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مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد
Majma' al-Zawa'id
كتاب الجنائز
Book of Funerals
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي الْبُكَاءِ .
Reports on weeping
Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 4047
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وَعَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ قَالَ : أَخْذَ النَّبِيُّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - بِيَدِي فَانْطَلَقْتُ مَعَهُ إِلَى ابْنِهِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، وَهُوَ يَجُودُ بِنَفْسِهِ ، قَالَ : فَأَخَذَهُ النَّبِيُّ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - وَوَضَعَهُ فِي حِجْرِهِ حَتَّى خَرَجَتْ نَفْسُهُ ، قَالَ : فَوَضَعَهُ ثُمَّ بَكَى ، فَقُلْتُ : تَبْكِي يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، وَأَنْتَ تَنْهَى عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ ؟ فَقَالَ : " إِنِّي لَمْ أُنْهَ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ وَلَكِنْ نُهِيَتُ عَنْ صَوْتَيْنِ أَحْمَقَيْنِ فَاجِرَيْنِ : صَوْتٌ عِنْدَ نِعْمَةٍ : لَهْوٌ وَلَعِبٌ وَمَزَامِيرُ شَيْطَانٍ ، وَصَوْتٌ عِنْدَ مُصِيبَةٍ : لَطْمُ وُجُوهٍ وَشَقُّ جُيُوبٍ ، وَهَذِهِ رَحْمَةٌ ، وَمَنْ لَا يَرْحَمُ لَا يُرْحَمُ ، يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ لَوْلَا أَنَّهُ وَعْدٌ صَادِقٌ وَقَوْلٌ حَقٌّ ، وَأَنَّ آخِرَنَا سَيَلْحَقُ بِأَوَّلِنَا لَحَزِنَّا عَلَيْكَ حُزْنًا أَشَدَّ مِنْ هَذَا ، وَإِنَّا عَلَيْكَ يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ لَمَحْزُونُونَ ، تَبْكِي الْعَيْنُ وَيَحْزَنُ الْقَلْبُ ، وَلَا نَقُولُ مَا يُسْخِطُ الرَّبَّ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ " .
رَوَاهُ أَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَالْبَزَّارُ ، وَفِيهِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى ، وَفِيهِ كَلَامٌ .
رَوَاهُ أَبُو يَعْلَى ، وَالْبَزَّارُ ، وَفِيهِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى ، وَفِيهِ كَلَامٌ .
Sayyiduna Abd al-Rahman bin Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took my hand, and I went with him to his son, Sayyiduna Ibrahim (may Allah be pleased with him), who was breathing his last. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took him and placed him in his lap until his soul departed. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) put him down and began to weep. I said: "O Messenger of Allah! Are you weeping, while you forbid weeping?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have not been forbidden from weeping; rather, I have been forbidden from two foolish and wicked sounds: the sound made at a time of blessing, in the form of amusement, play and the flutes of Satan; and the sound made at a time of calamity, in the form of slapping faces and tearing the fronts of garments. This (that is, mere weeping) is mercy, and whoever does not show mercy is not shown mercy. O Ibrahim, were it not a true promise and a true word, and that the last of us will soon join the first, we would have grieved for you with a grief more intense than this. O Ibrahim, we are grieved for you. The eye weeps and the heart grieves, but we will not say anything that angers the Lord."
Abu Ya'la and al-Bazzar recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Muhammad bin Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Layla, and he has been criticised.
Abu Ya'la and al-Bazzar recorded it. Its chain contains a narrator, Muhammad bin Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Layla, and he has been criticised.
