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السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب القسم والنشوز
Book of Dividing Time Between Wives and Marital Discord
باب: حق المرأة على الرجل
Chapter: The right of the woman over the man
Bayhaqi 14725 — The right of the woman over the man
اُردوEn
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو طَاهِرٍ الْفَقِيهُ، نا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ الْقَطَّانُ نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، نا عُمَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ رَزِينٍ، نا سُفْيَانُ لَفْظًا عَنْ دَاوُدَ الْوَرَّاقِ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ حَكِيمٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ حَيْدَةَ الْقُشَيْرِيِّ قَالَ: أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَلَمَّا رُفِعْتُ إِلَيْهِ قَالَ: " أَمَا إِنِّي سَأَلْتُ اللهَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ أَنْ يُعَيِّنِّي عَلَيْكُمْ بِالسُّنَّةِ نُخِيفُكُمْ وَبِالرُّعْبِ أَنْ يَجْعَلَهُ فِي قُلُوبِكُمْ " قَالَ: فَقَالَ بِيَدَيْهِ جَمِيعًا أَمَا إِنِّي قَدْ حَلَفْتُ هَكَذَا وَهَكَذَا أَنْ لَا أُؤْمِنَ بِكَ وَلَا أَتَّبِعَكَ فَمَا زَالَتِ السُّنَّةُ تُخِيفُنِي، وَالرُّعْبُ يُجْعَلُ فِي قَلْبِي حَتَّى قُمْتُ بَيْنَ يَدَيْكَ أَمَا لِلَّهِ الَّذِي أَرْسَلَكَ أَهُوَ الَّذِي أَرْسَلَكَ بِمَا تَقُولُ؟ قَالَ: " نَعَمْ " قَالَ: فَهُوَ أَمَرَكَ بِمَا تَأْمُرُنَا؟ قَالَ: " نَعَمْ " قَالَ: فَمَا تَقُولُ فِي نِسَائِنَا؟ قَالَ: " هُنَّ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ وَأَطْعِمُوهُنَّ مِمَّا تَأْكُلُونَ وَاكْسُوهُنَّ مِمَّا تَكْسُونَ وَلَا تَضْرِبُوهُنَّ وَلَا تُقَبِّحُوهُنَّ " قَالَ: فَيَنْظُرُ أَحَدُنَا إِلَى عَوْرَةِ أَخِيهِ إِذَا اجْتَمَعْنَا؟ قَالَ: " لَا " قَالَ: فَإِذَا تَفَرَّقْنَا؟ قَالَ: فَضَمَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِحْدَى فَخِذَيْهِ إِلَى ⦗٤٨٢⦘ الْأُخْرَى ثُمَّ قَالَ: " اللهُ أَحَقُّ أَنْ تَسْتَحْيُوا مِنْهُ "، قَالَ: وَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ: " يُحْشَرُ النَّاسُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ عَلَيْهِمُ الْقُدَامُ فَأَوَّلُ مَا يَنْطِقُ مِنَ الْإِنْسَانِ كَفُّهُ وَفَخِذُهُ ".
Sa'id bin Hakim narrates from his father, and he from his grandfather (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and when I was presented before him (peace and blessings be upon him), he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I have asked Allah, the Lord of Might, to help me against you by a drought that frightens you and by a terror that settles in your hearts." The narrator says: He gestured with both his hands and said: I had sworn this many times and that many times that I would not believe in you (peace and blessings be upon him) nor follow you (peace and blessings be upon him), but the drought kept frightening me and terror kept being placed in my heart until I came to stand before you (peace and blessings be upon him). By Allah, has Allah sent you (peace and blessings be upon him), and is what you (peace and blessings be upon him) say the command of Allah? He said: "Yes." He said: Is what you command us something Allah has given you? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Yes." He said: What do you say about our wives? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "They are your tilth, so come to your tilth however you wish; feed them from what you eat, clothe them from what you wear, and do not beat them or revile them." He said: When we are together, may we look at one another's private parts? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No." He said: And when we are apart? He says: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) placed one of his thighs over the other and said: "Allah is more deserving that you be modest before Him." He says: And I heard him (peace and blessings be upon him) say: "On the Day of Resurrection, people will be gathered with their mouths sealed, and the first parts of a person to speak will be his palm and his thigh."
