«ألا تسمعون؟ إن الله لا يعذب بدمع العين ولا بحزن القلب ولكن يعذب بهذا - وأشار إلى لسانه - أو يرحم وإن الميت يعذب ببكاء أهله عليه»
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"Do you not hear? Indeed, Allah Almighty does not punish because of the tears of the eye or the grief of the heart; rather, He punishes or shows mercy because of this" - and he (peace and blessings be upon him) pointed towards his blessed mouth (that is, because of the tongue). "And indeed, the deceased is punished because of his family's weeping over him."
Hadith Referenceصحیح الجامع الصغیر / حرف الألف / 2647