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السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب العدد
Book of Waiting Periods
باب: من قال بتخيير المفقود إذا قدم بينها وبين الصداق ومن أنكره
Chapter: Those who held that the missing man, when he returns, is given the choice between her and the dowry, and those who rejected this
Bayhaqi 15570 — Those who held that the missing man, when he returns
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، وَأَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ عُبَيْدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَهْدِيٍّ لَفْظًا قَالَا: نا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ، نا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ، أنا عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ بْنُ عَطَاءٍ، نا سَعِيدٌ، عَنْ قَتَادَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي نَضْرَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى " أَنَّ رَجُلًا مِنْ قَوْمِهِ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ خَرَجَ يُصَلِّي مَعَ قَوْمِهِ الْعِشَاءَ فَسَبَتْهُ الْجِنُّ فَفُقِدَ فَانْطَلَقَتِ امْرَأَتُهُ إِلَى عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَصَّتْ عَلَيْهِ الْقِصَّةَ فَسَأَلَ عَنْهُ عُمَرُ قَوْمَهُ فَقَالُوا: نَعَمْ خَرَجَ يُصَلِّي الْعِشَاءَ فَفُقِدَ فَأَمَرَهَا " أَنْ تَرَبَّصَ أَرْبَعَ سِنِينَ، فَلَمَّا مَضَتِ الْأَرْبَعُ سِنِينَ أَتَتْهُ فَأَخْبَرَتْهُ فَسَأَلَ قَوْمَهَا فَقَالُوا: نَعَمْ فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ فَتَزَوَّجَتْ فَجَاءَ زَوْجُهَا يُخَاصِمُ فِي ذَلِكَ إِلَى عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: " يَغِيبُ أَحَدُكُمُ الزَّمَانَ الطَّوِيلَ لَا يَعْلَمُ أَهْلُهُ حَيَاتَهُ "، فَقَالَ لَهُ: إِنَّ لِي عُذْرًا يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ قَالَ: وَمَا عُذْرُكَ؟ قَالَ: خَرَجْتُ أُصَلِّي الْعِشَاءَ فَسَبَتْنِي الْجِنُّ فَلَبِثْتُ فِيهِمْ زَمَانًا طَوِيلًا فَغَزَاهُمْ جِنٌّ مُؤْمِنُونَ أَوْ قَالَ: مُسْلِمُونَ شَكَّ سَعِيدٌ فَقَاتَلُوهُمْ فَظَهَرُوا عَلَيْهِمْ فَسَبَوْا مِنْهُمْ سَبَايَا فَسَبَوْنِي فِيمَا سَبَوْا مِنْهُمْ فَقَالُوا: نَرَاكَ رَجُلًا مُسْلِمًا وَلَا يَحِلُّ لَنَا سَبْيُكَ فَخَيَّرُونِي بَيْنَ الْمُقَامِ وَبَيْنَ الْقُفُولِ إِلَى أَهْلِي فَاخْتَرْتُ الْقُفُولَ إِلَى أَهْلِي فَأَقْبَلُوا مَعِي أَمَّا بِاللَّيْلِ فَلَيْسَ يُحَدِّثُونِي وَأَمَّا بِالنَّهَارِ فَعِصَارُ رِيحٍ أَتْبَعُهَا فَقَالَ لَهُ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: " فَمَا كَانَ طَعَامُكَ فِيهِمْ؟ " قَالَ: الْفُولُ وَمَا لَمْ يُذْكَرِ اسْمُ اللهِ عَلَيْهِ، قَالَ: فَمَا كَانَ شَرَابُكَ فِيهِمْ؟ قَالَ: الْجَدَفُ قَالَ قَتَادَةُ: وَالْجَدَفُ مَا لَا يُخَمَّرُ مِنَ الشَّرَابِ قَالَ: فَخَيَّرَهُ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ بَيْنَ الصَّدَاقِ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ " قَالَ سَعِيدٌ: وَحَدَّثَنِي مَطَرٌ عَنْ أَبِي نَضْرَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى عَنْ ⦗٧٣٣⦘ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ مِثْلَ حَدِيثِ قَتَادَةَ إِلَّا أَنَّ مَطَرًا زَادَ فِيهِ قَالَ: أَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَعْتَدَّ أَرْبَعَ سِنِينَ وَأَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا.
It is narrated from Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Layla that a man from the Ansar went out with his people for the Isha prayer, and the jinn took him captive. He went missing, so his wife came to Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) and related his story. Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) asked his people, and they said: Yes, he went out for the Isha prayer and then he went missing. Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) ordered her to wait for four years. When the four years had passed, she came again to Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) and informed him, and Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) asked them again. They said: Yes. So Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) ordered her to marry, and she married. Then her first husband came back, and he brought his dispute about this matter before Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him). Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) said: One of you stays away for a long time, and his family does not know whether he is even alive. He said to Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him): O Commander of the Believers! I have an excuse. He asked: What is your excuse? He said: I went out for the Isha prayer and the jinn took me captive, and I remained among them for a long time. Then believing, or Muslim, jinn (Sa'id was in doubt about this) attacked them; they fought them and overcame them. They took captives from among them, and they took me captive along with them. Then they said: We consider you a Muslim man, and it is not lawful for us to hold you captive. So they gave me the choice between staying there and returning to my family, and I chose to return to my family. They came along with me; at night they would not speak to me, and by day there was a whirlwind which I followed. Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) asked him: What was your food among them? He said: Al-ful (beans), and whatever Allah's name had not been mentioned over. Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) said: What was your drink there? He said: Al-jadaf. Qatadah said: Al-jadaf is a drink that is consumed before it becomes intoxicating. Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) gave the man the choice between the dowry and his wife. Sa'id said: Matar narrated to me from Abu Nadrah, from Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Layla, from Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him), the like of Qatadah's hadith, except that Matar added something in it; he said: He ordered her to wait four years, four months and ten days.
