism of the narrator named Shahr, and his hadith is hasan (good).
(After narrating this, Sayyidah Asma' (may Allah be pleased with her) said to Shahr bin Hawshab:) So will you stop saying, 'We have no desire for it'? I said: O mother, I will never do that again. (Allamah al-Haythami says:) I say: Ibn Majah recorded part of this report.
Ahmad recorded it, and al-Tabarani recorded something similar in al-Mu'jam al-Kabir, adding these words: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) saw a gold bracelet on the hand of one of those women and said: "O woman! Would you like Allah Almighty to put on you, in its place, a bracelet made of fire?" The woman narrator said: So we took off our jewellery and threw it away, and until now we do not know where it is. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It is enough for any one of you women to have a silver bangle made, then take a little saffron, moisten it and apply it to it, and it will become like gold." Abu Dawud recorded the story of the bracelet in a much abridged form. There is some criticism of the narrator named Shahr, and his hadith is hasan (good).
