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Majma al-Zawaid — Hadith 13084

وَعَنْ قَنْبَرَ حَاجِبٍ مُعَاوِيَةَ قَالَ : كَانَ أَبُو ذَرٍّ يُغْلِظُ لِمُعَاوِيَةَ قَالَ : فَشَكَاهُ إِلَى عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ وَإِلَى أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ وَإِلَى عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ وَإِلَى أُمِّ حَرَامٍ فَقَالَ : إِنَّكُمْ صَحِبْتُمْ كَمَا صَحِبْتُ ، وَرَأَيْتُمْ كَمَا رَأَيْتُ ، فَإِنْ رَأَيْتُمْ أَنْ تُكَلِّمُوهُ ، ثُمَّ أَرْسَلَ إِلَى أَبِي ذَرٍّ فَجَاءَ ، فَكَلَّمُوهُ فَقَالَ : أَمَّا أَنْتَ يَا أَبَا الْوَلِيدِ ، فَقَدْ أَسْلَمْتَ قَبْلِي وَلَكَ السِّنُّ وَالْفَضْلُ عَلَيَّ ، وَقَدْ كُنْتُ أَرْغَبُ بِكَ عَنْ مِثْلِ هَذَا الْمَجْلِسِ ، وَأَمَّا أَنْتَ يَا أَبَا الدَّرْدَاءِ ، فَإِنْ كَادَتْ وَفَاةُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - لَتَفُوتُكَ ، ثُمَّ أَسْلَمْتَ ، فَكُنْتَ مِنْ صَالِحِي الْمُسْلِمِينَ ، وَأَمَّا أَنْتَ يَا عَمْرُو ، فَقَدْ جَاهَدْتَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ - صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ - وَأَمَّا أَنْتِ يَا أُمَّ حَرَامٍ ، فَإِنَّمَا أَنْتِ امْرَأَةٌ ، وَعَقْلُكِ عَقْلُ امْرَأَةٍ ، فَمَا أَنْتِ وَذَاكَ ؟ فَقَالَ عُبَادَةُ : لَا جَرَمَ لَا جَلَسْتُ مِثْلَ هَذَا الْمَجْلِسِ أَبَدًا . رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ ، وَفِيهِ قَنْبَرُ حَاجِبُ مُعَاوِيَةَ ذَكَرَهُ ابْنُ أَبِي حَاتِمٍ وَلَمْ يُوَثِّقْهُ ( وَلَمْ يَجْرَحْهُ ) ، وَبَقِيَّةُ رِجَالِهِ ثِقَاتٌ .
Qanbar, the doorkeeper of Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him), narrates: Sayyiduna Abu Dharr al-Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him) used to speak harshly to Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him). Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) complained about this to Sayyiduna Ubadah bin al-Samit, Sayyiduna Abu al-Darda', Sayyiduna Amr bin al-As and Sayyidah Umm Haram (may Allah be pleased with them), and said: "You kept the company (of the Prophet) just as I kept it, and you saw just as I saw. If you see fit, speak to him." Then he sent for Sayyiduna Abu Dharr al-Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him), and he came. They spoke to him, and Sayyiduna Abu Dharr al-Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "O Abu al-Walid! As for you, you accepted Islam before me, and you have seniority in age and excellence over me, and I would have thought you above a gathering such as this. O Abu al-Darda'! As for you, the death of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) nearly passed you by, but then you accepted Islam and became one of the righteous Muslims. O Amr! As for you, you fought in jihad alongside the Messenger of Allah. O Umm Haram! As for you, you are a woman, and your understanding is the understanding of a woman, so what have you to do with this?" Then Sayyiduna Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "Certainly, I shall never sit in a gathering like this again."
Ahmad recorded it. Its chain contains Qanbar, the doorkeeper of Sayyiduna Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him); Ibn Abi Hatim mentioned him and neither declared him thiqah (trustworthy) nor criticised him. The rest of its narrators are thiqat (trustworthy).
Hadith Reference مجمع الزوائد ومنبع الفوائد / كتاب الأدب / 13084
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