السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب القسم والنشوز
Book of Dividing Time Between Wives and Marital Discord
باب: ذب الرجل عن ابنته في الغيرة والإنصاف
A man defending his daughter in matters of jealousy and fairness
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ عَبْدَانَ أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ الصَّفَّارُ، نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ مِلْحَانَ، نا يَحْيَى بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ، نا اللَّيْثُ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ، عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ: " إِنَّ بَنِي الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يَنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلَا آذَنُ، ثُمَّ لَا آذَنُ، ثُمَّ لَا آذَنُ، إِلَّا أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ، إِنَّمَا هِيَ بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا ".
Miswar bin Makhramah (may Allah be pleased with them both) says: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "Banu al-Mughirah have asked my permission to marry their daughter to Ali (may Allah be pleased with him). I will not give them permission, I will not give permission, I will not give permission; but if Ali bin Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) intends to marry their daughter, then let him divorce my daughter. For she is a part of my body; whoever troubles her troubles me, and whoever hurts her hurts me."
وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ، أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ، نا عَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الْأَسْفَاطِيُّ، نا أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ، نا اللَّيْثُ، فَذَكَرَهُ بِمَعْنَاهُ إِلَّا أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَذْكُرْ قَوْلَهُ يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ أَبِي الْوَلِيدِ وَقُتَيْبَةَ، وَرَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ عَنْ قُتَيْبَةَ عَنِ اللَّيْثِ.
Al-Layth mentions this hadith with the same meaning, but he did not mention the words: "Whoever troubles Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) troubles me."
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو زَكَرِيَّا بْنُ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ الْمُزَكِّي، أنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْخُرَاسَانِيُّ الْعَدْلُ، نا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ الْهَيْثَمِ الْبَلَوِيُّ، نا أَبُو الْيَمَانِ، ح وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ أَيُّوبَ الطُّوسِيُّ، نا أَبُو حَاتِمٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِدْرِيسَ الْحَنْظَلِيُّ نا شُعَيْبٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، أَخْبَرَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ، أَنَّ الْمِسْوَرَ بْنَ مَخْرَمَةَ أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ خَطَبَ ابْنَةَ أَبِي جَهْلٍ وَعِنْدَهُ فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَلَمَّا سَمِعَتْ بِذَلِكَ فَاطِمَةُ أَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ لَهُ: إِنَّ قَوْمَكَ يَتَحَدَّثُونَ أَنَّكَ لَا تَغْضَبُ لِبَنَاتِكَ، وَهَذَا عَلِيٌّ نَاكِحٌ ابْنَةَ أَبِي جَهْلٍ، قَالَ الْمِسْوَرُ: فَقَامَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَسَمِعْتُهُ حِينَ تَشَهَّدَ ثُمَّ قَالَ: " أَمَّا بَعْدُ، فَإِنِّي أَنْكَحْتُ أَبَا الْعَاصِ فَحَدَّثَنِي فَصَدَقَنِي، وَأَنَّ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ مُحَمَّدٍ بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي، وَإِنِّي أَكْرَهُ أَنْ يَفْتِنُوهَا وَإِنَّهُ وَاللهِ لَا تَجْتَمِعُ ابْنَةُ رَسُولِ اللهِ وَابْنَةُ عَدُوِّ اللهِ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ وَاحِدٍ أَبَدًا " فَتَرَكَ عَلِيٌّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الْخِطْبَةَ رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ أَبِي الْيَمَانِ، وَرَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الدَّارِمِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي الْيَمَانِ، ⦗٥٠٣⦘ وَرَوَاهُ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ حَلْحَلَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ عَلِيٍّ، عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ، فَزَادَ: حَدَّثَنِي فَصَدَقَنِي وَوَعَدَنِي فَوَفَّى لِي، وَإِنِّي لَسْتُ أُحَرِّمُ حَلَالًا وَلَا أُحِلُّ حَرَامًا.
Miswar bin Makhramah (may Allah be pleased with him) says that Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) proposed to the daughter of Abu Jahl, while Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her), the daughter of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), was married to him. When Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) heard of this, she came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: The people of your tribe are saying that you do not become angry for the sake of your daughters, and here is Ali about to marry the daughter of Abu Jahl. Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) says: When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was delivering the sermon, I heard him (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "I gave (my daughter) in marriage to Abu al-As, and he spoke to me truthfully. Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) bint Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) is a part of me, and I dislike that they should put her to trial. By Allah! The daughter of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and the daughter of the enemy of Allah can never be together in the marriage of one man." So Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) gave up the marriage.
(b) Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) has narrated some additional words: "He spoke to me truthfully and fulfilled his promise to me; but I am not one to make the lawful unlawful or the unlawful lawful."
(b) Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) has narrated some additional words: "He spoke to me truthfully and fulfilled his promise to me; but I am not one to make the lawful unlawful or the unlawful lawful."
