Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 313

Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Three things are destructive, three things are saving, three things are expiations, and three things are (means of raising) ranks. As for the destructive things, they are: avarice that is obeyed, desire that is followed, and a man's being self-admiring. As for the saving things, they are: being just in anger and in contentment (that is, in every state), moderation in poverty and in wealth (in every state), and fearing Allah Almighty in secret and in public (in every state). As for the things that are expiations, they are: waiting for one prayer after another prayer, performing ablution thoroughly in severe cold, and taking steps (that is, walking from far) to the congregational prayers. As for the things that are (means of raising) ranks, they are: feeding (others), spreading (the greeting of) peace, and performing (voluntary) prayer at night while people are asleep."
Al-Tabarani recorded it in al-Mu'jam al-Awsat; its chain contains Ibn Lahi'ah, and also a narrator who could not be identified.