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السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب النفقات
Book of Maintenance
باب: الأبوين إذا افترقا وهما في قرية واحدة، فالأم أحق بولدها ما لم تتزوج، وكانوا صغارا، فإذا بلغ أحدهم سبع أو ثمان سنين وهو يعقل خير بين أبيه وأمه، وكان عند أيهما اختار
Chapter: When parents separate while living in the same town, the mother has more right to her children while they are young as long as she does not remarry; when one of them reaches seven or eight years and has understanding, he is given the choice between his father and mother and stays with whichever he chooses
Bayhaqi 15760 — When parents separate while living in the same town
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ، أنبأ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ زِيَادٍ، ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مُوسَى، ثنا عِيسَى بْنُ يُونُسَ، ثنا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، حَدَّثَنِي رَافِعُ بْنُ سِنَانٍ، أَنَّهُ أَسْلَمَ وَأَبَتِ امْرَأَتُهُ أَنْ تُسْلِمَ، فَأَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتِ: ابْنَتِي وَهِيَ فَطِيمٌ. وَقَالَ رَافِعٌ: ابْنَتِي. فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِرَافِعٍ: " اقْعُدْ نَاحِيَةً " وَقَالَ لِامْرَأَتِهِ: " اقْعُدِي نَاحِيَةً " قَالَ: وَأَقْعَدَ الصَّبِيَّةَ بَيْنَهُمَا، ثُمَّ قَالَ: " ادْعُوَاهَا " فَمَالَتِ الصَّبِيَّةُ إِلَى أُمِّهَا، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " اللهُمَّ اهْدِهَا ". فَمَالَتْ إِلَى أَبِيهَا، فَأَخَذَهَا رَافِعُ بْنُ سِنَانٍ، جَدُّ عَبْدِ الْحَمِيدِ بْنِ جَعْفَرٍ.
Rafi' bin Sinan (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that when he became Muslim, his wife refused to accept Islam. His wife came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: This is my daughter, whose period of suckling has just been completed. And Rafi' (may Allah be pleased with him) said: She is my daughter. So he (peace and blessings be upon him) seated Rafi' (may Allah be pleased with him) on one side and his wife on the other, seated the girl between them, and said: "Now call her to yourselves." The girl began to go towards her mother, so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) supplicated: 'Allahumma ihdiha' (O Allah, guide her). Then she went to her father, and Rafi' (may Allah be pleased with him) took her.
Rafi' bin Sinan (may Allah be pleased with him) is the grandfather of Abd al-Hamid bin Ja'far.
Rafi' bin Sinan (may Allah be pleased with him) is the grandfather of Abd al-Hamid bin Ja'far.
