Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 314

Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) reports this saying of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "Three things are expiations, three things are a means of raising ranks, three things are saving, and three things are destructive. As for the things that are expiations, they are: performing ablution thoroughly in severe cold, waiting for one prayer after another prayer, and taking steps (that is, walking from far) to perform Jumu'ah (or the congregational prayer). As for the things that are a means of raising ranks, they are: feeding (others), spreading (the greeting of) peace, and performing (voluntary) prayer at night at a time when people are asleep. As for the saving things, they are: being just in anger and in contentment (in every state), moderation in poverty and in wealth (in every state), and continuing to fear Allah Almighty in secret and in public (in every state). As for the destructive things, they are: avarice that is obeyed, desire that is followed, and a man's being self-admiring."
Imam al-Bazzar recorded it, and al-Tabarani recorded part of it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat with these words: "A man's being self-admiring is part of arrogance."
Its chain contains a narrator, Za'idah bin Abi al-Ruqad, and a narrator, Ziyad al-Numayri; there is disagreement about using either of them as evidence.