Sayyiduna Amr bin al-As (may Allah be pleased with him) said to his son Sayyiduna Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him): When I die, do not let any wailing woman accompany me, nor any fire. When you bury me, pour the earth over me. When you have finished with my grave, remain around my grave for as long as it takes to slaughter a camel and distribute its meat, for I will take comfort in your company until I know what answer I will give to the messengers of my Lord.
Hadith Referenceالسنن الكبرى للبيهقي / كتاب الجنائز / 7067