Sayyidah Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) also took a pledge from us during the oath of allegiance that "we would not wail." Five women among us fulfilled this pledge: Umm Sulaym, Umm al-Ala, the daughter of Abu Sabrah, the wife of Mu'adh, or she said: the daughter of Abu Sabrah and the wife of Mu'adh (may Allah be pleased with him). Imam Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) recorded it in his Sahih from al-Hajabi, and he from Hammad, and in this hadith he said: two women, or another woman, fulfilled it.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الجنائز / 7107