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السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب القسم والنشوز
Book of Dividing Time Between Wives and Marital Discord
باب: ما يستحب لها رعاية لحق زوجها وإن لم يلزمها شرعا
Chapter: What is recommended for her in observing her husband's right even if it is not legally binding upon her
Bayhaqi 14717 — What is recommended for her in observing her husband's
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ، أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، نا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ حَنْبَلٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي قَالَ: ح وَأَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ، نا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، نا ⦗٤٧٩⦘ أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ قَالَا: نا أَبُو أُسَامَةَ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: تَزَوَّجَنِي الزُّبَيْرُ وَمَا لَهُ فِي الْأَرْضِ مِنْ مَالٍ وَلَا مَمْلُوكٍ وَلَا شَيْءٍ غَيْرَ فَرَسِهِ، قَالَتْ: فَكُنْتُ أَعْلِفُ فَرَسَهُ وَأَكْفِيهِ مُؤْنَتَهُ وَأَسُوسُهُ وَأَدُقُّ النَّوَى لَنَا ضُحَةً وَاسْتَقَى الْمَاءَ وَأَخْرِزُ غَرْبَهُ وَأَعْجِنُ وَلَمْ أَكُنْ أُحْسِنُ أَخْبِزُ فَكَانَ تَخْبِزُ لِي جَارَاتٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ وَكُنَّ نِسْوَةَ صِدْقٍ، قُلْتُ: وَكُنْتُ أَنْفِلُ النَّوَى مِنْ أَرْضِ الزُّبَيْرِ الَّتِي أَقْطَعَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى رَأْسِي وَهِيَ عَلَى ثُلُثَيْ فَرْسَخٍ قَالَتْ: فَجِئْتُ وَالنَّوَى عَلَى رَأْسِي، فَلَقِيتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَمَعَهُ نَفَرٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِهِ فَدَعَانِي ثُمَّ قَالَ: " أَخْ أَخْ "؛ لِيَحْمِلَنِي خَلْفَهُ، قَالَتْ: فَاسْتَحْيَتْ وَعَرَفْتُ غَيْرَتَهُ قَالَتْ: قَالَ: " فَوَاللهِ لَحَمْلُكِ عَلَى رَأْسِكِ أَشَدُّ مِنْ رُكُوبِكِ مَعَهُ " قَالَتْ: حَتَّى أَرْسَلَ إِلِيَّ أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ بِخَادِمٍ تكْفِينِي سِيَاسَةَ الْفَرَسِ فَكَأَنَّمَا أَعْتَقَنِي رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ، عَنْ أَبِي كُرَيْبٍ، وَرَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ، عَنْ مَحْمُودٍ عَنْ أَبِي أُسَامَةَ.
Asma' bint Abi Bakr (may Allah be pleased with her) says: Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) married me when he had no land, wealth or slave, except a horse. She says: I used to bring fodder for the horse and do his work; I looked after the horse and crushed date-stones for it; I gave it water and sewed his leather bucket; and I kneaded dough, but I could not bake bread well. Ansari girls used to bake bread for me, and they were truthful women. She says: I used to carry date-stones on my head from the land of Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him), from a distance of two-thirds of a farsakh. She says: I was coming with the date-stones when I met the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), and with him was a group of Companions (may Allah be pleased with them). He (peace and blessings be upon him) called me and said: "Ride behind me." She says: I felt shy, and I knew the jealousy of my husband Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him). Zubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "By Allah, your carrying date-stones on your head is harder than your riding with him (peace and blessings be upon him)." She says: Then Abu Bakr al-Siddiq (may Allah be pleased with him) sent me a servant who relieved me of looking after the horse; it was as if he had set me free.
