السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النكاح
Book of Marriage
باب: حتم لازم لأولياء الأيامى الحرائر البوالغ إذا أردن النكاح ودعون إلى رضى من الأزواج أن يزوجوهن
It is binding upon the guardians of free, adult, unmarried women, when they wish to marry and call to a suitable match, to marry them off
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قَالَ اللهُ تَعَالَى: {وَإِذَا طَلَّقْتُمُ النِّسَاءَ فَبَلَغْنَ أَجَلَهُنَّ فَلَا تَعْضُلُوهُنَّ أَنْ يَنْكِحْنَ أَزْوَاجَهُنَّ} [البقرة: 232].
Allah Almighty says: "And when you divorce women and they reach the end of their waiting period, do not prevent them from marrying their (former) husbands." [Surah al-Baqarah: 232]
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَمْرٍو الْأَدِيبُ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرٍ الْإِسْمَاعِيلِيُّ، أَخْبَرَنِي أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الشَّرْقِيُّ، ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ، وَالْفَرَّاءُ يعنِي عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ مُحَمَّدٍ، وَقَطَنٌ، قَالُوا: ثنا حَفْصٌ، حَدَّثَنِي إِبْرَاهِيمُ يَعْنِي ابْنَ طَهْمَانَ، عَنْ يُونُسَ بْنِ عُبَيْدٍ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ فِي قَوْلِهِ تَعَالَى عَزَّ وَجَلَّ: {فَلَا تَعْضُلُوهُنَّ أَنْ يَنْكِحْنَ أَزْوَاجَهُنَّ} [البقرة: ٢٣٢] الْآيَةَ، حَدَّثَنِي مَعْقِلُ بْنُ يَسَارٍ الْمُزَنِيُّ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّهَا نَزَلَتْ فِيهِ قَالَ: كُنْتُ زَوَّجْتُ أُخْتًا لِي مِنْ رَجُلٍ، فَطَلَّقَهَا حَتَّى إِذَا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا جَاءَ يَخْطُبُهَا، فَقُلْتُ لَهُ: زَوَّجْتُكَ وَفَرَشْتُكَ وَأَكْرَمْتُكَ، فَطَلَّقْتَهَا، ثُمَّ جِئْتَ تَخْطُبُهَا، لَا وَاللهِ لَا تَعُودُ إِلَيْهَا أَبَدًا، قَالَ: وَكَانَ رَجُلًا لَا بَأْسَ بِهِ، وَكَانَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ تُرِيدُ أَنْ تَرْجِعَ إِلَيْهِ، فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ هَذِهِ الْآيَةَ، فَقُلْتُ: الْآنَ أَفْعَلُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، فَزَوَّجْتُهَا إِيَّاهُ " رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ حَفْصٍ.
Al-Hasan (may Allah have mercy on him) said concerning the saying of Allah Almighty, "Do not prevent them from marrying their husbands" [Surah al-Baqarah: 232]: Ma'qil bin Yasar (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated to me that this verse was revealed concerning him. (He said:) I married my sister to a man. He divorced her, until her waiting period ended. Then he came and proposed marriage to her again. I said to him: I married her to you, provided you with a bed and honoured you, and you divorced her; then you come proposing to her. By Allah! I will never marry her to you. He was a man in whom there was no harm, and the woman wanted to return to her husband, so Allah Almighty revealed this verse: "And when you divorce women and they reach the end of their waiting period, do not prevent them" [Surah al-Baqarah: 232]. So I said: O Prophet of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! Now I will marry her (to him), and I married her (to him).
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنبأ أَبُو الْفَضْلِ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الْعَدْلُ، ثنا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ، ثنا عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ بْنُ عَطَاءٍ، ثنا سَعِيدٌ، ح وَأَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْبِسْطَامِيُّ الْأَدِيبُ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرٍ الْإِسْمَاعِيلِيُّ، ثنا الْقَاسِمُ بْنُ زَكَرِيَّا، ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى، وَبُنْدَارٌ قَالَا: ثنا عَبْدُ الْأَعْلَى، ثنا سَعِيدٌ، عَنْ قَتَادَةَ، ثنا الْحَسَنُ أَنَّ مَعْقِلَ بْنَ يَسَارٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ كَانَتْ أُخْتُهُ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ فَطَلَّقَهَا، ثُمَّ تَخَلَّى عَنْهَا حَتَّى إِذَا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا، ثُمَّ قَرُبَ يَخْطُبُهَا، فَحَمَى مَعْقِلٌ مِنْ ذَلِكَ أَنْفًا قَالَ: خَلِّ عَنْهَا وَهُوَ يَقْدِرُ، ثُمَّ قَرُبَ يَخْطُبُهَا، فَحَالَ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَهَا، فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ تَعَالَى: {وَإِذَا طَلَّقْتُمُ النِّسَاءَ فَبَلَغْنَ أَجَلَهُنَّ، فَلَا تَعْضُلُوهُنَّ أَنْ يَنْكِحْنَ أَزْوَاجَهُنَّ} [البقرة: ٢٣٢] الْآيَةَ، فَدَعَاهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَرَأَهَا عَلَيْهِ، فَتَرَكَ الْحَمِيَّةَ، ثُمَّ اسْتَقَادَ لِأَمْرِ اللهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ " رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُثَنَّى، وَزَعَمَ الْكَلْبِيُّ أَنَّ أُخْتَهُ جَمِيلَةُ بِنْتُ يَسَارٍ.
The sister of Sayyiduna Ma'qil bin Yasar (may Allah be pleased with him) was married to a man. He divorced her and then left her alone; when her waiting period had passed, he came near and proposed marriage to her. Sayyiduna Ma'qil (may Allah be pleased with him) felt indignant at this and said: First he separated from her although he could have taken her back, and now he comes again with a proposal! So he came between the two of them. Then Allah Almighty revealed this verse: "And when you divorce women and they reach the end of their waiting period, do not prevent them from marrying their husbands" [Surah al-Baqarah: 232]. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) called him and recited this verse to him, so he abandoned his indignation and had their marriage contracted. Al-Kalbi claimed that his sister's name was Jamilah bint Yasar.
