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السنن الكبرى للبيهقي
Sunan al-Kubra al-Bayhaqi
كتاب الصداق
Book of the Dowry
باب: الرجل يتزوج بامرأة على حكمها
Chapter: A man marrying a woman on the condition that she decides the dowry
Bayhaqi 14426 — A man marrying a woman on the condition
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو، ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ، أنبأ الرَّبِيعُ، أنبأ الشَّافِعِيُّ، أنبأ عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ بْنِ أَبِي تَمِيمَةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سِيرِينَ، أَنَّ الْأَشْعَثَ بْنَ قَيْسٍ، صَحِبَ رَجُلًا فَرَأَى امْرَأَتَهُ فَأَعْجَبَتْهُ فَتُوُفِّيَ فِي الطَّرِيقِ فَخَطَبَهَا الْأَشْعَثُ بْنُ قَيْسٍ فَأَبَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَهُ إِلَّا عَلَى حُكْمِهَا فَتَزَوَّجَهَا عَلَى حُكْمِهَا ثُمَّ طَلَّقَهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ تَحْكُمَ، فَقَالَ احْكُمِي فَقَالَتْ: أُحَكِّمُ فُلَانًا وَفُلَانًا، رَقِيقٌ كَانُوا لِأَبِيهِ مِنْ تِلَادِهِ فَقَالَ: احْكُمِي غَيْرَ هَؤُلَاءِ فَأَبَتْ فَأَتَى عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ، فَقَالَ: يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ عَجَزْتُ ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ قَالَ: مَا هُنَّ قَالَ: عَشِقْتُ امْرَأَةً قَالَ: هَذَا مَا لَمْ تَمْلِكْ قَالَ: ثُمَّ تَزَوَّجْتُهَا عَلَى حُكْمِهَا ثُمَّ طَلَّقْتُهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ تَحْكُمَ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ: " امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ " قَالَ الشَّافِعِيُّ رَحِمَهُ اللهُ: يَعْنِي عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ لَهَا مَهْرُ امْرَأَةٍ مِنَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَيَعْنِي مِنْ نِسَائِهَا، وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ.
Muhammad bin Sirin (may Allah have mercy on him) said that Al-Ash'ath bin Qays (may Allah be pleased with him) travelled with a man and the man's wife pleased him greatly. The man died on the way, so Al-Ash'ath bin Qays (may Allah be pleased with him) proposed marriage to the woman, but she refused to marry him except on her own decision (as to the dowry). So Al-Ash'ath bin Qays (may Allah be pleased with him) married her on her own decision. Then Al-Ash'ath (may Allah be pleased with him) divorced her before she had decided, and said: Give your decision.
The woman said: I decide on such-and-such and such-and-such slaves, who were his father's inherited slaves. He said: Decide on something other than these. The woman refused. He came to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and said: O Commander of the Believers, I have been overcome three times. He asked: What are they? He said: I fell in love with a woman. He said: That is something you had no control over. He said: Then I married her on her own decision, then divorced her before she had decided. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: She is a woman of the Muslims. Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) meant that she has the dowry of a Muslim woman, that is, like the women of her own family.
The woman said: I decide on such-and-such and such-and-such slaves, who were his father's inherited slaves. He said: Decide on something other than these. The woman refused. He came to Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) and said: O Commander of the Believers, I have been overcome three times. He asked: What are they? He said: I fell in love with a woman. He said: That is something you had no control over. He said: Then I married her on her own decision, then divorced her before she had decided. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: She is a woman of the Muslims. Imam al-Shafi'i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) meant that she has the dowry of a Muslim woman, that is, like the women of her own family.
