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السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب الجنائز
Book of Funerals
باب: من رخص في البكاء إلى أن يموت الذي يبكى عليه
Chapter: Those who permitted weeping until the one wept over dies
Bayhaqi 7155 — Those who permitted weeping until the one wept
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حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنبأ أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ الْمَحْبُوبِيُّ، ثنا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَسْعُودٍ، ثنا عُبَيْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُوسَى، أنبأ أُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ نَافِعٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، قَالَ رَجَعَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَوْمَ أُحُدٍ فَسَمِعَ نِسَاءَ بَنِي عَبْدِ الْأَشْهَلِ يَبْكِينَ عَلَى هَلْكَاهُنَّ فَقَالَ: " لَكِنَّ حَمْزَةَ لَا بَوَاكِيَ لَهُ " فَجِئْنَ نِسَاءُ الْأَنْصَارِ فَبَكَيْنَ عَلَى حَمْزَةَ عِنْدَهُ وَرَقَدَ فَاسْتَيْقَظَ وَهُنَّ يَبْكِينَ فَقَالَ: " وَيْحَهُنَّ إِنَّهُنَّ لَهَاهُنَا حَتَّى الْآنَ مُرُوهُنَّ فَلْيَرْجِعْنَ وَلَا يَبْكِينَ عَلَى هَالِكٍ بَعْدَ الْيَوْمِ ". وَقَوْلُهُ: " وَلَا يَبْكِينَ عَلَى هَالِكٍ بَعْدَ الْيَوْمِ " إِنْ أَرَادَ بِهِ الْعُمُومَ كَانَ كَقَوْلِهِ فِي حَدِيثِ ابْنِ عَتِيكٍ: " فَإِذَا وَجَبَ فَلَا تَبْكِيَنَّ بَاكِيَةٌ " وَيُحْتَمَلُ أَنْ يَكُونَ الْمُرَادُ بِهِ عَلَى هَالِكٍ مِنْ شُهَدَاءِ أُحُدٍ فَكَأَنَّهُ قَالَ حَسْبُكُنَّ مَا بَكَيتُنَّ عَلَيْهِمْ، وَقَدْ وَرَدَتِ الرُّخْصَةُ فِي الْبُكَاءِ بَعْدَ الْمَوْتِ بِدَمْعِ الْعَيْنِ وَحُزْنِ الْقَلْبِ فَيَكُونُ حَدِيثُ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَتِيكٍ مَحْمُولًا عَلَى الِاخْتِيَارِ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: When the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) returned from the Battle of Uhud, he (peace and blessings be upon him) heard the women of Banu Abd al-Ashhal weeping over their dead, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "But Hamzah (may Allah be pleased with him) has no one to weep for him." Then the women of the Ansar came and began to weep over Sayyiduna Hamzah (may Allah be pleased with him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) slept, then woke up while they were still weeping, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Woe to them! They are still weeping. Tell them to go back, and let them not weep over anyone who dies after today."
"And let them not weep over anyone who dies after today": if he meant it in general, it is like what is in the hadith of Ibn Atik (may Allah be pleased with him): "When it becomes due, let no weeping woman weep." It is also possible that what is meant is the martyrs of Uhud, as if he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "What you have wept over them is enough for you." Permission has been reported for weeping after death with the tears of the eye and the grief of the heart, so the hadith of Sayyiduna Jabir bin Atik (may Allah be pleased with him) is to be understood as referring to what is preferable, and Allah knows best.
"And let them not weep over anyone who dies after today": if he meant it in general, it is like what is in the hadith of Ibn Atik (may Allah be pleased with him): "When it becomes due, let no weeping woman weep." It is also possible that what is meant is the martyrs of Uhud, as if he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "What you have wept over them is enough for you." Permission has been reported for weeping after death with the tears of the eye and the grief of the heart, so the hadith of Sayyiduna Jabir bin Atik (may Allah be pleased with him) is to be understood as referring to what is preferable, and Allah knows best.
